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Ex's & Oh's
Elle King Lyrics


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Well, I had me a boy, turned him into a man
I showed him all the things that he didn't understand
Whoa, and then I let him go

Now, there's one in California who's been cursing my name
'Cause I found me a better lover in the UK
Hey, hey, until I made my getaway

One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
'Cause I'm the best baby that they never gotta keep
One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
They always wanna come, but they never wanna leave

Ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me
Like ghosts they want me to make 'em all
They won't let go
Ex's and oh's

I had a summer lover down in New Orleans
Kept him warm in the winter, left him frozen in the spring
My, my, how the seasons go by

I get high, and I love to get low
So the hearts keep breaking, and the heads just roll
You know that's how the story goes

One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
'Cause I'm the best baby that they never gotta keep
One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
They always wanna come, but they never wanna leave

Ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me
Like ghosts they want me to make 'em all
They won't let go

My ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me
Like ghosts they want me to make 'em all
They won't let go
Ex's and oh's

One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
Climbing over mountains and a-sailing over seas
One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
They always wanna come, but they never wanna leave

My ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me
Like ghosts they want me to make 'em all
They won't let go

Ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me
Like ghosts they want me to make 'em all
They won't let go
Ex's and oh's

Overall Meaning

Elle King's hit song "Ex's & Oh's" was released in 2014 and is about a woman who has had a string of failed relationships, but instead of being upset about it, she feels empowered by it. In the opening lyrics, King sings "Well, I had me a boy, turned him into a man, I showed him all the things that he didn't understand, Whoa, and then I let him go." Here, she is expressing that she takes pride in providing a learning experience for her past partners, but at some point, they no longer fulfilled her needs, so she moved on.


The chorus "One, two, three, they gonna run back to me, 'cause I'm the best baby that they never gotta keep, one, two, three, they gonna run back to me, they always wanna come, but they never wanna leave" depicts the idea that despite the failed relationships, these ex-lovers always come back seeking her love and attention, but they never stay. The line "Ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me like ghosts, they want me to make 'em all, they won't let go" illustrates how these past romantic experiences continue to be a part of her life and how they still affect her.


As the song progresses, King sings about her summer lover in New Orleans, who she kept warm in the winter but left frozen in the spring, highlighting her tendency to move on quickly. The line "I get high, and I love to get low, so the hearts keep breaking, and the heads just roll, you know that's how the story goes" depicts how she enjoys the highs and lows of love, even if it means that it doesn't work out in the end.


Overall, "Ex's & Oh's" is about a woman who owns her past relationships, embraces her freedom, and doesn't let the ghosts of the past hold her back.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, I had me a boy, turned him into a man
I was in a relationship with a boy and helped him mature into a man through my guidance and teachings.


I showed him all the things that he didn't understand
During our relationship, I educated him and introduced him to things he previously hadn't experienced or comprehended.


Whoa, and then I let him go
However, after all that, I ended the relationship.


Now, there's one in California who's been cursing my name
One of my previous lovers who lives in California now resents me for ending our relationship.


'Cause I found me a better lover in the UK
I found a new partner who I believe to be superior to my previous lover, and they live in the UK.


Hey, hey, until I made my getaway
I didn't leave my previous lover until I was certain I had found someone better.


One, two, three, they gonna run back to me
My exes often try to come back into my life.


'Cause I'm the best baby that they never gotta keep
They believe I'm the best lover they've had, but they were never able to keep me.


They always wanna come, but they never wanna leave
They have a tendency to want to stay in my life, but as soon as they realize they can't have me, they want to leave again.


Ex's and the oh, oh, oh's they haunt me
The memories of my exes and the good times we shared linger and continue to affect my current relationships.


Like ghosts they want me to make 'em all They won't let go Ex's and oh's
The memory of my exes never seems to fade away, and they always resurface in my mind, making it hard for me to move on completely.


I had a summer lover down in New Orleans
I had an intimate relationship with someone during the summer while I was in New Orleans.


Kept him warm in the winter, left him frozen in the spring
I provided warmth and companionship to my summer lover during the cold months, but then I abruptly left in the spring.


My, my, how the seasons go by
The passage of time and the changing of seasons can evoke memories and emotions associated with past relationships.


I get high, and I love to get low
I have a tendency to fluctuate between highs and lows in my emotional state.


So the hearts keep breaking, and the heads just roll
As a result of my emotional rollercoaster, my partners often feel heartbreak and confusion.


You know that's how the story goes
This situation is familiar to me, and it's the same pattern that always seems to repeat itself.


Climbing over mountains and a-sailing over seas
My exes will go to great lengths, even crossing vast distances and overcoming obstacles, in order to try to win me back.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Dave Richard Bassett, Tanner Schneider

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@monicawilliams6846

That raspy voice is everything😍

@subjectdeath4816

michael mede your right! About yourself :3

@weirdmcdermott1253

@michael mede I mine as well be on you're side because i have nothing else to do

@idkwhoiam1012

weird McDermott that literally makes no sense :/

@gr33nv0idx4

michael mede racist.

@fbi1819

@michael mede lol

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@Mr.Liam.

Love the ‘raspyness’ to her voice it’s so unique.

@josephh3696

Agreed very much so

@fruity3693

She sounds very similar to sia i noticed

@JoelMatee

Mixed between ‘sia’ and ‘tones and I’

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