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D.I.Y
Paul Heaton Lyrics


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Some girls lose their boys after years
Some lose them right at the start
Standing in line, it's a question of time
Who's gonna be the next broken heart
But my heart belonged to a love so strong
I would love him 'til the day that I die
But I didn't lose my love to the Lord above
I lost him to a D.I.Y.

D, she was so determined



to take him right out of my hands
I, if you're idle enough
they can steal from the very first dance
Y, she was young and pretty
and young and pretty is better than I
But we gave them all our kisses
Now they found another Mrs
'Cause we lost him to a D.I.Y.

Some women feel if you put her on a seal
it will keep your fella out of reach
But it ain't no soul you can grab them from below
That's a lesson every woman can teach
But my man was just the sort you could trust
You could look a fella right in the eye
If it wasn't for deceiving
But suddenly he was leaving 'cause we lost him to a D.I.Y.

D, she was so determined
to take him right out of my hands
I, if you're idle enough
they can steal from the very first dance
Y, she was young and pretty
and young and pretty is better than I
But we gave them all our kisses
Now they found another Mrs
'Cause we lost him to a D.I.Y.

L – A – D – I – E – S
Come on girls, if she's wearing a dress
T – H – I – E and F
She got high heels and couldn't care less
W – O – M – E – N
Come on girls, it'll happen again
H – I – S – T – O – R – Y
Come on folks, I'ts just an ordinary guy

D, she was so determined
to take him right out of my hands
I, if you're idle enough
they can steal from the very first dance
Y Y Y, she was young and pretty
and young and pretty is better than I
But we gave them all our kisses
Now they found another Mrs
'Cause we lost him to a D.I.Y.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Paul Heaton & Jacqui Abbott's song D.I.Y. tells the story of a woman who lost her love to another woman. The singer mentions how it's not just those women who lose their boys after years, but also those who lose them right at the start. The central idea of the song is that sometimes, love may be lost to something as unexpected as DIY. The woman's heart belonged to a love so strong that she would love him until the day she died, but unfortunately, she lost him to a younger and prettier woman, who was determined to take him out of her hands. The singer laments that they gave him all their kisses, but D.I.Y got the better of them.


The lyrics also outline some of the efforts women put into keeping their men, such as putting them on a seal, but ultimately, it's not something that can guarantee their loyalty. The singer also acknowledges that her man was the type you could trust and look in the eye, but the sudden deception from D.I.Y was enough to make him leave. The song ends with a call to women and ladies to come together and realize that it could happen again because, in the end, it's just an ordinary guy.


Line by Line Meaning

Some girls lose their boys after years
Some women lose their partners after being together for a long time


Some lose them right at the start
Some women lose their partners at the beginning of a relationship


Standing in line, it's a question of time Who's gonna be the next broken heart
Waiting to find love is a risk, and it's uncertain who will have their heart broken next


But my heart belonged to a love so strong I would love him 'til the day that I die
The singer had a deep, unwavering love for her partner


But I didn't lose my love to the Lord above I lost him to a D.I.Y.
The singer didn't lose her partner because of a higher power, but because of an act of determination and effort ('do it yourself' or D.I.Y.) by someone else


D, she was so determined to take him right out of my hands
The person (whose name starts with 'D') was very determined to take the singer's partner away


I, if you're idle enough they can steal from the very first dance
If you're not actively showing affection or attention to your partner, someone else could come in and steal them away


Y, she was young and pretty and young and pretty is better than I
The person who took the singer's partner was younger and more attractive than she was


But we gave them all our kisses Now they found another Mrs 'Cause we lost him to a D.I.Y.
Even though the singer and her partner shared affection and intimacy, the person who took him away was able to do so because of their own efforts ('do it yourself' or D.I.Y.)


Some women feel if you put her on a seal it will keep your fella out of reach But it ain't no soul you can grab them from below That's a lesson every woman can teach
Some women may think they can control their partners' actions or affection, but in reality, people are free to make their own choices and can't be controlled by others


But my man was just the sort you could trust You could look a fella right in the eye If it wasn't for deceiving But suddenly he was leaving 'cause we lost him to a D.I.Y.
The singer's partner seemed trustworthy and genuine, but he ended up leaving her because of someone else's determined efforts ('do it yourself' or D.I.Y.)


L – A – D – I – E – S Come on girls, if she's wearing a dress T – H – I – E and F She got high heels and couldn't care less W – O – M – E – N Come on girls, it'll happen again H – I – S – T – O – R – Y Come on folks, I'ts just an ordinary guy
These lines seem to be a chorus or chant that encourages women to support each other and not let men make them feel inferior or compete against each other for love. The final line suggests that men are nothing special and can be ordinary and fallible.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: PAUL DAVID HEATON

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