Perfect
★ Simple Plan Lyrics


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Hey, Dad, look at me
Think back, and talk to me
Did I grow up according to plan?
And do you think I'm wasting my time
Doing things I want to do?
But it hurts when you disapproved all along
And now I try hard to make it
I just want to make you proud
I'm never gonna be good enough for
You can't pretend that I'm alright
And you can't change me

'Cause we lost it all
Nothin' lasts forever
I'm sorry I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late
And we can't go back
I'm sorry I can't be perfect

I try not to think
About the pain I feel inside
Did you know you used to be my hero?
All the days you spent with me
Now seem so far away
And it feels like you don't care any more
And now I try hard to make it
I just want to make you proud
I'm never gonna be good enough for you
I can't stand another fight
And nothing's all right

'Cause we lost it all
And nothin' lasts forever
I'm sorry I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late
And we can't go back
I'm sorry I can't be perfect

Nothing's gonna change the things that you said
And nothing's gonna make this right again
Please don't turn your back
I can't believe it's hard just to talk to you
But you don't understand

'Cause we lost it all
Nothin' lasts forever
I'm sorry I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late
And we can't go back
I'm sorry I can't be perfect

'Cause we lost it all
Nothin' lasts forever
I'm sorry I can't be perfect
Now it's just too late




And we can't go back
I'm sorry I can't be perfect

Overall Meaning

"Perfect" is a song by Canadian rock band Simple Plan. The song is about the pressure to be perfect that children can feel from their parents from a young age. The lyrics describe a conversation between a child and their father, with the child asking if they have grown up according to their father's plan, and questioning whether they are wasting their time doing things they enjoy. The child feels hurt by their father's disapproval, but wants to make them proud. However, no matter how hard they try, they believe they will never be good enough for their father's approval. The chorus reflects a sense of despair and hopelessness, with the child acknowledging that things have gone too far and they can no longer go back to the way things were.


The song's message resonated with many young people, particularly those coming from dysfunctional families, and it became a hit in several countries. It has been praised for its honesty and relatability, with many listeners finding comfort in its message of self-acceptance. The song's popularity has led to several cover versions by other artists and has been used in films and TV shows.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey, Dad, look at me
The singer is seeking his father's attention


Think back, and talk to me
The singer wants his father to reminisce about the past and communicate with him


Did I grow up according to plan?
The singer is questioning whether he lived up to his father's expectations


And do you think I'm wasting my time
The singer is unsure if pursuing his own dreams is worthwhile in his father's eyes


Doing things I want to do?
The singer is wondering if his father disagrees with the choices he has made in life


But it hurts when you disapproved all along
The singer feels hurt and rejected by his father's disapproval


And now I try hard to make it
The singer is striving to make something of himself despite his father's criticism


I just want to make you proud
The singer's ultimate goal is to earn his father's approval and respect


I'm never gonna be good enough for
The singer believes he will never meet his father's expectations


You can't pretend that I'm alright
The singer's father cannot ignore the issues between them


And you can't change me
The singer's father cannot force him to be someone he's not


'Cause we lost it all
The relationship between the singer and his father has fallen apart


Nothin' lasts forever
All good things must come to an end


I'm sorry I can't be perfect
The singer apologizes for not being the ideal son his father desires


Now it's just too late
The damage between the singer and his father is irreparable


And we can't go back
The past cannot be undone


I try not to think
The singer attempts to suppress his painful emotions


About the pain I feel inside
The singer is hurting on the inside due to the strained relationship with his father


Did you know you used to be my hero?
The singer had a great deal of admiration for his father in the past


All the days you spent with me
Memories of the good times with his father seem distant now


Now seem so far away
The past seems distant and unattainable


And it feels like you don't care any more
The singer feels abandoned and unloved by his father


Nothing's gonna change the things that you said
The hurtful things the father said cannot be undone


And nothing's gonna make this right again
The relationship between the father and son cannot be repaired


Please don't turn your back
The singer pleads for his father's attention and love


I can't believe it's hard just to talk to you
The singer is surprised by how difficult communication has become with his father


'Cause we lost it all
The relationship between the singer and his father is beyond repair


And nothing lasts forever
The good times cannot last forever


I'm sorry I can't be perfect
The singer apologizes for not living up to his father's expectations


Now it's just too late
The relationship cannot be mended


And we can't go back
The past cannot be undone


I'm sorry I can't be perfect
The singer apologizes one more time for not being who his father wanted him to be




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ARNOLD LANNI, ARNOLD DAVID LANNI, CHARLES-ANDRE COMEAU, JEAN-FRANCOIS STINCO, PIERRE BOUVIER, SEBASTIEN LEFEBVRE

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