Don't Ask Me to Explain
of Montreal Lyrics
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If you're hiding who you are?
Don't ask me to explain.
Who are you hiding you from,
Across the table with a penny in each eye?
Don't ask me to explain.
I'd like to marry all of my close friends,
And live in a big house together by an angry sea.
Am I the devil's marbles don't move on without me
Who will be watching my body when I sleep?
Who will I believe in?
How am I supposed to let it show when I don't even know?
Don't ask me to explain.
Besides, I don't want to be the one whose coming out first,
I'd really like to but I'm just too shy.
Don't ask me to explain.
I'd want to marry all of my close friends,
And live in a big house together by an angry sea.
Am I the devil's marbles don't move on without me
Who will be watching my body when I sleep?
Who will I believe in?
It's so easy to lie to myself
And pretend that I could love you but I can't
The lyrics of "Don't Ask Me to Explain" by of Montreal present a complex and multilayered exploration of identity, sexuality, and social norms. The singer of the song struggles to connect with others and feel authentic in their own skin. They question whether it's possible to truly know someone else and love them when they are hiding parts of themselves. The line "Who are you hiding you from, across the table with a penny in each eye?" suggests that the person they are speaking to is not being truthful or open with them, and they are struggling to understand why.
The singer also shares their own desires and fears, confessing that they would like to marry all of their close friends and live in a big house by the sea. This unconventional desire goes against societal norms and expectations, which is reinforced by the line "I'd really like to but I'm just too shy". The singer is torn between their desires and the fear of social rejection and judgment. The line "Who will be watching my body when I sleep? Who will I believe in?" indicates a sense of vulnerability and a lack of trust towards others.
The chorus repeats throughout the song, serving as a refrain and emphasizing the singer's refusal to explain or justify themselves to others. They feel that they should not be forced to explain or apologize for their desires, beliefs, or identity.
Overall, "Don't Ask Me to Explain" is a powerful and introspective song that invites the listener to reflect on their own struggles with authenticity, identity, and societal expectations.
Line by Line Meaning
How will I ever know you enough to love you
I can't love you if you keep hiding who you really are
If you're hiding who you are?
It's hard to love someone who's not being their authentic self
Don't ask me to explain.
I can't explain why it's difficult to love someone who's not being themselves
Who are you hiding you from,
Why are you hiding who you are from me?
Across the table with a penny in each eye?
Sitting in front of me but not really present or honest
I'd like to marry all of my close friends,
I value deep connections with my friends and wish we could all live together
And live in a big house together by an angry sea.
I want to live with my friends in a dramatic, intense environment
Am I the devil's marbles don't move on without me
I worry that I'm holding others back or causing chaos
Who will be watching my body when I sleep?
Who can I trust to have my back when I'm most vulnerable?
Who will I believe in?
Who can I trust to be honest with me and support me?
How am I supposed to let it show when I don't even know?
I can't express my true feelings if I'm not sure what they are
Besides, I don't want to be the one whose coming out first,
I don't want to be the first to admit my feelings or true self
I'd really like to but I'm just too shy.
I want to be honest and authentic, but it's difficult for me
It's so easy to lie to myself
It's easy to deceive myself and pretend
And pretend that I could love you but I can't
I can't force myself to love someone who's not being honest with me or themselves
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KEVIN BARNES
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