Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found

Who I Want You to Love
Bleachers Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

Tired of chasing my dreams
They're always twisting
Always scream
To follow down the strangest roads
In back seats indoors

I will love what you want me to love
Oh, I will bleed when you want me to bleed
But I don't want to know too much of anything
Because it all hurts me

Come on, don't push me down that road

I'm always twisting, always sold
I'm follow, all made up how you'd like
In back seats, indoors

I will love what you want me to love
Oh, I will bleed when you want me to bleed
But I don't want to know too much of anything
Because it all hurts me
Oh it all hurts me

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of Bleachers' song "Who I Want You to Love" speak to the exhaustion of chasing one's dreams. The singer expresses frustration with the endless twists and turns that come with pursuing their goals, and the constant pressure to keep up. This creates a sense of confinement and being lost - a feeling conveyed by the metaphor of being stuck in the backseat of a car. The recurring line "I'm always twisting, always sold" symbolizes the singer's perceived lack of agency and the sense of being trapped in a predetermined path.


However, the song takes a turn with the chorus, as the singer acknowledges their willingness to do what it takes to make love work. They are willing to love the way their partner wants them to love and to be hurt when their partner wants them to be hurt. This reflects the sacrifices and compromises that come with relationships, and the realization that love requires more than just chasing one's individual dreams. Yet, the singer is also aware of the danger of getting too close to something that might hurt them, which is why they say they "don't want to know too much of anything."


Overall, "Who I Want You to Love" is a reflection on the challenges and trade-offs that come with pursuing love and personal ambitions. The song balances the sense of exhaustion and being lost with the desire to make relationships work and the willingness to make sacrifices.


Line by Line Meaning

Tired of chasing my dreams
I am exhausted from pursuing my aspirations


They're always twisting
However, my efforts are constantly being put off course


Always scream
The obstacles before me are always overpowering


To follow down the strangest roads
I am compelled to take the most peculiar paths just to get by


In back seats indoors
I find myself trapped in confined spaces with no escape


I will love what you want me to love
I am willing to adore whoever you choose for me


Oh, I will bleed when you want me to bleed
I will sacrifice everything, even my own well-being, at your whim


But I don't want to know too much of anything
Yet, I don't want to be too familiar with anything for it all causes me emotional harm


Because it all hurts me
Everything that happens to me is painful


Come on, don't push me down that road
Please don't force me towards further agony


I'm always twisting, always sold
I am always being pulled in different directions and controlled by external forces


I'm follow, all made up how you'd like
As a result, I conform to others' expectations and lose my own identity


Oh it all hurts me
It pains me to give up my own desires and live according to others' expectations




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Emile Haynie, Jack Michael Antonoff, John Graham Hill

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

More Versions