Be Like That
3 Doors Down Lyrics


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He spends his nights in California
Watching the stars on the big screen
And then he lies awake and he wonders
Why can't that be me?

'Cause in his life he is filled
With all these good intentions
He's left a lot of things
He'd rather not mention right now

Just before he says goodnight
He looks up with a little smile at me
And he says

If I could be like that
Well I would give anything
Just to live one day in
In those shoes

If I could be like that
What would I do?
What would I do?

Now in dreams we run

She spends her days up in the north park
Watching the people as they pass
And all she wants is just a little piece of this dreams
Is that too much to ask?

With a safe home and a warm bed
On a quiet little street
All she wants is just that something to hold on to
That's all she needs

Yeah, if I could be like that
Well I would give anything
Just to live one day in
In those shoes

If I could be like that
What would I do?
What would I do? Yeah yeah yeh oh oh

I'm falling into this
In dreams we run away

If I could be like that
Well I would give anything
Just to live one day
In those shoes

If I could be like that
What would I do?
What would I do?

If I could be like that
I would give anything
Just to live one day
In those shoes

If I could be like that
What would I do?
What would I do?

If I could be like that
I would give anything
Just to live one day
In those shoes

If I could be like that?
What would I do?
Lord what would I do? Yeah yeah

Falling in




I feel I am falling in
To this again

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of 3 Doors Down’s Be Like That express the desire to live another person’s life for just a day. The first verse describes a man who spends his nights in California watching the stars on the big screen, but still feels unfulfilled and wonders why he can’t have that life. Despite his good intentions, he feels dissatisfied with his current situation and longs for something more. The second verse depicts a woman who spends her days in the park and dreams of having just a little piece of what others have, a safe home and a warm bed on a quiet street. She too feels like something is missing in her life and desires more.


The chorus, “If I could be like that, Well I would give anything, Just to live one day in, In those shoes” encapsulates the message of the song. Both characters long to experience the life of others, even if it’s just for a day. The bridge repeats this sentiment of wanting to escape into another reality with the line, “In dreams we run away”. The repetition of the chorus emphasizes the desire to escape one's current situation and reveals that the answer to the question “What would I do?” is to give everything to live life like someone else.


This song’s message of longing to escape from the mundanity of life and feel fulfilled is relatable to many people. Its popularity can be attributed to this universal message, as well as its catchy melody and emotive vocals. The music video features the band performing in the rain, with flashbacks of the characters’ lives. The visuals mirror the introspective nature of the song and evoke a sense of melancholy. Overall, Be Like That is an emotive song that captures the desire to live a fulfilling life.


Line by Line Meaning

He spends his nights in California
He spends his evenings in California


Watching the stars on the big screen
He watches stars on the big screen in California


And then he lies awake and he wonders
He lies awake and wonders


Why can't that be me?
Why can't he be like the stars he watches?


'Cause in his life he is filled
His life is full


With all these good intentions
He has good intentions


He's left a lot of things
He left many things


He'd rather not mention right now
He doesn't want to mention them at the moment


Just before he says goodnight
Just before he goes to bed


He looks up with a little smile at me
He looks up at me with a smile


And he says
He says


If I could be like that
If he could be like the stars he watches


Well I would give anything
He would give anything to be like them


Just to live one day in
To live for one day in


In those shoes
To be in their shoes


What would I do?
What would he do?


What would I do?
What would he do?


Now in dreams we run
Now we run in dreams


She spends her days up in the north park
She spends her days in north park


Watching the people as they pass
She watches people passing by


And all she wants is just a little piece of this dream
All she wants is a small piece of this dream


Is that too much to ask?
Asking for it is too much?


With a safe home and a warm bed
She has a safe home and a warm bed


On a quiet little street
She lives on a peaceful street


All she wants is just that something to hold on to
All she wants is something to hold on to


That's all she needs
That's all she needs


Yeah, if I could be like that
Yeah, if she could be like what she wants


Well I would give anything
She would give anything to be like that


Just to live one day in
To live for one day in


In those shoes
To be in those shoes


What would I do?
What would she do?


What would I do?
What would she do?


Yeah yeah yeh oh oh
Agreement and emphasis


I'm falling into this
She is falling into it


In dreams we run away
In dreams, we run away


If I could be like that
If she could be like that


Well I would give anything
She would give anything to be like that


Just to live one day
To live one day


In those shoes
To be in those shoes


If I could be like that
If she could be like that


What would I do?
What would she do?


What would I do?
What would she do?


If I could be like that
If she could be like that


I would give anything
She would give anything to be like that


Just to live one day
To live one day


In those shoes
To be in those shoes


If I could be like that?
If she could be like that?


What would I do?
What would she do?


Lord what would I do?
She wonders what she would do


Yeah yeah
Agreement and emphasis


Falling in
Fall into


I feel I am falling in
She feels like she is falling into it


To this again
To this once again




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRADLEY KIRK ARNOLD, CHRISTOPHER LEE HENDERSON

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@danyscalibc3900

American pie 2 soundtrack.....old memories😢😢😢😢😢😢

@JTyler52

I love when artist sound just like they do on tape. Not many artist can do it.

@tonylewis5070

I was on tour with my boys from my Mississippi boys...

@aridavid776

Sadly, probably one of the last great late 90s/early 2000s bands we still have.

@romansorokin2747

I’ve been to 100s of concerts and seen 100s of bands with all genres and rap-heavy metal. You always want to see a band that sounds like the CD, live. This concert was better then the cd expectations I was amazed. NOT ONE CURSE WORD. And I still will always-remember the show. Just incredible

@justinallen8839

Oh how it pisses me off when people get drunk at amazing concerts like this. This is pure art and you're not going to remember most of it! haha!

@timwaterman7790

If anybody wants to know why this band still has a dedicated following after more than 20 years just watch what happens at about the 3:46 mark. Brad Arnold is an honest to goodness good man, appreciates fans and will go out of his way to show the fans that the music is for them. Love this band.

@fellondon

I completely agree with You JTyler52, He sings exactly the same as we hear on the Cd's, his voice is just amazing and his songs made a big history in my life!! Well done mate...Your voice is Outstanding !! =)

@almartini700

I'm so glad I found this live performance. It makes me feel so alive!

@jayminer8773

Not sure how many of y'all know this, but Brad Arnold's voice is 100% raw talent. He just happened to become the singer for one of the greatest rock and roll bands of the last 25 years. Brad only stepped up as the vocalist due to endless auditions yielding nobody they jived with. Man, how different the 3 Doors Down story and music would have been!

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