I'm Not the Only One
Sam Smith Lyrics
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For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof's in the way it hurts
For months on end I've had my doubts
Denying every tear
I wish this would be over now
But I know that I still need you here
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You've been so unavailable
Now sadly I know why
Your heart is unobtainable
Even though Lord knows you kept mine
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough
You've made me realize my deepest fear
By lying and tearing us up
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
And I know, and I know, and I know
And I know, and I know, and I know, know
I know I'm not the only one
In Sam Smith's song "I'm Not the Only One", the lyrics describe a relationship where one partner has been unfaithful, and the other partner is struggling to come to terms with the betrayal. The song paints a picture of a couple who have made vows to each other but are going through a difficult time due to one's infidelity. The line "For better or for worse" highlights the solemn vow the couple made, but the partner's unfaithfulness has called into question the strength of their commitment.
The chorus of the song, where Sam sings "You say I'm crazy, 'cause you don't think I know what you've done, but when you call me baby, I know I'm not the only one", shows the partner's struggle to believe that they are the only one their partner is cheating on. The partner is aware of the infidelity, but their partner is gaslighting them, making them feel crazy and paranoid for questioning their fidelity. The partner longs for the relationship to be over but is hesitant to leave due to the emotional attachment to their partner.
In the second verse, Sam sings "I have loved you for many years, maybe I am just not enough. You've made me realize my deepest fear, by lying and tearing us up". This line highlights the partner's insecurity and fear of not being good enough for their partner, which has now been confirmed by their partner's unfaithfulness. The partner now realizes that their deepest fear has come true, and their partner's lies have caused irreparable damage to their relationship.
Line by Line Meaning
You and me we made a vow
We promised to stay together through thick and thin
For better or for worse
We promised to support each other through good times and bad
I can't believe you let me down
I feel disappointed and hurt that you broke our promise
But the proof's in the way it hurts
The pain I feel is a clear indication of what you've done
For months on end I've had my doubts
I've been uncertain about our relationship for a long time now
Denying every tear
I've been trying to hold back my emotions and pretend that everything is okay
I wish this would be over now
I want the pain and uncertainty to end
But I know that I still need you here
Despite everything, I'm still attached to you and don't want to let go
You say I'm crazy
You think I'm irrational for suspecting that something is wrong
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
You believe that I'm unaware of your actions
But when you call me baby
Your affectionate words make me feel like we're still together
I know I'm not the only one
I know that you've been unfaithful to me and that there are probably others
You've been so unavailable
You've been distant and hard to reach
Now sadly I know why
I finally understand that you've been cheating on me
Your heart is unobtainable
You're emotionally unavailable and unwilling to commit to me
Even though Lord knows you kept mine
Despite your lack of commitment, I've given you my heart and love
I have loved you for many years
I've been in love with you for a long time
Maybe I am just not enough
Perhaps I'm not what you need or want in a partner
You've made me realize my deepest fear
Your actions have confirmed my worst fear about our relationship
By lying and tearing us up
Your deceit and infidelity have destroyed our relationship
And I know, and I know, and I know
I'm fully aware of what you've done
And I know, and I know, and I know, know
The truth is clear and undeniable
I know I'm not the only one
I know that there are others who have been hurt by your actions
Lyrics Ā© CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Sam Smith, James Napier
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@justsistv_
You and me we made a vow
For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof's in the way it hurts
For months on end I've had my doubts
Denying every tear
I wish this would be over now
But I know that I still need you here
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You've been so unavailable
Now sadly I know why
Your heart is unobtainable
Even though Lord knows you kept mine
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough
You've made me realize my deepest fear
By lying and tearing us up
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
And I know, and I know, and I know
And I know, and I know, and I know, know
I know I'm not the only one
@suholover9124
"I'm Not The Only One"
You and me, we made a vow
For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof's in the way it hurts
For months on end I've had my doubts
Denying every tear
I wish this would be over now
But I know that I still need you here
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You've been so unavailable
Now sadly I know why
Your heart is unobtainable
Even though Lord knows you kept mine
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough
You've made me realize my deepest fear
By lying and tearing us up
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You say I'm crazy
'Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
And I know
And I know
And I know
And I know
And I know
And I don't know
I know I'm not the only one
@anastasiak4581
Lyrics:
You and me, we made a vow
For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof's in a way it hurts
For months on end I've had my doubts
Denying every tear
I wish this would be over now
But I know that I still need you here
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think
I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You've been so unavailable
Now sadly I know why
Your heart is unobtainable
Even though Lord knows you have mine
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think
I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough
You've made me realize my deepest fear
By lying and tearing us up
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think
I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think
I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
And I know...And I know...And I know...
And I know...And I know...And I know...
I know I'm not the only one
@Soluchi-InfiniteCoCreatorGod
I never understand how people can make a vow of commitment and cheat. Just break up and do whatever you want. Don't Cheat. It Hurts like hell.
@hindkhelfi
I agree with you a 100%
@crystaltea5303
Really? The cheating part isnt the part that bothers me, it is the distance between me and the one I love, that is actually what gets to me.. That when he is with her, he isnt with me, that bothers me.. but only because I want to actually share more time with him.. Strange isnt it, most women are angry because of the lie, or because of the act it's self.. Im upset because I genuinely care about him more, and want to be able to experience more time with him.. funny world isnt it.
@robinholts9188
I agree but what I hate is how like in the video they stay. Like for example she knows he's off cheating on her, she burns his cloths but she doesn't leave him... All I was thinking during this video was " Quinn leave you can do better!!!" (If you watch glee you'll get it)
@seniorpantos
Some people are simply different and people get hurt all the time. -- In & out of vows. -- Often by people doing whatever they want, at another's expense. --- Ā I think communication can help but doubt we could be immune from being hurt. And isn't that the true beauty in being alive. -- Feeling.
@Dreemccoll
SAME! I've never understood it either. But I've never cheated, so I don't have the mind of a cheater.
@Lana_Banana04
This song hits hard because my mum used to listen to it all the time. I never understood why back then and assumed she just liked the song. But itās only now that I realised why she listened to it religiously and I cry every time I hear it. My dad left my mum for a woman he met a couple of times and left behind my mum and 4 young kids. Me being the youngest of the 4. I canāt help but cry for my mumās sake every time I hear this songā¦
Edit: Wow I really didnāt expect so many people from all over the world to show support and empathy and I am truly so grateful for every single comment, I read them all <3 Iām 18 now, my āfatherā left while my mum was 6 months pregnant with me, he wasnāt there for my birth like he was to my older brothers. Maybe it was partly because I was the first and only girl, or maybe because he truly didnāt care. But my mum and my family have moved on from this trauma now and honestly even though I am still young at 18, I donāt think I will ever meet another person as strong as my mum. She really worked three jobs to raise us four and Iām so grateful. I canāt wait for when I can repay her with gifts and money of my own. She deserves every ounce of spoiling with love and gifts.
@wingchrist3900
Take care
@randomcodgm4771
Be strong bro, this made you a very strong person
@reubeng2110
i feel for you and for your mom and siblings. i hope all of your family left behind by your father have learned to cope with it and move forward