Bare
The Cure Lyrics
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You'd better say it now
Anything but "stay"
Just say it now
We know we've reached the end
We just don't know how
"well at least we'll still be friends"
Yeah one last useless vow
"there are different ways to live"
Yeah I know that stuff
"other ways to give"
Yeah all that stuff
But holding onto used to be
Is not enough
Memory's not life
And it's not love
We should let it all go
It never stays the same
So why does it hurt me like this
When you say that I've changed?
When you say that I've aged?
Say I'm afraid
And all the tears you cry
They're not tears for me
Regrets about your life
They're not regrets for me
It never turns out how you want
Why can't you see?
It all just slips away
It always slips away
Eventually
So if you've got nothing left to say
Just say goodbye
Turn your face away
And say goodbye
You know we've reached the end
You just don't know why
And you know we can't pretend
After all this time
So just let it all go
Nothing ever stays the same
So why does it hurt me like this
To say that I've changed?
To say that I've aged?
Say I'm afraid
But there are long long nights when I lay awake
And I think of what I've done
Of how I've thrown my sweetest dreams away
And what I've really become
And however hard I try
I will always feel regret
However hard I try
I will never forget
I will never forget
The song "Bare" by The Cure speaks about the end of a relationship and the struggles of moving on. The first stanza encourages the other person to speak their mind truthfully and not offer empty promises of friendship. This highlights the frustration and sadness that comes with the end of a relationship, where one person may try to hold on to the past and the other is ready to move on. The chorus acknowledges that everything changes and that holding on to the way things used to be is not enough. The pain of change is felt heavily when someone says that you have changed, and the fear and regret that come with growing older are difficult to let go of.
The second verse highlights the idea that the tears and regrets of a failed relationship are not solely the responsibility of one person. Both parties will have regrets and feel the weight of losing something that once brought them joy. The lyrics convey a sense of loss and acceptance that the relationship has ended and that letting go is necessary. The final stanza describes the sleepless nights where one reflects on their actions and the potential future that could have been. It emphasizes the regret we feel in moving on and the difficult process of forgetting someone that was once important to us.
Line by Line Meaning
If you've got something left to say
If you still have something you need to tell me
You'd better say it now
Do not wait any longer to say it
Anything but 'stay'
I do not want you to tell me to stay because we both know it is the end
Just say it now
Speak the truth now, no matter how difficult it might be
We know we've reached the end
We acknowledge that our relationship is coming to an end
We just don't know how
We do not know how to deal with the situation
"Well at least we'll still be friends"
The phrase is a cliche way of ending a relationship, but in reality, it rarely works out that way
Yeah one last useless vow
The promise to remain friends is meaningless and cannot change the fact that the relationship is over
"There are different ways to live"
People have different beliefs and lifestyles
Yeah I know that stuff
I am familiar with this concept
"Other ways to give"
There are other ways people can give, apart from the traditional ones
Yeah all that stuff
I understand what you are saying
But holding onto used to be
Clutching onto things that have already passed and are no longer relevant
Is not enough
That alone is unsatisfying and cannot bring back what has been lost
Memory's not life
Memories cannot replace life, they can only remind us of what was once there
And it's not love
Just holding onto memories and words cannot bring back the love that once existed
We should let it all go
We need to move on from the past
It never stays the same
Things change, and we cannot hold onto how things once were
So why does it hurt me like this
Even though I understand this, it still hurts me
When you say that I've changed?
Accusations of changing bring up negative feelings and cause pain
When you say that I've aged?
Likewise, comments about my age are hurtful
Say I'm afraid
Admit that the thought of change and losing the familiar is scary
And all the tears you cry
I understand that you are crying
They're not tears for me
But I also know it is not about me
Regrets about your life
Your tears are about your own regrets
They're not regrets for me
They are things that I cannot change and should not internalize
It never turns out how you want
Sometimes things do not go as planned
Why can't you see?
Why can you not understand that things do not always turn out the way we expect them to?
It all just slips away
Things can quickly be lost, and you cannot hold on by sheer willpower
It always slips away
Anything can and will slip away, eventually
So if you've got nothing left to say
If there is nothing left to say
Just say goodbye
Say goodbye to me
Turn your face away
Look away, and do not look back
And say goodbye
Make it clear that it is goodbye
You know we've reached the end
We both recognize that it is over
You just don't know why
But we do not understand why it has to be this way
And you know we can't pretend
We cannot fake it or ignore the reality of the situation
After all this time
In spite of the time we have spent together, it has come to this
But there are long long nights when I lay awake
Sometimes, when I am alone, I think about everything
And I think of what I've done
I consider my regrets and my mistakes
Of how I've thrown my sweetest dreams away
I realize that some of my biggest dreams have gone unfulfilled
And what I've really become
I reflect on who I am now versus who I once envisioned being
And however hard I try
Even if I put in a lot of effort
I will always feel regret
I will never be able to fully forgive myself
However hard I try
No matter what I do
I will never forget
The memory of what has happened will always stay with me
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ROBERT JAMES SMITH, SIMON GALLUP, ROGER O'DONNELL, PERRY BAMONTE, JASON TOOP COOPER
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