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Brassneck
The Wedding Present Lyrics


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No, I sent you that letter To ask you if the end was worth the means Was there
really no in between? And I still don't feel better I just wondered if it
could be like before And I think you just made me sure! But then that's
typically you And I might have been a bit rude But I wrote it in a bad mood
I'm not being funny with you But it's hard to be engaging When the things you
love keep changing Brassneck, Brassneck I just decided I don't trust you
anymore I just decided I don't trust you anymore First time you came over
Do you remember saying then you'd stay for good? No I didn't think you would
Well we couldn't've been closer But it was different then and that's all in
the past There I've said it now at last! You grew up quicker than me I kept



so many old things I never stopped quite hoping I think I know what it means
It means I've got to grow up It means y Brassneck, Brassneck I just decided
I don't trust you anymore I just decided I don't trust you anymore I just
know, you weren't listening were you? Oh please go, whenever you prefer to I
said it means a lot, when you use an old phrase But then so what? We can't
have it both ways I know, you're not bothered are you Even so, I'm not going
to argue He won't object! Keep writing to me Just don't forget you ever knew
me

Overall Meaning

The Wedding Present's song Brassneck is a melancholic reflection on a relationship that has gone sour. The lyrics convey a sense of bitterness and disappointment as the singer questions whether the end was worth the means and whether there was really no in-between. The chorus contains the repeated declaration "Brassneck, Brassneck" which can be interpreted as a reference to the stubbornness of both parties in the relationship. The singer confesses that he doesn't trust his partner anymore and feels frustrated by the constant changes in their love. He longs for the stability of the past when they couldn't have been closer.


The second verse reminisces on the first time the couple met and how they promised to stay together for good. However, as time went on, they grew apart and the singer realizes that his partner has grown up quicker than he did. He kept on hoping things would stay the same, but he now realizes that he has to grow up and accept that change is inevitable. The final stanza contains a plea for the partner to keep writing to the singer, but not to forget that they ever knew each other.


Overall, Brassneck is a song filled with longing and regret. The singer questions whether their relationship was worth it and feels betrayed by the constant changes. However, despite these feelings, the singer is still holding on to the hope that the relationship can be saved.


Line by Line Meaning

No, I sent you that letter
I wrote you a letter to ask you about the outcome of our relationship


To ask you if the end was worth the means
I wanted to know if our breakup was worth going through all of the ups and downs of the relationship


Was there really no in between?
Did our relationship really have to be all or nothing? Was there no middle ground?


And I still don't feel better
Despite reaching out to you, I still don't feel any better about our breakup


I just wondered if it could be like before
I was hoping that we could rekindle our relationship and make things like they were in the past


And I think you just made me sure!
Your response to my letter has confirmed my suspicions that our relationship can't be salvaged


But then that's typically you
Your reaction to my letter is not surprising given your usual behavior


And I might have been a bit rude
I'm aware that my tone in the letter may have come off as rude


But I wrote it in a bad mood
I wrote the letter out of frustration and anger, which may have come through in my wording


I'm not being funny with you
I'm not trying to be sarcastic or humorous with what I wrote in the letter


But it's hard to be engaging
It's difficult to have a friendly conversation with you given our history


When the things you love keep changing
It's hard to maintain a connection when your interests and preferences always seem to be shifting


Brassneck, Brassneck
Repeating the chorus to emphasize the idea of distrust and disappointment


I just decided I don't trust you anymore
I've come to the conclusion that I can no longer trust you in this relationship


First time you came over
Recalling the early days of our courtship


Do you remember saying then you'd stay for good?
Reminiscing about when you made promises about the longevity of our relationship


No I didn't think you would
Realizing that your promise didn't mean anything in the end


Well we couldn't've been closer
We were very close at that time in our relationship


But it was different then and that's all in the past
Acknowledging that things were different back then and that we can't go back to that time


There I've said it now at last!
Finally admitting out loud that our past relationship is over


You grew up quicker than me
Recognizing that you matured faster than I did


I kept so many old things
Holding onto the past and not letting go of old memories


I never stopped quite hoping
Still having some hope that our relationship could be revived


I think I know what it means
Understanding what I need to do in order to move on from this relationship


It means I've got to grow up
Realizing that I need to mature and let go of the past in order to move forward


It means y
The ending of this line is hard to interpret, but it may simply be a continuation of the previous thought about growth and maturity


I just know, you weren't listening were you?
Feeling like you weren't really listening or understanding what I was trying to say in my letter


Oh please go, whenever you prefer to
Asking you to leave or end the conversation whenever you're ready


I said it means a lot, when you use an old phrase
Noticing that it's important to me when you use old phrases or recall past memories


But then so what?
Even though those memories are important, they don't change our current situation


We can't have it both ways
We can't have a romantic relationship based on past memories without actually working on our current issues


I know, you're not bothered are you
Feeling like you don't really care or are not invested in fixing our relationship


Even so, I'm not going to argue
Deciding not to argue or fight anymore over our relationship's problems


He won't object!
Referring to a third person who won't object to our breakup or the end of our relationship


Keep writing to me
Asking you to continue writing to me, regardless of the status of our relationship


Just don't forget you ever knew me
Asking you to remember the good times in our relationship, but realizing that our time together has ended




Lyrics © Sentric Music
Written by: DAVID GEDGE

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