The Curse of Being a Girl
Kashmir Lyrics
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The worst noise
Is when you are keeping quiet
Seing now the kind of girl
You will dramatise, traumatise
Don't fold your hands, don't hold your tongue
The other girls will try to prove you wrong
The words will torture like a storm
You can't step aside, you can't resign
It's just the curse of being a girl
Tonight you must hold your head up high
Be aware that you're the purest pearl
Tonight you'll blow reflections back in their eyes
You're reaching out to grab his hand
He must be the worlds most tired man
And so began his compliments
If he sees it all he must use it all
It should be unforgettable
The crowded skies should be convertible
And in the end in this smokey hole
Full of concubines
And replicants
It's the curse of being a girl
Tonight you can hardly make the change
Look around it's more than half the world tonight
Who must go through that same rage
The lyrics of Kashmir's song "The Curse of Being a Girl" highlight the struggles and challenges that come with being a girl in a society that often marginalizes and diminishes their worth and value. The song emphasizes the difficulties that girls go through when they are expected to stay quiet and put up with the negativity that comes their way. The lyrics suggest that pretending to be alright and keeping quiet is not the best way to deal with the challenges that come with being a girl. The song advocates for speaking up and standing up against those who seek to belittle and criticize girls for just being themselves.
The lyrics also address issues of sexual objectification and harassment that girls face on a daily basis. The song speaks of the challenges of being a girl who is expected to attract and please men wherever she goes. The lyrics mention how guys often use flattery to get what they want from girls but offer no lasting commitment. The song acknowledges that we live in a world that often exploits and commodifies girls’ bodies for the pleasure of men. The Curse of Being a Girl is an emotional and thought-provoking song that invites listeners to reflect on how our society treats girls.
Line by Line Meaning
You pretend that you're allright
You put up a facade of being okay and hide your true feelings
The worst noise
The most uncomfortable silence when you suffer in silence
Is when you are keeping quiet
It's difficult to express your true feelings as a girl and stay silent
Seing now the kind of girl
People have preconceived notions of how a girl should act
You will dramatise, traumatise
Not conforming to gender standards can lead to being ridiculed and ostracized
Don't fold your hands, don't hold your tongue
Speak out and don't let anyone silence or stifle you
The other girls will try to prove you wrong
There is a sense of competition among girls, leading to tearing each other down
The words will torture like a storm
Words can be just as painful and damaging as a natural disaster
You can't step aside, you can't resign
You can't escape or give up the fight for equality
It's just the curse of being a girl
Being born as a girl comes with inherent disadvantages and societal expectations
Tonight you must hold your head up high
Despite the challenges, you must remain confident and strong
Be aware that you're the purest pearl
Recognize your worth and value as a person
Tonight you'll blow reflections back in their eyes
You will confront those who try to bring you down and make them see their own flaws
You're reaching out to grab his hand
Seeking support and comfort from a man, who should be an ally in the fight for gender equality
He must be the worlds most tired man
Men who refuse to acknowledge and help with gender inequality are failing in their duty as human beings
And so began his compliments
Men often try to gain the favor of women through empty words and flattery
If he sees it all he must use it all
Men who are privileged enough to see and understand the gender inequality must use their power to change it
It should be unforgettable
The fight for gender equality should be memorable and impactful
The crowded skies should be convertible
The world should be able to change and adapt to be more inclusive and accepting of all genders
And in the end in this smokey hole
Despite the challenges, we must persist in the fight against gender inequality
Full of concubines and replicants
Society often views women as mere objects or copies, rather than individuals with their own thoughts and feelings
Tonight you can hardly make the change
Changing society's view of women and gender roles is a slow and difficult process
Look around it's more than half the world tonight
Women make up more than half the world's population, yet they still face unequal treatment and discrimination
Who must go through that same rage
Women around the world are fighting against gender inequality and discrimination, and the fight is far from over
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@93dannylove
You pretend that you're allright
The worst noise
Is when you are keeping quiet
Seing now the kind of girl
you will dramatise, traumatise
Don't fold your hands, don't hold your tounge
The other girls will try to prove you wrong
The words will torture like a storm
you can't step aside, you can't resign
It's just the curse of being a girl
tonight you must hold your head up high
Be aware that you're the purest pearl
Tonight you'll blow reflections back in their eyes
You're reaching out to grab his hand
He must be the worlds most tired man
and so began his compliments
If he sees it all he must use it all
It should be unforgettable
The crowded skies should be convertible
And in the end in this smokey hole
Full of concubines
and replicants
It's the curse of being a girl
Tonight you can hardly make the change
Look around it's more than half the world tonight
Who must go through that same rage
@joobence94
Kasper's face popping in randomly kinda snaps me out of the video's feel, but I love the song and the concept of the video, VERY much.
@magicmoonart
I agree, though I thought the whole thing was pointless and the song boring.
@93dannylove
You pretend that you're allright
The worst noise
Is when you are keeping quiet
Seing now the kind of girl
you will dramatise, traumatise
Don't fold your hands, don't hold your tounge
The other girls will try to prove you wrong
The words will torture like a storm
you can't step aside, you can't resign
It's just the curse of being a girl
tonight you must hold your head up high
Be aware that you're the purest pearl
Tonight you'll blow reflections back in their eyes
You're reaching out to grab his hand
He must be the worlds most tired man
and so began his compliments
If he sees it all he must use it all
It should be unforgettable
The crowded skies should be convertible
And in the end in this smokey hole
Full of concubines
and replicants
It's the curse of being a girl
Tonight you can hardly make the change
Look around it's more than half the world tonight
Who must go through that same rage
@klaatubaradanikto1490
they're both essentially the same people in that it doesn't matter that they're different--they're just who they are, just like us, yet they still receive reactions and reception of all types--praise, disdain, objectification, desire, indifference. there's nothing wrong or right about either of them. what we see in them is what we see of ourselves and each other.
@prodajie
Agreed! but, I also saw boobs.
@hobblecocks
Denmark is my favourite of the Nordic countries. The people there are so warm and friendly and always made me feel at home. Basically, I love Denmark.
@PpAirO5
Thank you so much 🙏😊
@kathrinel.j4382
Aww thank you :)
@Hamsandwich86
Respect man🇩🇰🫶
@ethanjones1521
As a girl myself, this song speaks to me on a level that is beyond comprehension. I almost cried.