Jolene
Dolly Parton Lyrics
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I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
Your beauty is beyond compare
With flaming locks of auburn hair
With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green
Your smile is like a breath of spring
Your voice is soft like summer rain
And I cannot compete with you
Jolene
He talks about you in his sleep
And there's nothing I can do to keep
From crying when he calls your name
Jolene
And I can easily understand
How you could easily take my man
But you don't know what he means to me
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
You could have your choice of men
But I could never love again
He's the only one for me
Jolene
I had to have this talk with you
My happiness depends on you
And whatever you decide to do
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him even though you can
Jolene, Jolene
Dolly Parton’s song “Jolene” is a heartbreaking plea of a woman to another woman, imploring her not to take her husband away. The song is a classic example of country music storytelling, with vivid imagery that helps reinforce the song’s message. The narrator, who is unnamed throughout the song, addresses Jolene, a beautiful woman with flaming locks of auburn hair, ivory skin, and emerald green eyes, who has managed to catch her husband’s attention.
The narrator acknowledges Jolene’s beauty and describes it in such detail that it’s clear she believes she cannot compete with her. The narrator’s husband talks about Jolene in his sleep, leaving the woman feeling powerless and heartbroken. She pleads with Jolene not to take away her man, mentioning that Jolene could have her pick of any man, but there’s no one else for her. The song is an emotional ballad that perfectly encapsulates the pain and desperation of a woman who is afraid of losing her husband to another woman.
One interesting fact about “Jolene” is that the song was inspired by a real-life encounter that Dolly Parton had with a young red-haired fan named Jolene. The woman had come up to Parton after a concert and told her that her husband was a huge fan, but Parton’s immediate reaction was jealousy. She even described Jolene as a beautiful “goddess” in the encounter. Then, Parton’s husband, who was waiting in the car, assured her that there was nothing to be jealous of. Parton realized how silly she’d been and wrote this song about the encounter.
Line by Line Meaning
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
The speaker is calling out the name of the person she is pleading with throughout the song.
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
The speaker is desperately asking Jolene not to take her romantic partner away from her.
Please don't take him just because you can
The speaker is warning Jolene that just because she is able to take the man away does not mean she should.
Your beauty is beyond compare
The speaker acknowledges Jolene's physical appearance as being exceptional.
With flaming locks of auburn hair
The speaker describes Jolene's hair as being a striking shade of red.
With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green
The speaker describes Jolene's complexion as being very light and her eyes as green.
Your smile is like a breath of spring
The speaker compliments Jolene's smile as being refreshing and uplifting.
Your voice is soft like summer rain
The speaker acknowledges Jolene's voice as being delicate and calming.
And I cannot compete with you
The speaker recognizes that she is unable to match Jolene's physical attributes, and therefore cannot compare or compete with her.
He talks about you in his sleep
The speaker reveals that her romantic partner often mentions Jolene even when he is unconscious and dreaming.
And there's nothing I can do to keep from crying when he calls your name
The speaker is overcome with emotion and tears up whenever she hears her partner say Jolene's name.
And I can easily understand how you could easily take my man
The speaker acknowledges that Jolene is desirable and could easily attract her romantic partner away from her.
But you don't know what he means to me
The speaker attempts to convey the intense emotional attachment she feels towards her partner, one which Jolene cannot understand.
You could have your choice of men
The speaker recognizes that Jolene has many options for romantic partners, due to her beauty.
But I could never love again
The speaker reveals that if she were to lose her current romantic partner, she feels incapable of loving anyone else in the same way.
He's the only one for me
The speaker asserts that her current romantic partner is the only love interest she has any desire for.
I had to have this talk with you
The speaker acknowledges the necessity of the conversation she is having with Jolene, despite it being difficult and emotional.
My happiness depends on you
The speaker reveals that her ultimate emotional state is dependent on Jolene's decisions and actions.
And whatever you decide to do
The speaker acknowledges that Jolene has a choice in the matter and may ultimately make a decision which negatively affects her.
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
The speaker repeats the name of the person she is pleading with, emphasizing the importance of the situation.
Please don't take him even though you can
The speaker repeats her request, emphasizing the seriousness of the matter.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Dolly Parton
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[LYRIC]
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
Your beauty is beyond compare
With flaming locks of auburn hair
With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green
Your smile is like a breath of spring
Your voice is soft like summer rain
And I cannot compete with you
Jolene
He talks about you in his sleep
And there's nothing I can do to keep
From crying when he calls your name
Jolene
And I can easily understand
How you could easily take my man
But you don't know what he means to me
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
You could have your choice of men
But I could never love again
He's the only one for me
Jolene
I had to have this talk with you
My happiness depends on you
And whatever you decide to do
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him even though you can
Jolene, Jolene
Alyssa S
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
Your beauty is beyond compare
With flaming locks of auburn hair
With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green
Your smile is like a breath of spring
Your voice is soft like summer rain
And I cannot compete with you
Jolene
He talks about you in his sleep
And there's nothing I can do to keep
From crying when he calls your name
Jolene
And I can easily understand
How you could easily take my man
But you don't know what he means to me
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
You could have your choice of men
But I could never love again
He's the only one for me
Jolene
I had to have this talk with you
My happiness depends on you
And whatever you decide to do
Jolene
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him even though you can
Jolene, Jolene
Akulina 11
What I love about this song is that she’s not like “fuck off you ugly bitch” she’s recognising her beauty but also expressing her insecurity about how fragile love is. It’s a very tender song but a powerful exclamation of her emotions.
Zari
why is this comment so underrated?
buttons anyone?
@Zari no idea honestly
PhySicS ArIeL
Damn.....that’s deep!!
Con Mcnard
My brother! So true! And heartfelt! Much love always!!!
Kaanfight
Couldn’t have summed it up better. It’s a very emotional song about insecurities and vulnerability, and how people will stay in bad relationships because they love others. It’s tragic.
Música Románticas Mix
I love the psychology of Dolly. She’s hyping Jolene up trying to tell her she has her pick of ANY MAN and just begging her not to take hers. It’s so beautifully done.
Sohna Singh
Can’t come up with original comments eh?
Deus † † Vult
@Sohna Singh "I got the name from a little girl that had come up to the stage for an autograph in my early, early career," Parton said in an interview with Norwegian television program Lydverket in 2008.
"And I said, 'you are the prettiest thing I've ever seen.' She had this red hair, green eyes and fair skin. And I said 'what is your name?' and she said 'Jolene.'
"I said. 'I'm gonna write a song about you and if you ever hear it, you'll know it was about you.'"
N
It's a good song but in 2023 now, you can't blame women again. If your man cheats on you, he is trash and the other woman isn't to blame.