Promises
- Eric Clapton Lyrics


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I don't care if you never come home
I don't mind if you just keep on rowin' away on a distant sea
'Cause I don't love you and you don't love me

You cause a commotion when you come to town
You give 'em a smile and they melt
And your lovers and friends is all good and fine
But I don't like yours and you don't like mine

La la la la la la
La la la la la la la la

I don't care what you do at night
Oh, I don't care how you get you delites
We'll leave it alone and just let it be
I don't love you and you don't love me

I got a problem, can you relate
I got a woman callin' love hate
We made a vow we'd always be friends
How could we know that promises end

La la la la la la
La la la la la la la la

I tried to love for years upon years
You refuse to take me for real
It's time you saw what I want you to see
I'd still love you if you'd just love me

I got a problem, can you relate
I got a woman callin' love hate
We made a vow we'd always be friends
How could we know that promises end

La la la la la la
La la la la la la la la
La la la la la la




La la la la la la la la
Wohoo, la la la la la la la

Overall Meaning

The song "Promises" by Eric Clapton explores the complex emotions that arise when a relationship doesn't pan out as planned. The singer in the song is resigned to the fact that the person they're singing about is unlikely to return to them, and that they don't really love one another. Though the two may have once made promises to each other, those promises have been broken and it's clear that things have irreparably changed between them.


The first verse sets this tone, with the singer expressing indifference to whether or not the other person comes back to them. They don't love each other, so it's not worth fighting over. The second verse builds on this idea, with the singer pointing out that the other person's popularity and charm don't make up for the fact that they don't actually like each other's friends or partners. The third and fourth verses delve further into the singer's emotions, with them expressing frustration that the other person won't take them seriously, and that broken promises have caused them deep pain.


Overall, "Promises" is a song about the sometimes bitter end of a relationship. The singer in the song has no illusions about the fact that things have changed between them and the other person, and is resigned to the fact that their bond has disintegrated. It's a powerful exploration of heartbreak and the pain that can come from unfulfilled promises.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't care if you never come home
Your absence doesn't bother me


I don't mind if you just keep on rowin' away on a distant sea
It's fine if you go away and never come back


'Cause I don't love you and you don't love me
We have no emotional attachment to each other


You cause a commotion when you come to town
You create drama and excitement wherever you go


You give 'em a smile and they melt
Your charm and charisma affects people deeply


And your lovers and friends is all good and fine
Your personal relationships don't concern me


But I don't like yours and you don't like mine
We don't approve of each other's social circles


I don't care what you do at night
Your actions don't matter to me


Oh, I don't care how you get you delites
I have no interest in your sources of pleasure


We'll leave it alone and just let it be
Let's not interfere with each other's lives


I got a problem, can you relate
I have a situation I need to talk about


I got a woman callin' love hate
My relationship is complicated and filled with conflicting emotions


We made a vow we'd always be friends
We promised to maintain a platonic connection


How could we know that promises end
But we didn't anticipate the eventual loss of that connection


I tried to love for years upon years
I attempted to develop romantic feelings for you over an extended period of time


You refuse to take me for real
But you never reciprocated those feelings seriously


It's time you saw what I want you to see
It's time for you to understand my perspective


I'd still love you if you'd just love me
I am willing to continue our relationship if you develop romantic feelings for me as well




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Spirit Music Group, Songtrust Ave
Written by: BRANDON CASEY, BRANDON D CASEY, BRIAN CASEY, BRIAN D CASEY, BRYAN MICHAEL PAUL COX, JERMAINE DUPRI, GARY SMITH, BERT YOUNG

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Comments from YouTube:

@redskinsnut

My favorite Clapton song. So brutality honest, raw and self aware.

@bobuk161

And hardly played

@johnhouldsworth3033

Me too, sad but true🎶

@johnhouldsworth3033

So true, been there before, back there again. So poignant hits me in the heart.

@dixieh8345

This has got to be one of his most underrated songs and one if my favorites.

@luannpafford3554

Ironically a poll was taken and this song was voted the favorite Clapton song!

@andrewnottensteiner

So TrUe

@alimabeh

Totally agree

@MyOneFiftiethOfADollar

Underrated? It has a global/international following and is wildly popular in Europe, Philippines, and many parts of urbanized Africa.

@ozielgg9702

YES AND IS BETTER THAN THE ORIGINAL 😊

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