Tearin' Up My Heart
*NSYNC Lyrics


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It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you
(Hey, yeah)

Baby I don't understand
Just why we can't be lovers
Things are getting out of hand
Trying too much, but baby we can't win

Let it go
If you want me girl, let me know
I am down, on my knees
I can't take it anymore

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

(Ooh, alright)

Baby don't misunderstand (don't misunderstand)
What I'm trying to tell ya
In the corner of my mind (corner of my mind)
Baby, it feels like we're running out of time

Let it go
If you want me girl, let me know
I am down, on my knees
I can't take it anymore

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

Tearin' up my heart and soul
We're apart I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

Tearin' up my heart and soul (alright)
We're apart I feel it too (I feel it too)
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
So when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you





And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

Overall Meaning

At its core, Tearin' Up My Heart is a pop ballad that chronicles the pain and heartache that arise when you're in love with someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings. The opening line of the chorus, "It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you," sets the tone for the song, illustrating the conflicting emotions that the singer is experiencing.


The lyrics suggest a level of desperation as the singer attempts to make the relationship work, but ultimately realizes that it's tearing them apart. The line "Trying too much, but baby we can't win" highlights the futility of their efforts.


The second verse reinforces the theme of time running out, with the line "Baby, it feels like we're running out of time." The chorus is repeated, emphasizing the emotional turmoil that comes with being in love.


Overall, Tearin' Up My Heart is a relatable song for anyone who has ever loved someone who doesn't love them back. It's a timeless pop ballad that has stood the test of time.


Line by Line Meaning

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
Being with you is causing me emotional pain


But when we are apart, I feel it too
Even when we're not together, I still feel the same emotional pain


And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
Regardless of my actions, I still experience this emotional pain


With or without you
This emotional pain exists whether you're here or not


(Hey, yeah)
Positive affirmation or exclamation


Baby I don't understand
I'm having trouble comprehending the situation


Just why we can't be lovers
I'm confused about why we can't have a romantic relationship


Things are getting out of hand
The situation is becoming unmanageable


Trying too much, but baby we can't win
We're putting in effort, but the outcome isn't favorable


Let it go
We need to move on from this situation


If you want me girl, let me know
If you want to pursue a romantic relationship, you need to express your interest


I am down, on my knees
I'm pleading with you or showing my devotion


I can't take it anymore
The situation has become too difficult to handle


Baby don't misunderstand (don't misunderstand)
I want to make sure you understand what I'm trying to say


What I'm trying to tell ya
I'm attempting to convey something important to you


In the corner of my mind (corner of my mind)
I've been thinking about this a lot


Baby, it feels like we're running out of time
We need to make a decision soon or we'll miss our chance


Tearin' up my heart and soul
This situation is causing me emotional pain and distress


We're apart I feel it too
Even when we're not together, I still feel the same emotional pain


And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
Regardless of my actions, I still experience this emotional pain


With or without you
This emotional pain exists whether you're here or not


(Ooh, alright)
Positive affirmation or exclamation


So when we are apart, I feel it too
Even when we're not together, I still feel the same emotional pain


And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
Regardless of my actions, I still experience this emotional pain


With or without you
This emotional pain exists whether you're here or not


And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
Regardless of my actions, I still experience this emotional pain


With or without you
This emotional pain exists whether you're here or not




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Karitian Lundin, Martin Karl Sandberg

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Comments from YouTube:

@chuckwalla2967

This song always reminds me of that one dude on American Idol whom Simon likened to a bushbaby.

@andreapatane4204

This song from *NSYNC is sad and bouncy at the same time. 👍🏻 if you're taking yourself back in time to preadolescent years of your life during the COVID-19 outbreak.

@kikaycajulao1529

Katherine Cajulao favorite song is Tearing up my heart it's remind me thinking about Robin Torres it's part of me about all my whole life with her this song for her

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