If I were you
ËþÃ×ÑÇ(Tamia) Lyrics
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And I see a reflection
Of a smile that says you believe in love
And just for a moment, I drifted away
But I couldn't stay 'cause
A hint of love, a bit of fear
I'm tryin' to say
If I were you I would stay right where you are
I wouldn't come near this broken heart
Just turn around and leave here
And find someone who won't hurt you
Make sure that she still believes in love
'cause I think my heart has given up
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
Ooh yeah
I'm tryin' to protect you
From the lies that your heart tells
Even though it says that you love me
All I see is pain and misery
Seasons may change
But I can't forget the days of old
My heart ached when you walked away
I said I'd never love again
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you I would stay right where you are
I wouldn't come near this broken heart
Just turn around and leave here
And find someone who won't hurt you
Make sure that she still believes in love
'cause I think my heart has given up
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
The days go by
And I feel that you could make me happy
Time goes on
And I feel that love is at my door
And though I tell myself that you're the one
Who said those words before
Thought it hurts too much
I can't trust in love
Again
Again
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you I would stay right where you are
I wouldn't come near this broken heart
Just turn around and leave here
And find someone who won't hurt you
Make sure that she still believes in love
'cause my heart has given up
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you I would stay right where you are
I wouldn't come near this broken heart
Just turn around and leave here
And find someone who won't hurt you
Make sure that she still believes in love
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you I would stay right where you are
I wouldn't come near this broken heart
Just turn around and leave here
And find someone who won't hurt you
Make sure that she still believes in love
My heart has given up
Can't be here
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you I would stay right where you are
'cause my heart has given up
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
Ooh
I wouldn't, if I were you
I wouldn't be here
Oh oh oh
The song If I Were You by Tamia is a powerful ballad about a relationship that is on the verge of ending, and one partner is trying to protect the other from getting hurt. The lyrics suggest that the singer is in a relationship that has been difficult, and they see themselves as the problem. They are trying to protect their partner by encouraging them to leave and find someone who won't hurt them. The singer feels that they have given up on love and cannot continue the relationship. They express that they only see pain and misery in what was once love.
The chorus contains the repeated line "If I were you, I wouldn't be here," which is a plea for their partner to leave and avoid being hurt, as the singer feels incapable of giving or receiving love. The fear of hurting their partner is consuming the singer's mind and heart, and they believe the best outcome for their significant other is to move on and find happiness elsewhere.
Overall, the song is a heartfelt expression of the emotions that come with being in a difficult relationship. It is a warning to others that when a relationship is not making you happy, it may be time to let go and move on to happier times.
Line by Line Meaning
I look in the mirror, with you in my arms
I stare at myself in the reflection holding you
And I see a reflection
I see a glimpse of what I might look like as a person in love
Of a smile that says you believe in love
I see a portrayal of you that seems to believe in love
And just for a moment, I drifted away
For only an instant, I was lost in the moment
But I couldn't stay 'cause
However, I had to snap out of it because
A hint of love, a bit of fear
I feel a small amount of love, but also have some fear
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you, I would stay away
If I were you I would stay right where you are
I suggest you stay where you are
I wouldn't come near this broken heart
It's best if you don't try to get close to my broken heart
Just turn around and leave here
It's better if you just turn away and leave
And find someone who won't hurt you
You should find someone who won't cause you pain
Make sure that she still believes in love
Make sure she hasn't given up on love like I have
'cause I think my heart has given up
I believe my heart is no longer capable of love
I'm tryin' to protect you
I'm attempting to safeguard you
From the lies that your heart tells
From the untruths that your own heart might tell you
Even though it says that you love me
Despite the possibility that you might genuinely love me
All I see is pain and misery
All I can see is a potential future of suffering and sorrow
Seasons may change
Time will pass and things may alter
But I can't forget the days of old
However, I can't help but remember the past
My heart ached when you walked away
When you left, my heart was left in pain
I said I'd never love again
I declared that I would never love again
The days go by
Time continues to pass
And I feel that you could make me happy
Despite everything, I suspect that you have the potential to bring me joy
Time goes on
As time progresses
And I feel that love is at my door
I believe that love might be available for me to embrace
And though I tell myself that you're the one
Despite my inner dialogue telling myself that you are the right one for me
Who said those words before
Who spoke those same words to me previously
Thought it hurts too much
Even though it causes me pain
I can't trust in love
I am unable to rely on love
Again
Once more
If I were you, I wouldn't be here
If I were you, I would stay away
I wouldn't, if I were you
If I were in your position, I wouldn't make the same choice
Can't be here
I can't handle being in this position
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