These Days
3 Doors Down Lyrics


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I think I was better off before this all began
So clearly I can see lately that you don't know who I am
Everybody tried to tell me something that I never could believe
Staring back it seemed so much different than it did in front of me

But I know there's no good in looking back on yesterday
And wondering what could have happened then
You think you can give me what I want
You say
(You say)
You say
I think I'm better off alone
These days
(These days)
These days

Why should I put my trust in something that I never could believe
So one day you can find something better
Just to pack your things and leave
Loneliness is a friend for the moment but you won't walk out on me

But I know there's no good in looking back on yesterday
And wondering what could have happened then

You think you can give me what I want
You say
(You say)
You say
I think I'm better off alone
These days
(These days)
These days

I'm tired and I'm sick of waiting, maybe I'll die alone
'Cause I can't take another damn day of waiting here for you
To come home to me
Yeah, yeah, baby, baby please tell me why

You think you can give me what I want
You say
(You say)
You say
I think I'm better off alone
These days
(These days)
These days

You think you can give me what I want
You say
(You say)
You say
I think I'm better off alone
These days




(These days)
These days

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of 3 Doors Down's These Days express a feeling of uncertainty in a relationship. The singer reflects that he was better off before the relationship started, and now feels that his partner does not truly know him. Though others tried to warn him, he stayed in the relationship. However, he now realizes that he should not keep looking back; he should move forward and not waste time wondering what could have been. Moreover, he decides that he is better off alone and does not want to put his trust in something he does not believe in. Finally, he expresses his tiredness of waiting and wonders whether he will die alone.


The song's message is quite clear. It is about the passage of time, and often feels that the grass is greener on the other side. It can be hard to let go of things in life, but sometimes it is necessary in order to move forward. The singer questions his choice to stay in the relationship, but ultimately realizes that it is better for him to be alone. The lyrics are introspective and reflective, acknowledging the pain of relationships not working out, but nonetheless making a firm decision.


Line by Line Meaning

I think I was better off before this all began
I realize now that things were actually easier for me back when none of this had even started


So clearly I can see lately that you don't know who I am
It's become apparent to me that you don't really understand me as a person anymore


Everybody tried to tell me something that I never could believe
Many people attempted to inform me of something that I just couldn't bring myself to accept


Staring back it seemed so much different than it did in front of me
There's a stark contrast between what I expected and what reality actually turned out to be


But I know there's no good in looking back on yesterday
I understand that dwelling on past events is fruitless


And wondering what could have happened then
It's pointless to speculate on what might have occurred in the past


Why should I put my trust in something that I never could believe
There's no reason for me to rely on something that I have serious doubts about


So one day you can find something better
At some point, you may come across something that is a better fit for you


Just to pack your things and leave
And when that happens, you'll likely leave behind everything you've known


Loneliness is a friend for the moment but you won't walk out on me
Being alone can be comforting for a while but I trust that eventually you'll come back to me


I'm tired and I'm sick of waiting, maybe I'll die alone
I'm exhausted from waiting for you and I fear that I may end up alone forever as a result


'Cause I can't take another damn day of waiting here for you
I've reached the end of my patience with how long it's taking for you to come back to me


To come home to me
To finally return to my side


Yeah, yeah, baby, baby please tell me why
I'm begging you to explain yourself to me


You think you can give me what I want
You believe that you're capable of providing me with what I need


I think I'm better off alone
But I've come to the conclusion that I'm better off on my own


These days
At this point in time


You say (You say) You say
You continue to insist that you can offer me exactly what I'm looking for


These days
But lately, it seems that's just not the case


You think you can give me what I want
You have faith in your ability to give me everything I desire


These days
However, given recent events, I'm not so sure


You say (You say) You say
Regardless, you continue to state that you're exactly what I'm looking for


I think I'm better off alone
At this point, I believe that I'm better off just being by myself


These days
As things currently stand




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Songtrust Ave
Written by: BRADLEY KIRK ARNOLD, CHRISTOPHER LEE HENDERSON, MATTHEW DARRICK ROBERTS, ROBERT TODD HARRELL

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SabrinaOnlineFan96


on Sarah Yellin'

I found this song on a Sabrina Online AMV, although this sounds like something from Shadow the Hedgehog.

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