Sometimes You Can't Make It O
U2 Lyrics


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Tough, you think you've got the stuff
You're telling me and anyone
You're hard enough

You don't have to put up a fight
You don't have to always be right
Let me take some of the punches
For you tonight

Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don't have to go it alone

And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
Sometimes you can't make it on your own

We fight all the time
You and I, that's alright
We're the same soul
I don't need, I don't need to hear you say
That if we weren't so alike
You'd like me a whole lot more

Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don't have to go it alone

And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
Sometimes you can't make it on your own

Say, say, say

I know that we don't talk
I'm sick of it all
Can you hear me when I
Sing, you're the reason I sing
You're the reason why the opera is in me

We're here
I've still got to let you know
A house doesn't make a home
Don't leave me here alone

And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you that makes it hard to let go
Sometimes you can't make it on your own
Sometimes you can't make it




Best you can do is to fake it
Sometimes you can't make it on your own

Overall Meaning

The song "Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own" by U2 is a heartfelt tribute to lead singer Bono's father, who passed away in 2001. The lyrics address the complicated relationship between a father and son, acknowledging that while they may not always see eye to eye, they ultimately share a deep love and respect for each other. The opening lines, "Tough, you think you've got the stuff/ You're telling me and anyone/ You're hard enough" suggest a stubbornness and a refusal to show vulnerability, yet the chorus emphasizes the importance of leaning on someone else during tough times. Bono sings, "You don't have to go it alone/ And it's you when I look in the mirror/ And it's you when I don't pick up the phone/ Sometimes you can't make it on your own."


The verses also touch on the similarities and differences between father and son, and the struggle to communicate effectively. Bono sings, "We fight all the time/ You and I, that's alright/ We're the same soul/ I don't need, I don't need to hear you say/ That if we weren't so alike/ You'd like me a whole lot more." These lines acknowledge the tension and differences between the two, but also emphasize that they are ultimately cut from the same cloth.


Overall, "Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own" is a powerful and emotional reflection on the complexities of familial relationships, and a touching tribute to a loved one who has passed away.


Line by Line Meaning

Tough, you think you've got the stuff
You believe you have all the qualities required to succeed


You're telling me and anyone
You are expressing this belief to others


You're hard enough
You think you are resilient and strong


You don't have to put up a fight
You don't need to always argue and resist


You don't have to always be right
You don't have to necessarily prove you are correct every time


Let me take some of the punches
I offer to support you and help you when things get tough


For you tonight
I am offering my assistance right now


Listen to me now
Please pay attention to what I am saying


I need to let you know
I want to communicate something important to you


You don't have to go it alone
You don't need to face your problems all by yourself


And it's you when I look in the mirror
You are a part of my identity, I see you in myself


And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
Even when I ignore your calls, you are still on my mind


Sometimes you can't make it on your own
Occasionally, we need support from others to make it through difficult situations


We fight all the time
We argue and dispute constantly


You and I, that's alright
Despite our disagreements, we are still okay


We're the same soul
We share a deep connection and common understanding


I don't need, I don't need to hear you say
You don't need to express your appreciation for me verbally


That if we weren't so alike
If we were different in some ways...


You'd like me a whole lot more
...you may have a better opinion of me


Say, say, say
I'm calling to you to pay attention to what I'm going to say next


I know that we don't talk
We barely communicate with each other


I'm sick of it all
This lack of communication is frustrating and unpleasant for me


Can you hear me when I
I hope I have your attention now


Sing, you're the reason I sing
You inspire me and give me a reason to create music


You're the reason why the opera is in me
You are the source of my passion and drive for music


We're here
We are in this together, present in this moment


I've still got to let you know
I still need to communicate something important to you


A house doesn't make a home
A physical structure is not enough to create a loving and comfortable living space


Don't leave me here alone
I need your company and support, I don't want to be on my own


And it's you that makes it hard to let go
It's difficult for me to move on from you because of our connection


Sometimes you can't make it on your own
Occasionally, we need support from others to make it through difficult situations


Sometimes you can't make it
In some instances, it is impossible to succeed or overcome a challenge


Best you can do is to fake it
In these situations, the only option may be to pretend or put on a facade


Sometimes you can't make it on your own
Occasionally, we need support from others to make it through difficult situations




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ADAM CLAYTON, DAVE EVANS, LARRY MULLEN, PAUL HEWSON

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@darkknight2304

Tough
You think you've got the stuff
You're telling me and anyone
You're hard enough
You don't have to put up a fight
You don't have to always be right
Let me take some of the punches
For you tonight
Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don't have to go it alone
And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
Sometimes you can't make it on your own
We fight all the time
You and I, that's alright
We're the same soul
I don't need, I don't need to hear you say
That if we weren't so alike
You'd like me a whole lot more
Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don't have to go it alone
And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
Sometimes you can't make it on your own
I know that we don't talk
I'm sick of it all
Can you hear me when I sing?
You're the reason I sing
You're the reason why the opera is in me
Hey now
Still got to let you know
A house doesn't make a home
Don't leave me here alone
And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you that makes it hard to let go
Sometimes you can't make it on your own
Sometimes you can't make it
Best you can do, is to fake it
Sometimes you can't make it on your own



@MrPge1970

My Dad died four years ago.

We had a typical Irish Dad/Son relationship for someone in his 70s and me in my 40s (now 50s).

I drove him to Beaumont for treatment for three years and he told me of all the traffic shortcuts (that were wrong!). But he wouldn't be told!

I went to see U2 in Croke Park in 85 when he got me tickets for my inter cert. And in 87, 89 and after that. Even if he didn't approve.

Thanks Dad.



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@StillnessofMind

They say " Time is a great healer..". that is the biggest lie and total fairytale. When you lose someone you love, you do not heal with time .. you learn to live with the loss, because, you have no choice. Love this song .. breaks my heart too. I lost my Dad in November 2020.

@Ellemtee749

@OPENYOUREYES88🌊🗽 Nah mate. Go the hell away please.

@NazriB

Lies again? Bob Porn Ugly University

@jeffdawson1680

Time does help you , until you can handle the pain . Great song!

@fayded99

That's because we never forget them!

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@Marzosio

I came here today, after reading the chapter in Bono's book: Surrender, in which he talks about the elationship with his father and the creation of this song. I was so moved by this chapter. I had to put the book down.

My father died when I was 13 years old, after a long struggle which he had with cancer. The house was no longer a home. It became empty. I missed him so much and the only place I had to run to was music. Music helped me to deal with the grief.

My oldest brother bought me a DVD of U2's show in Chicago (The Elevation Tour). I would put on that DVD and just shower myself with the music and shower my emotions with the music. I felt hurt and sad. I felt lonely. But the music was always there.

Thank you Bono for sharing a beautiful creation which came out of your grief, with us. Your band will always be my number one. Thank you. Mark

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