"Lose You to Love Me" is a song by American singer Selena Gomez. It was rel… Read Full Bio ↴"Lose You to Love Me" is a song by American singer Selena Gomez. It was released by Interscope Records on October 23, 2019, as the lead single from her upcoming third studio album, Rare. The song was written by Gomez, Julia Michaels, Justin Tranter, and its producers Mattman & Robin, with additional production by Finneas.

The song was a commercial and critical success, peaking at the top of the US Billboard Hot 100. Outside the United States, the song topped the charts in Canada and Ireland; and peaked within the top five in Australia, Austria, the Czech Republic, Estonia, Greece, Hungary, Latvia, Lithuania, Malaysia, New Zealand, Norway, Singapore, Slovakia, Portugal, Switzerland, and the United Kingdom; as well as the top 10 in Belgium, Denmark, Finland, Germany, Iceland, the Netherlands, and Sweden. It was named the second-best song of 2019 by Vulture, while Billboard named it the 23rd best.