Few and Far Between
10000 Maniacs Lyrics


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Times are far between, and few I bet, when we can look upon our lives without regret
Of all the things I have done, you think I'm proud of everyone without exception?

'Till you make your peace with yesterday, you'll never build a future
I swear by what I say
Whatever penance you do, decide what it's worth to you and then respect it
However long it will take to weather your mistakes, why not accept it?
My hands, for now, are tied
I'm a body frozen
I'm a will that's paralyzed
When will you ever set aside your pain and misery?
No matter how I beg, no matter how I wish or plead, you'll never be more than alive
You'll never do more than survive until you expect it
Do you want to build a world with our lives?
You better soon decide or you can forget it

My hands, for now, are tied
I'm a body frozen
I'm a will that's paralyzed

'Till you drop that heavy baggage you're dragging behind,
there won't be room for us to both go this ride

Overall Meaning

The song "Few and Far Between" by 10,000 Maniacs reflects on the regrets we carry and the importance of making peace with our past to move forward. The lyrics suggest that moments of clarity are fleeting and rare, and that we often struggle to let go of our past mistakes. The first verse illustrates this by saying that few and far between are the times when we can look at our lives without regret. The second verse suggests that we need to find peace with our past to build a better future. This sentiment is emphasized by the repeated line, "Until you make your peace with yesterday, you'll never build a future."


The chorus talks about the feeling of being trapped and restricted by our pain and regrets. The singer feels "a body frozen" and "a will that's paralyzed." These feelings are further emphasized with the line, "My hands, for now, are tied." The lyrics suggest that until we let go of this heavy burden, we won't be able to move forward with someone else. As the song closes, the singer tries to persuade their partner to let go of the past, saying that if they continue to drag it around, it will prevent both of them from "going on this ride."


Overall, "Few and Far Between" is a reflective song about the importance of self-forgiveness and moving beyond our past regrets in order to build a better future.


Line by Line Meaning

Times are far between, and few I bet, when we can look upon our lives without regret
There are only a few instances in life when we are able to reflect upon our past without feeling any remorse


Of all the things I have done, you think I'm proud of everyone without exception?
Just because I have done things, it doesn't mean I'm proud of everything I have done


'Till you make your peace with yesterday, you'll never build a future
It's impossible to build a future until you have made peace with the events of the past


I swear by what I say
I am being truthful and sincere about what I am saying


Whatever penance you do, decide what it's worth to you and then respect it
Choose a punishment that you find deserving and respect it as an act of atonement


However long it will take to weather your mistakes, why not accept it?
Instead of fighting it, accept that it takes time to recover from past mistakes


My hands, for now, are tied, I'm a body frozen, I'm a will that's paralyzed
I am currently unable to take action or make decisions due to feeling stuck and helpless


When will you ever set aside your pain and misery?
When will you be able to move on from your pain and misery?


No matter how I beg, no matter how I wish or plead, you'll never be more than alive
No matter what I do, you will not be fully living until you choose to move on from the past


You'll never do more than survive until you expect it
You will not thrive in life until you expect and believe that you can do more than just survive


Do you want to build a world with our lives?
Do you want to create a meaningful life together?


You better soon decide or you can forget it
If you don't make a decision soon, then it may be too late to create a meaningful life together


'Till you drop that heavy baggage you're dragging behind, there won't be room for us to both go this ride
Until you are able to let go of your past baggage, there won't be enough space for both of us to move forward together




Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: NATALIE MERCHANT

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