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That's The Way
Jo Dee Messina Lyrics


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Everybody wants an easy ride
On the merry-go-round that we call life
Take your drive on cruise control
Then you wait to find it's a winding road
I had my dreams in view
When the money ran out and the engine blew

Hung my tears out to dry
Then my dreams fell out of that clear blue sky
And I, I was walkin' the clouds
Feelin' so safe and sound
Then somethin' else knocks me down

Well, oh, that's the way it is (that's the way it is)
You gotta roll with the punches
That's the way it goes (that's the way it goes)
You gotta bend when the wind blows
You live, you learn, you crash and burn
It's hit or miss (that's the way)
And that's the way it is

One fine day, you wake up
Completely, hopelessly fallen in love
He's just what you're lookin' for
The only problem is that the man's not sure
Another guy'll give you everything
Only problem is you don't feel a thing
Well, I know from experience
Nothin's ever gonna make perfect sense
Oh, one day you get what you want
But it's not what you think
Then you get what you need

Well, oh, that's the way it is (that's the way it is)
You gotta roll with the punches
That's the way it goes (that's the way it goes)
You gotta bend when the wind blows
You live, you learn, you crash and burn
It's hit or miss (that's the way)
And that's the way it is

Yeah, they say your soul is growin'
But sometimes I feel like throwin' somethin'

And that's the way it is
You gotta roll with the punches
And that's the way it goes
You gotta bend when the wind blows
That's the way it is (that's the way it is)
You gotta roll with the punches
That's the way it goes (that's the way it goes)
You gotta bend when the wind blows

You live, you learn
You crash and burn
It's hit or miss, oh (that's the way it is)
And that's the way it is

That's the way it is (oh, that's the way it is)
You gotta roll with the punches
Yeah, that's the way it goes (that's the way it is)
Whoa-whoa-whoa-whoa
That's the way it is (that's the way it is)
You gotta roll with the punches
Yeah, that's the way it goes (oh)
Whoa-whoa-whoa-whoa (you gotta bend when the wind blows)
That's the way it is (oh, that's the way it goes)
You gotta roll with the punches (that's the way it is)
Yeah, that's the way it goes (that's the way it goes)
Whoa-whoa-whoa-whoa (oh yeah)
That's the way it is
You gotta roll with the punches

Overall Meaning

The song "That's the Way" by Jo Dee Messina explores the challenges, struggles, and setbacks of life. The opening lines paint a picture of the expectations people have, hoping for an easy ride on life's merry-go-round, but it turns out that the ride is much bumpier than anticipated. The singer acknowledges the road will be winding and unpredictable and describes how she had her dreams in mind when the money ran out, and the engine blew. She then hung her tears out to dry, feeling safe and secure, only to be knocked down by something else.


The chorus, "That's the Way It Is," emphasizes the theme of resilience and adaptability in life. The singer says that you have to roll with the punches, bend when the wind blows, and live and learn from both successes and failures because life is hit or miss. She then repeats the phrase "That's the way it is," emphasizing that the challenges form an essential part of life regardless of our expectations.


The second verse is about love and relationships. The singer says that we may meet someone who seems perfect, but they are uncertain, or we may find someone who is willing to give us everything, but we don't feel anything. She once again emphasizes that nothing in life will ever make perfect sense, but one day we might get what we want, only to realize it's not what we thought we wanted, and we'll eventually get what we need.


Overall, the song teaches us to embrace life's twists and turns, to adapt and adjust our expectations, to be resilient, and to keep a positive attitude. The song is a reminder that life is unpredictable, and setbacks are inevitable, but the key to success is to learn from them, embrace them, and keep moving forward.


Line by Line Meaning

Everybody wants an easy ride
Everyone desires a life without troubles


On the merry-go-round that we call life
Life is like a never-ending cycle


Take your drive on cruise control
Live your life without worry


Then you wait to find it's a winding road
Life always has unexpected turns


I had my dreams in view
I had a clear vision for my future


When the money ran out and the engine blew
I faced financial problems and an unexpected obstacle


Hung my tears out to dry
I overcame my sadness and moved on


Then my dreams fell out of that clear blue sky
My aspirations were unexpectedly shattered


And I, I was walkin' the clouds
I felt happy and content with my life


Feelin' so safe and sound
I felt secure in my current situation


Then somethin' else knocks me down
Unexpected events ruin my feeling of security


Well, oh, that's the way it is (that's the way it is)
Life is unpredictable


You gotta roll with the punches
Adapt and overcome challenges


That's the way it goes (that's the way it goes)
That's how life works


You gotta bend when the wind blows
Be flexible when faced with change


You live, you learn, you crash and burn
Life is full of ups and downs


It's hit or miss (that's the way)
Success is not guaranteed


And that's the way it is
That's just how life is


One fine day, you wake up
One day you might wake up happy


Completely, hopelessly fallen in love
You might fall in love without reservation


He's just what you're lookin' for
You find the perfect partner


The only problem is that the man's not sure
Your partner may not feel the same way


Another guy'll give you everything
Another person may offer you everything you want


Only problem is you don't feel a thing
You might not feel a connection with that person


Well, I know from experience
I have learned from past experiences


Nothin's ever gonna make perfect sense
Life is never perfect


Oh, one day you get what you want
You might eventually get what you want


But it's not what you think
However, it might not be what you expected


Then you get what you need
You might not get what you want, but what you need


Yeah, they say your soul is growin'
People say you're growing and learning with each experience


But sometimes I feel like throwin' somethin'
However, sometimes I feel frustrated




Lyrics Ā© BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Annie Leslie Roboff, Mary Holladay Lamar

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Miss this kind of country...

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Me too

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Definitely a unique country act.

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@Lanae8199

i was 19 when this song first came out back in 2000. I still love it because it takes me back to my youth. I am now 42, and dreading going to work this morning. But this video is a great way to start my day. It should have more views.

@Krissy_Bunnie

Rediscovering all the songs I grew up with as a kid :')

@joremyth2321

I thought I found them all years ago. What a treat.

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