When I'm Gone
3 Doors Down Lyrics


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There's another world inside of me that you may never see
There's secrets in this life that I can't hide
Somewhere in this darkness there's a light that I can't find
Maybe it's too far away, maybe I'm just blind
Maybe I'm just blind

So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
Everything I am and everything in me
Wants to be the one you wanted me to be

I'll never let you down even if I could
I'd give up everything if only for your good
So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
You can hold me when I'm scared you won't always be there
So love me when I'm gone, love me when I'm gone

When your education x-ray cannot see under my skin
I won't tell you a damn thing that I could not tell my friends
And roaming through this darkness I'm alive but I'm alone
Part of me is fighting this but part of me is gone

So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
Everything I am and everything in me
Wants to be the one you wanted me to be

I'll never let you down even if I could
I'd give up everything if only for your good
So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
You can hold me when I'm scared, you won't always be there
So love me when I'm gone

Maybe I'm just blind

So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
Everything I am and everything in me
Wants to be the one you wanted me to be

I'll never let you down even if I could
I'd give up everything if only for your good
So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
You can hold me when I'm scared, you won't always be there
So love me when I'm gone

Love me when I'm gone, whoa




Love me when I'm gone, when I'm gone
When I'm gone, when I'm gone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of 3 Doors Down's "When I'm Gone" are a plea from the singer to his loved ones to embrace him and love him even when he is not there. The beginning of the song suggests that there is another side to the singer that others may not be aware of, secrets he cannot hide. He is trying to find the light in the darkness that surrounds him, but he feels as though he is blinded and misplaced. Despite this, he is asking for a comforting hand from his loved ones, someone to hold him when he is wrong, and love him when he is not present in their lives.


The lyrics go on to describe how the singer is willing to make any sacrifices for his loved ones, willing to give up everything for their good. However, he acknowledges that he has his doubts, and there is a part of him that is fighting this feeling, but another part is consumed by it. At the end of the song, he begs to be loved even when he is gone, letting his loved ones know that his love for them is truly and genuinely felt.


Overall, the song is about the struggles we all face when we are away from the ones we love, and the fears we have that they will not always be there for us. The lyrics are a cry for comfort and reassurance, a plea for compassion and affection.


Line by Line Meaning

There's another world inside of me that you may never see
There are parts of me that I keep hidden and are inaccessible to others.


There's secrets in this life that I can't hide
I have secrets that I cannot keep hidden forever.


Somewhere in this darkness there's a light that I can't find
Despite being in a dark place, there is hope somewhere that I cannot locate.


Maybe it's too far away, maybe I'm just blind
It's possible that the light is too far away, or I might not see it due to my blindness.


So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
When I'm present, support me, and correct me when I'm mistaken.


Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
When I'm frightened, comfort me, and when I'm out of sight, preserve the love.


Everything I am and everything in me
All aspects of me.


Wants to be the one you wanted me to be
Aspires to be the person someone else envisioned me to be.


I'll never let you down even if I could
I will not disappoint you, even if I wanted to.


I'd give up everything if only for your good
I'd sacrifice everything for your betterment, if that's what it takes.


When your education x-ray cannot see under my skin
Even if you have extensive knowledge of me, you cannot understand my thoughts and feelings.


I won't tell you a damn thing that I could not tell my friends
If there's something that I can't share with my friends, you won't know either.


And roaming through this darkness I'm alive but I'm alone
I'm alive, but navigating through a tough time, and I feel isolated.


Part of me is fighting this but part of me is gone
A part of me is struggling with this situation, while another part has given up.


You can hold me when I'm scared, you won't always be there
Even though you can calm me down when I'm anxious, you might not be present all the time.


So love me when I'm gone
Even when I'm not around, keep the love alive.


Maybe I'm just blind
I might not see things because of my limitations.


Love me when I'm gone, whoa
Repeating the plea to keep loving even when not present.


When I'm gone, when I'm gone
Reiterating the idea of absence and longing for love.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRADLEY KIRK ARNOLD, CHRISTOPHER LEE HENDERSON, MATTHEW DARRICK ROBERTS, ROBERT TODD HARRELL

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Andrey Ivanov

There's another world inside of me that you may never see
There's secrets in this life that I can't hide
Somewhere in this darkness there's a light that I can't find
Maybe it's too far away, maybe I'm just blind
Maybe I'm just blind

So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
Everything I am and everything in me
Wants to be the one you wanted me to be

I'll never let you down even if I could
I'd give up everything if only for your good
So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
You can hold me when I'm scared you won't always be there
So love me when I'm gone, love me when I'm gone

When your education x-ray cannot see under my skin
I won't tell you a damn thing that I could not tell my friends
And roaming through this darkness I'm alive but I'm alone
Part of me is fighting this but part of me is gone

So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
Everything I am and everything in me
Wants to be the one you wanted me to be

I'll never let you down even if I could
I'd give up everything if only for your good
So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
You can hold me when I'm scared, you won't always be there
So love me when I'm gone

Maybe I'm just blind

So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
Hold me when I'm scared and love me when I'm gone
Everything I am and everything in me
Wants to be the one you wanted me to be

I'll never let you down even if I could
I'd give up everything if only for your good
So hold me when I'm here, right me when I'm wrong
You can hold me when I'm scared, you won't always be there
So love me when I'm gone

Love me when I'm gone, whoa
Love me when I'm gone, when I'm gone
When I'm gone, when I'm gone



All comments from YouTube:

MegaBrowz Kapowz

This song is so special to me. My son was born in 2002 and every night I would get up to feed him like clock work and this song always happened to be on vh1 every night at the same time so it became our song. Fast forward 18 years, my son is now in the military and my worry is unrelenting. This song is a constant reminder of when he was an infant and now a soldier. I'm dying on the inside but am grateful that he is my baby and we can always have this song even though I break down everytime I hear it...

elaine price

I am in your exact shoes momma...it's a rollercoaster for sure. 🙏💙

tdogg

Im so sorry your goin through that it has to be hard :(

Johanna

I live in fear of two uniformed Marines knocking on my door.

El Jefe

I am sorry to hear of your pain. I want to say thank you to you and your son. Your country has NOT forgotten you and we STILL know, love and respect what you are doing and the sacrifice you are making. Freedom is not free. I don't say these things to give you any pat answers or to divert your pain, but at least I can say thank you.

Brian Cox

My dad, and 2 of my brother's served in the military, I thank your son for his service and the sacrifices he is making for this great Nation..thank you and God bless.

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It's been nearly 20 years since this concert was filmed. Still iconic.

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