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If I Were a Boy
Keiko Lyrics


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If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I'd roll outta bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted then go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
'Cause they'd stick up for me




If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone its broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone
I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home
To come home

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

It's a little too late for you to come back
Say its just a mistake
Think I'd forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you're just a boy
You don't understand
Yeah you don't understand
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
'Cause you've taken her for granted
And everything you have got destroyed
But you're just a boy

Overall Meaning

The song "If I Were a Boy" by Keiko is a reflective piece about how the male protagonist would behave if he were able to experience life as a boy. The song is powerful in that it boldly calls out to the listener, questioning about how they treat their significant other. The first verse of this song consists of a series of actions the singer would carry out differently if he were a man, calling into question the constraints of societal norms placed upon women. The singer imagines that he would dress however he pleased, socialize with whomever he chooses, and never face any judgment or repercussions for his actions since the guys would support him.


The second verse of the song focuses on empathy, with the singer attempting to comprehend what it's like to be a woman who's in love with a man that takes her for granted. He acknowledges that he would listen to her more, and he wouldn't take her for granted, forced to suffer the losses of her love. The chorus repeats, highlighting some of the singer's feelings about how he would behave if he were a man while emphasizing on the line "How it feels to love a girl"; a painful reminder that the listener may be recklessly neglecting the feelings of the person they love.


The third verse of the song sees the singer convinced that if he were a man, he would have the power and control of the relationship. He would tell people that his phone was off, he would make his own laws, and he would love his partner with dedication, knowing she would wait patiently for his return. Here, we see the singer's desire to subvert the norms, do what he pleases, and be treated as an equal in a relationship.


Some of the central themes in this song are gender norms, power dynamics within relationships, empathy, and self-reflection. The song effectively communicates these themes through the powerful lyrics of Keiko that are relatable to anyone who has been in love. It is a poignant and strong piece of music that successfully executed its aim to resonate with the listener.


Line by Line Meaning

If I were a boy
The singer wishes she was born a boy so that she could have more freedom in her actions and be accepted by society.


Even just for a day
She only wants to be a boy temporarily.


I'd roll outta bed in the morning
She would wake up without worrying about her appearance.


And throw on what I wanted then go
She could wear whatever she chose without judgment.


Drink beer with the guys
She could engage in typically male activities.


And chase after girls
She could pursue romantic interests without societal backlash.


I'd kick it with who I wanted
She would hang out with anyone without judgment.


And I'd never get confronted for it
She would not face any consequences or be scrutinized for her actions.


'Cause they'd stick up for me
Her male friends would defend her choices.


I think I could understand
She believes that if she became a boy, she would have better insight into the male experience.


How it feels to love a girl
She could empathize with loving someone of the opposite gender.


I swear I'd be a better man
She would use her newfound insight to be a better partner in a heterosexual relationship.


I'd listen to her
She would take the time to hear her partner's needs.


'Cause I know how it hurts
She would understand the pain of losing someone you love.


When you lose the one you wanted
She would know the feeling of heartbreak.


'Cause he's taken you for granted
She believes that men too often neglect or undervalue their female partners.


And everything you had got destroyed
This neglect can lead to the ruining of a meaningful relationship.


I would turn off my phone
She would prioritize her personal needs above her partner's constant communication.


Tell everyone its broken
She would lie about her phone's functionality to create distance with others.


So they'd think that I was sleeping alone
She would pretend to be alone to avoid unwanted attention or advances.


I'd put myself first
She would prioritize her own needs, whether over her partner's or society's expectations.


And make the rules as I go
She would not be constricted by traditional gender norms or expectations.


'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
She believes that her hypothetical female partner would remain loyal to her.


Waiting for me to come home
Her partner would patiently await her return.


It's a little too late for you to come back
The singer has already been hurt too much by her partner's actions.


Say its just a mistake
She does not believe her partner's contrite apology is enough to repair the damage done.


Think I'd forgive you like that
She would not easily forgive and forget.


If you thought I would wait for you
Her partner underestimated her self-respect and independence.


You thought wrong
Her partner's expectations of her prove erroneous.


But you're just a boy
The singer recognizes her partner's immaturity and lack of understanding.


You don't understand
Her partner does not grasp the complexity of love and relationships.


Until you lose the one you wanted
Her partner needs to experience heartbreak to learn from his mistakes.


'Cause you've taken her for granted
He will only realize the value of his female partner after he has mistreated or lost her.


And everything you have got destroyed
His carelessness and disregard will result in the destruction of his relationship.


But you're just a boy
The singer emphasizes that her partner's attitude and behavior are immature and unacceptable.




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