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Our Deal
Best Coast Lyrics


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When you leave me
The bed is empty
And I feel crazy
Cause I didn't say anything

I wish you would tell me
How you really feel
But you'll never tell me
Cause that's not our deal

When you leave me
You take away everything
You take all my money
You take all my weed

I wish you would tell me
How you really feel
But you'll never tell me
Cause that's not our deal

I wish you would tell me
How you really feel
But you'll never tell me
Cause that's not our deal

That's your deal
That's not my deal
That's your my deal
That's not my deal
That's your my deal
That's not my deal
That's your my deal
That's not my deal

Overall Meaning

The song "Our Deal" by Best Coast is a melancholic but relatable tune describing the feeling of being left behind and uncertain in a relationship. The opening lines set the tone as the singer is left alone in bed, feeling crazy and regretful that they didn't express their feelings before the other person left. The second verse emphasizes the power dynamics at play, as the partner not only takes their emotional security but also their money and weed. The repeated refrain of "I wish you would tell me how you really feel, but you'll never tell me cause that's not our deal" reinforces the idea that there are limitations and unspoken boundaries in the relationship that restrict genuine communication.


The last verse, with the repeated lines "That's your deal, that's not my deal" indicates that the singer has come to terms with the fact that they may never fully understand the other person's perspective and that their respective emotional needs may not align. This adds to the bittersweetness of the song, as it is simultaneously an acknowledgment of frustration and a resigned acceptance of the reality. Best Coast's use of a simple, repetitive melody and lyrics that are easy to sing along to, makes "Our Deal" an anthem for those who are struggling with a relationship's limits.


Line by Line Meaning

When you leave me
The singer is left alone when their partner leaves.


The bed is empty
The physical absence of the partner is felt and noticed by the singer.


And I feel crazy
The singer is experiencing intense emotions when their partner leaves.


Cause I didn't say anything
The artist feels guilty for not speaking up about their feelings to their partner.


I wish you would tell me
The artist wants their partner to communicate honestly with them.


How you really feel
The singer wants their partner to express their true emotions instead of hiding them.


But you'll never tell me
The singer believes that their partner will not be honest with them.


Cause that's not our deal
The artist is aware that the lack of communication is part of their relationship dynamic.


You take away everything
The partner's departure leaves the artist feeling like they have lost everything.


You take all my money
The partner has control over the artist's finances.


You take all my weed
The partner has control over the singer's drug use or access to drugs.


That's your deal
The lack of communication and control over the relationship is part of the partner's desired relationship dynamic.


That's not my deal
The singer does not agree with or desire the current relationship dynamic.


That's your my deal
The singer acknowledges that the current dynamic is part of both partners' agreement in the relationship.


That's not my deal
The singer reiterates that they do not agree with the current dynamic.


That's your my deal
The artist acknowledges that they have accepted the current dynamic to some degree by remaining in the relationship.


That's not my deal
The artist still feels that the current dynamic is not fully acceptable to them.




Lyrics Ā© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BETHANY COSENTINO

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derected by Drew Berrymore also

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I still come back to this one. Itā€™s still relevant and itā€™s warm nostalgia makes for the perfect blanket for a troubled heart.

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Cause its that good :)

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Chloe Grace, miranda Cosgrove, Shailene Woodly, Tyler Posey and directed by Drew Barrymore

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