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Boys Will Be Boys
Dua Lipa Lyrics


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It's second nature to walk home before the sun goes down
And put your keys between your knuckles when there's boys around
Isn't it funny how we laugh it off to hide our fear
When there's nothin' funny here (ah)
Sick intuition that they taught us so we won't freak out
We hide our figures, doin' anythin' to shut their mouths
We smile away to ease the tension so it don't go south
But there's nothin' funny now (ah)

When will we stop sayin' things
'Cause they're all listening?
No, the kids ain't alright
Oh, and they do what they see
'Cause it's all on TV
Oh, the kids ain't alright

Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women
Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women

I'm sure if there's somethin' that I can't find the words to say
I know that there will be a man around to save the day
And that was sarcasm, in case you needed it mansplained
I should've stuck to ballet (ah)

When will we stop sayin' things
'Cause they're all listening?
No, the kids ain't alright
Oh, and they do what they see
'Cause it's all on TV
Oh, the kids ain't alright

Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women
Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women

If you're offended by this song
You're clearly doin' somethin' wrong
If you're offended by this song
Then you're probably sayin'

Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women

When will we stop sayin' things
'Cause they're all listening?
No, the kids ain't alright
Oh, and they do what they see
'Cause it's all on TV
No, the kids ain't alright

Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women
Boys will be, boys will be
Boys will be, boys will be boys
But girls will be women

Overall Meaning

Dua Lipa's song "Boys Will Be Boys" is a powerful commentary on gender inequality and the way in which women are forced to navigate a world that is often hostile and dangerous. The opening verse describes the fear and anxiety that women feel when walking alone at night, highlighting the fact that this fear has become "second nature" for many women. The line "put your keys between your knuckles when there's boys around" is a reference to the self-defense tactic of holding keys between one's fingers, ready to use as a weapon if necessary. Lipa goes on to criticize the societal pressure on women to hide their bodies and keep quiet in order to avoid harassment or assault, saying that "We hide our figures, doin' anything to shut their mouths." The chorus juxtaposes the societal expectations placed on boys versus girls, saying "boys will be boys" but "girls will be women" - implying that women are held to a higher standard of behavior and maturity than men.


In the second verse, Lipa takes aim at the concept of "mansplaining" and the assumption that there will always be a man around to save the day. She sarcastically suggests that she should have stuck to ballet instead of trying to make her voice heard, in reference to the stereotype that women should be passive and unopinionated. The bridge of the song speaks directly to anyone who might be offended by the lyrics, challenging them to examine their own behavior and attitudes towards women.


Overall, "Boys Will Be Boys" is a powerful and timely commentary on the pervasive inequality and danger that women face in society, and a call to action for everyone to do better.


Line by Line Meaning

It's second nature to walk home before the sun goes down
Girls are conditioned to avoid being out at night to protect themselves.


And put your keys between your knuckles when there's boys around
Girls cannot trust boys so they have to take measures to protect themselves.


Isn't it funny how we laugh it off to hide our fear
Girls make light of the situation to cope with their fear and discomfort.


When there's nothin' funny here (ah)
Girls are in a serious situation and shouldn't have to deal with it.


Sick intuition that they taught us so we won't freak out
Girls have been conditioned to be wary of boys because they know how they can be.


We hide our figures, doin' anythin' to shut their mouths
Girls have to take measures to avoid being objectified and criticized by boys.


We smile away to ease the tension so it don't go south
Girls have to pretend everything is okay to avoid confrontation with boys.


But there's nothin' funny now (ah)
Girls are tired of pretending and it's time for boys to take responsibility for their actions.


When will we stop sayin' things 'Cause they're all listening?
Boys need to realize that their words and actions have consequences and that girls are always listening.


No, the kids ain't alright Oh, and they do what they see 'Cause it's all on TV
Society's portrayal of gender roles and relationships affects how young people behave and what they believe is acceptable.


Boys will be, boys will be Boys will be, boys will be boys But girls will be women
Boys have been excused for their behavior as 'boys being boys' without consequences, but girls are held accountable for their actions as they grow into women.


I'm sure if there's somethin' that I can't find the words to say I know that there will be a man around to save the day And that was sarcasm, in case you needed it mansplained
Girls are tired of being silenced and told what to do by men, and are tired of the expectation that a man will come to their rescue.


When will we stop sayin' things 'Cause they're all listening?
Boys need to realize that their words and actions have consequences and that girls are always listening.


No, the kids ain't alright Oh, and they do what they see 'Cause it's all on TV
Society's portrayal of gender roles and relationships affects how young people behave and what they believe is acceptable.


If you're offended by this song You're clearly doin' somethin' wrong If you're offended by this song Then you're probably sayin'
If someone is offended by the message of the song, they are proving the point that there are still issues with society's treatment of girls.


Boys will be, boys will be Boys will be, boys will be boys But girls will be women
Boys have been excused for their behavior as 'boys being boys' without consequences, but girls are held accountable for their actions as they grow into women.


When will we stop sayin' things 'Cause they're all listening?
Boys need to realize that their words and actions have consequences and that girls are always listening.


No, the kids ain't alright
Young people are struggling with issues related to gender and need support and change in society.


Boys will be, boys will be Boys will be, boys will be boys But girls will be women
Boys have been excused for their behavior as 'boys being boys' without consequences, but girls are held accountable for their actions as they grow into women.


Boys will be, boys will be Boys will be, boys will be boys But girls will be women
Boys have been excused for their behavior as 'boys being boys' without consequences, but girls are held accountable for their actions as they grow into women.




Lyrics Ā© BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Dua Lipa, Justin Drew Tranter, Kennedi Kathyrn Rae Lykken, Jason Gregory Evigan

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@izabelegulaja8427

I'm scrolling through so many top comments seeing people get attacked by men saying feminism is bad. I'm going to get attacked for the following but I don't even care anymore.

Feminism isn't
Women > men
Its
Women = men
Feminism isn't a bad thing. I am in no way excusing women to silent men, that's just terrible. A true feminist will advocate for both mens and womens rights.

A lot of people have also been saying its ridiculous that the song was made just about women. I'm not saying that men don't get sexually harassed or raped, it just happens more to women. This song was made to spread awareness about womens problems, it doesn't say mens problems don't exist. Its a bit like it someone makes a video educating people on cancer they don't get attacked because other people have heart disease and they should've included both. When people talk about the high rates of female sexual harassment and rape, they say men have it harder because the suicide rates are higher. We understand the suicide rates are higher, and that is a problem, but people don't then attack you saying 'but women also commit suicide'. In fact I've had many suicide attempts but I still support videos on mens suicide rates, mainly because I can understand the priority here. This is our point, sexual harassment doesn't only happen to women , but it happens more. The first time I've been sexually harassed I was 11, it was my uncle. Since then I've hadrandom guys try to hold my hands and etc. That's my reason for being scared of men. I saw someone comment that a 25 year old women ran away from the when they were 16, during the night. They called it ridiculous.may seem ridiculous 2 you but u don't know what that person have been through . There are certainly points i haven't proved in this comment and people might attack me with those but in that case I'll just edit it. I don't care whether or not you attack me.



@_Dreamer_9306

When I was 11 years old, I got sexually harassed. I never opened up about this story but I feel like I need to share it and get it out of my chest.

This happened 4 years ago.
It was the afternoon,I went to the beach with my aunt, her friends and my younger brother.
We had a small picnic on the sand then after half an hour decided to go swimming. Both me and my brother were like 10 or 5 meters away from our aunt swimming. She was on the other side with her friends. While me and my younger brother were playing in the water and splashing each other. Suddenly, a strange man came to us in the water and started talking to us. He carried my little brother on his back while swimming and played with him and I generally thought he was just a friendly stranger. Few minutes later, he left my brother swim by himself and he stood in front of me. He started slowly touching me in places he shouldn't be. He literally groped me, but I was too innocent and confused to understand what was happening.. I just stood there frozen with a puzzled and scared expression. I'll never forget the disgusting grin he had on his face.

I couldn't talk to my aunt about it, even though I had the chance to tell her about what happened when the man was still there. I couldn't process what happened and I felt uncomfortable about it for a few days.

Two years later, I realized that I had been sexually harassed by a pedophile. And I realized what had really happened. Ever since then, it's became my trauma. I felt guilty about it for a while because I didn't tell anyone. I also felt worried about the other girls that disgusting beings like him would assault in the future.

I wish my parents told me more about this world, but I had to learn it all the hard way. I wish I would've been taught earlier to value my body and not let anyone just touch me like this.

But it has already happened, and I learned to move on and be careful. And to be honest, I'm proud of who I became today. I'm braver now and know how to take care of myself. I have had a couple of incidents where I stood up for myself. Whether it's when I get catcalled or leered at by creeps from my balcony. I'm the last girl to let it slide!

I just love this song so much because it's relatable for me and because the line "but girls will be women" makes me feel strong.

Edit: I just wanna thank everybody's considerate replies to my comment. I still remember this every now and then, along with a few other terrible incidents and shed tears. When I do, I like to often visit back my comment here and read your replies. (Although I don't like listening to the song anymore because it reminds me of my trauma.) Thank you all, truly, for making me feel heard.. ā¤



All comments from YouTube:

@leciax3360

This is not a song itā€™s an anthem

@ravenchloe7

YES! YESS!! YESSS!!!

@karisjoy5348

YES

@audrina5897

Yes! Boys Will be boys, but girls will be women!!

@loliglosscosmetics8012

Yes

@acesofaros

@@obodoyo you didnā€™t understand

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@chloe-qs7ue

itā€™s so weird how when weā€™re children, weā€™re treated like adults but when weā€™re adults, weā€™re treated like children

@thisistinnytrying

And teens are treaded like kids and excepted to act like adults

@tahiyatchy

I remember seeing someone say that they only really remember being catcalled a lot as a teenager and that really hit

@almachristiana7075

they adultify girls and infantilize women because that's how they're going to be able to justify unsolicitedly sexualizing a woman regardless of her age.

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