Intro / Stronger Than Me
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You should be stronger than me
You been here 7 years longer than me
Don't you know you supposed to be the man,
Not pal in comparison to who you think I am,

You always wanna talk it through - I don't care!
I always have to comfort you when I'm there
But that's what I need you to do - stroke my hair!

'cause' I've forgotten all of young love's joy,
Feel like a lady, but you my lady boy,

You should be stronger than me,
But instead you're longer than frozen turkey,
Why'd you always put me in control?
All I need is for my man to live up to his role,
Always wanna talk it through- I'm ok,
Always have to comfort you every day,
But that's what I need you to do - are you gay?

I've forgotten all of young love's joy
Feel like a lady, but you my lady boy

He said 'the respect I made you earn -
Thought you had so many lessons to learn'
I said 'You don't know what love is - get a grip!' -
Sounds as if you're reading from some other tired script

I'm not gonna meet your mother anytime
I just wanna rip your body over mine
So tell me why you think that's a crime





I've forgotten all of young love's joy
Feel like a lady, but you my lady boy

Overall Meaning

"Intro/ Stronger Than Me" is the opening track of Amy Winehouse's debut album titled "Frank." It was released in 2003 and was written by Winehouse and Salaam Remi. The song is about her relationship with a man whom she believes is weaker than her. She believes that he should be the stronger one in the relationship since he has been around longer than her. The man always wants to talk about their problems, whereas Winehouse just wants him to be there for her and listen to her. She also questions his masculinity by referring to him as her "lady boy."


Throughout the song, Winehouse talks about wanting her man to be stronger and to live up to his role. She also talks about how she feels like the man in the relationship and how she has forgotten the joy of young love. The track ends with her stating that she's not interested in meeting the man's mother and that she just wants to be physically intimate with him. The lyrics in this song are typical of Amy Winehouse's style, as she often writes about love, heartbreak, and relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

You should be stronger than me
You should be more emotionally stable and reliable than I am in our relationship.


You been here 7 years longer than me
You have more experience in this relationship because you've been in it longer than I have.


Don't you know you supposed to be the man,
As a man, you are expected to be more dominant and assertive in our relationship.


Not pal in comparison to who you think I am,
You shouldn't try to compete with me or feel inferior because of my personality or accomplishments.


You always wanna talk it through - I don't care!
I am not interested in discussing and analyzing our problems all the time like you are.


I always have to comfort you when I'm there
I feel responsible for making you feel better when you're upset or emotional.


But that's what I need you to do - stroke my hair!
When I'm upset or feeling vulnerable, I want you to comfort me in a physical and affectionate way.


'cause' I've forgotten all of young love's joy,
I feel like our relationship has lost the excitement and passion it used to have when we were younger.


Feel like a lady, but you my lady boy,
I feel like the more assertive and masculine one in our relationship, while you seem more passive and feminine.


But instead you're longer than frozen turkey,
You have become emotionally distant and unresponsive to me, like a frozen turkey that's been in the freezer for too long.


Why'd you always put me in control?
You always let me make the decisions in our relationship, which makes me feel like I have too much power over you.


All I need is for my man to live up to his role,
All I want is for you to fulfill the expectations I have of you as my partner and a man.


I'm ok,
I'm fine and don't need your constant emotional support right now.


But that's what I need you to do - are you gay?
However, I still want you to provide emotional comfort and affection to me, and questioning your sexuality makes it seem like you think that is a 'gay' thing to do.


He said 'the respect I made you earn -
Your partner said that you had to earn their respect in the relationship.


Thought you had so many lessons to learn'
They believed that you needed to learn and grow more in the relationship to earn their complete respect.


I said 'You don't know what love is - get a grip!' -
You responded by telling them that they don't truly understand love and should have a better perspective on the matter.


Sounds as if you're reading from some other tired script
Their responses and attitude towards the relationship seem robotic and unoriginal, as if they aren't genuinely invested in it.


I'm not gonna meet your mother anytime
You're not interested in meeting your partner's family.


I just wanna rip your body over mine
You want to be physically intimate with your partner in a passionate and intense way.


So tell me why you think that's a crime
You don't understand why your partner might have a problem with your desire to be physically intimate with them.




Lyrics © EMI Music Publishing, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: AMY WINEHOUSE, SALAAM REMI

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Comments from YouTube:

@MrJason005

You can tell from the first 20 seconds that she got really strong Jazz inspirations

@prodcdebeatz7205

She is so talented. She was slightly before my time and so growing up I only knew the struggles she faced. Now listening to her, what an artist. The world really lost a great one.

@brandonhealy7158

I’m the same as you. I love Amy’s music :)

@noabatmelech

Best album ever!!!! How I miss her honesty, she was frank from head to toe

@aaronsilver1755

Amy’s live gigs are always better than her albums that’s what I love it shows how good she was without trying

@milagrosgonzalezcerutti6245

Ella tenía una voz tan hermosa, que enamoraba a cualquiera. Hoy por hoy se habla más de su muerte que de su música. Se merecía a alguien que la amara más que Blake. Falleció siendo tan joven...
Pero su voz es lo que quedará en la historia de la música por siempre

@SPASPAWIZ

Amy is a dream and a tragedy. ❤️

@VaughnDoyle

I love the jazzy skatting in the beginning.

@aliasseila2098

I love her and this beat♡

@martingibbons7070

Sad loss to the world. R I P AMY

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