他不慣被愛
衛蘭 Lyrics


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虔誠奉獻 學會退讓
凡事亦替他來設想
你慨嘆 是否這樣才被他看上

談情大概 樂趣至上
誰願受你恩情去鼓掌
你看你 令他多謝多得很勉強
過份主動 令情人負重 為何沒法懂
一再感動 太濫了便驚恐

平日太自愛 他不慣被愛
唯恐困在懷內 討厭被期待
錯在你 關心他將來
哪知他喜歡主宰

天生愛競賽 他只愛示愛
贏得你認同後 興奮又無奈
錯在你 這麼急於貼服到像奴才
認真正是要害

談情未免 要耍把戲
尤其是有種人愛驚喜
你試試 令他不易得到整個你

角力追逐 是男士玩意 越難越滿足
他要 征服 你太快被制伏

平日太自愛 他不慣被愛
唯恐困在懷內 討厭被期待
錯在你 關心他將來
哪知他喜歡主宰

天生愛競賽 他只愛示愛
贏得你認同後 興奮又無奈
錯在你 這麼急於貼服到像奴才
認真正是要害

你我太習慣 愛得坦誠
這個惡習要改改

他想你自愛 他不慣被愛
唯恐困在懷內 討厭被期待
錯在你 他一呼即來 結果更快被踢開

天生愛競賽 他只愛示愛
贏得你認同後 興奮又無奈




錯在你 這麼死心塌地到像奴才
認真正是要害

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "他不慣被愛" by 衛蘭 (Janice Vidal) touches upon the theme of relationship dynamics, particularly when one person is more inclined to show love and affection than the other. The song talks about how the singer is too eager to please her partner, always making sacrifices and accommodating his needs, but in the end, it doesn't seem to yield the desired result. The lyrics accuse her of being too clingy and desperate, trying too hard to win his heart, and not respecting his need for space and independence.


The opening lines talk about being pious and selfless in love, but also learning to step back and let the other person have their way. The singer seems to be making all the sacrifices to please her partner, but is it really what he wants? He doesn't seem to appreciate her efforts and is still unsure if he even likes her. The chorus talks about the singer's mistake of being too active in pursuing her partner, which puts an undue burden on him. He likes to be the one in control of the relationship and prefers to show affection on his own terms.


The second verse talks about how the singer's desire to please her partner has made her vulnerable to his whims. He likes to play games and enjoys the thrill of the chase, but she falls too easily, which doesn't excite him. The singer is unable to understand why her efforts are not appreciated, and she feels hurt and confused. The song concludes by stating that both partners need to work towards being more honest and candid about their feelings, instead of playing games or trying too hard to win the other person's favor.


Line by Line Meaning

虔誠奉獻 學會退讓
Be prayerful and learn to compromise


凡事亦替他來設想
Think of his benefit in everything


你慨嘆 是否這樣才被他看上
You wonder if you have to act this way to win his affection


談情大概 樂趣至上
Having fun is the priority in love


誰願受你恩情去鼓掌
No one wants to be grateful for your favor


你看你 令他多謝多得很勉強
You make him thank you reluctantly


過份主動 令情人負重 為何沒法懂
Being too pushy burdens your lover but you don't understand


一再感動 太濫了便驚恐
Being moved too often makes you scared


平日太自愛 他不慣被愛
He's not used to being loved if you're too self-centered


唯恐困在懷內 討厭被期待
He fears being trapped and hates being expected


錯在你 關心他將來
It's your fault for caring about his future


哪知他喜歡主宰
But he likes to be in control


天生愛競賽 他只愛示愛
He loves competition and showing affection


贏得你認同後 興奮又無奈
He feels excited and helpless once he wins your approval


錯在你 這麼急於貼服到像奴才
It's your fault for being overly obedient


認真正是要害
Being too serious is the real problem


談情未免 要耍把戲
Love involves some tricks


尤其是有種人愛驚喜
Especially those who love surprises


你試試 令他不易得到整個你
Try not giving him your all too easily


角力追逐 是男士玩意 越難越滿足
Chasing is a man's game, and the harder it is, the more satisfying


他要 征服 你太快被制伏
He wants to conquer, but you're too easily subdued


你我太習慣 愛得坦誠
We're too used to being honest in love


這個惡習要改改
But this habit needs to change


他想你自愛 他不慣被愛
He wants you to love yourself, but he's not used to being loved


唯恐困在懷內 討厭被期待
He fears being trapped and hates being expected


錯在你 他一呼即來 結果更快被踢開
It's your fault for coming whenever he calls and getting kicked out easily


天生愛競賽 他只愛示愛
He loves competition and showing affection


贏得你認同後 興奮又無奈
He feels excited and helpless once he wins your approval


錯在你 這麼死心塌地到像奴才
It's your fault for being so devoted to the point of being servile


認真正是要害
Being too serious is the real problem




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