let_me_be_myself
3 Doors Down Lyrics


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I guess I just got lost
Being someone else.
I tried to kill the pain,
But nothing ever helped.
I left myself behind,
Somewhere along the way
Hoping to come back around
To find myself someday

Lately I'm so tired of waiting for you
To say that it's OK.

Tell me please
Would you one time just let me be myself
So I can shine
With my own light.
Let me be myself.

Would you let me be myself?

I'll never find my heart
Behind someone else.
I'll never see the light of day
Living in this cell.
It's time to make my way
Into the world I knew.
And then take back all of these times
That I gave in to you

Lately I'm so tired of waiting for you
To say that it's OK.

Tell me please
Would you one time just let me be myself
So I can shine
With my own light.
Let me be myself.

For a while,
If you don't mind,
Let me be myself
So I can shine
With my own light.
Let me be myself.

That's all I've wanted from this world,
Is to let me be me.

Tell me please
Would you one time just let me be myself
So I can shine
With my own light.
Let me be myself.

Tell me please
Would you one time just let me be myself
So I can shine
With my own light.
Let me be myself.

Tell me please
Would you one time just let me be myself
So I can shine
With my own light.
Let me be myself.

Would you one time




Oh, let me be myself
And let me be me.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Let Me Be Myself" by 3 Doors Down speak to the theme of self-discovery, the struggle to be true to oneself, and the desire for individual freedom. The opening lines, "I guess I just got lost, being someone else. I tried to kill the pain, but nothing ever helped," indicate a sense of confusion and disillusionment which comes from trying to be someone you are not. The singer has been trying hard to fit into someone else's expectations and molds, but it has not worked out, and the pain persists.


The second verse mentions that the singer has left themselves behind somewhere along the way, emphasizing how one can lose oneself while trying to please others. They yearn to come back around and find themselves someday. The repeated chorus of "would you one time just let me be myself so I can shine with my own light" reflects the simple yet powerful desire to be given the freedom to be oneself.


Towards the end of the song, the singer decides that it's time to make their way back into the world they knew and take back all the times they gave in to someone else's wishes. The ultimate message is that all they ever wanted from the world was to let them be themselves.


Line by Line Meaning

I guess I just got lost
I lost myself while trying to be someone else


Being someone else.
I pretended to be someone I'm not


I tried to kill the pain,
I attempted to overcome my pain


But nothing ever helped.
No remedy seemed to work


I left myself behind,
I abandoned who I was


Somewhere along the way
At some point in time


Hoping to come back around
Looking forward to finding myself again


To find myself someday
In search of my true identity


Lately I'm so tired of waiting for you
I am exhausted from waiting for your approval


To say that it's OK.
To grant me permission to be myself


Tell me please
I beseech you


Would you one time just let me be myself
Can you allow me to be who I really am, at least once


So I can shine
So that I can be happy


With my own light.
By being true to myself


Would you let me be myself?
Will you grant me permission to be my true self?


I'll never find my heart
I can never be emotionally fulfilled


Behind someone else.
By living as a fake version of myself


I'll never see the light of day
I will always feel trapped


Living in this cell.
Living as someone I'm not


It's time to make my way
It's time for me to take control


Into the world I knew.
To return to who I was


And then take back all of these times
To redeem the moments I wasted


That I gave in to you
That I surrendered to your expectations


For a while,
For some time


If you don't mind,
If it's okay with you


Let me be myself
Allow me to be who I am


That's all I've wanted from this world,
All I crave is to be true to myself


Is to let me be me.
So that I can live as myself


Would you one time
Can you please


Oh, let me be myself
Allow me to live as who I am


And let me be me.
So that I can live as my true self




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRADLEY KIRK ARNOLD, CHRISTOPHER LEE HENDERSON, MATTHEW DARRICK ROBERTS, ROBERT TODD HARRELL

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@wahnkhan

I guess i just got lost
Bein' someone else
I tried to kill the pain
Nothin ever helped
I left myself behind
Somewhere along the way
Hopin to come back around
To find myself someday

Lately i'm so tired of waiting for you
To say that it's ok, but tell me
Please, would you one time
Just let me be myself
So i can shine with my own light
Let me be myself
Would you let me be myself

I'll never find my heart
Behind someone else
I'll never see the light of day
Living in this cell
It's time to make my way
Into the world i knew
Take back all of these times
That i gave in to you

Lately i'm so tired of waiting for you
To say that it's ok, but tell me
Please, would you one time
Let me be myself
So i can shine with my own light
And let me be myself
For a while, if you don't mind
Let me be myself
So i can shine with my own light
Let me be myself

That's all I've ever wanted from this world
Is to let me be me

Please would you one time
Let me be myself
So i can shine with my own light
Let me be myself
Please would you one time
Let me be myself
So i can shine with my own light
Let me be myself
For a while, if you don't mind
Let me be myself
So i can shine with my own light
Let me be myself
Would you one time... oooh
Let me be myself
Let me be me



All comments from YouTube:

@lorcanwolfe5188

My dad passed away on June 23 2022. We would drive down the road with these guys playing. Thank you for the memories 3 doors down. R.I.P dad. Give grandma a hug for me

@yvettedowdy704

Hope you are better one tear later

@Pedrosagitangel

🤍🕊🙏🏽🫶🏽

@ethang2828

This song I dedicated to my little brother who passed suddenly at age 35. He suffered from schizophrenia for years & now he can finally be the true person he was without the voices haunting him anymore. I will miss him forever but he is free of the torment so I am grateful for that.

@tanjalippert718

You're a good soul! On the one hand feeling sorry for your brother. And maybe even for yourself and all the others he had to leave behind.(And that's ok!!) On the other hand you realized, how much he had to fight and suffer... And you are right: now he is at a better place! Must have taken a lot of time and hard work to accept that. But I'd do so as well. Pets and other animals have the right to "go". But we... We're not allowed to!! In contrary! - they keep us alive as long as they can! Ignoring our wishes of salvation... And they say, that we're kind of "blind". Drowning in the sea of sadness and depressions. And that we're not really able to decide on our own. And they are sure that they "save" us. And help us... Well, in some cases, this might be true. But humans are egoistic. Quite often. I could'nt stand it! I would'nt want someone to stay here on earth if he/she/it doesn't.
.. No matter how much I need him/her/it! And THAT is true love! To let someone go, when he/she/it does not want to stay...

@btblueyez4u

I am very sorry for your loss. I am recently diagnosed Bipolar and this song means so much to me personally. It's a world no one can possibly understand until you live it all your life. I am very lucky to have a very supportive wife, great psychiatrists, therapists, and medical doctors who are in this with me...it's sooo sad to hear stories about those with similar mental illnesses dying young....you''re right on one point though he is at peace and that I can tell you at least from a Bipolar point of view is very reassuring

@tjmartin1117

You and your brother are loved!

@MultiAbel777

I just want to be free too I can’t shut the voices in my head, now I lost everything I had love

@tammyburch3832

Gods got him!!! Know that!!!

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@tonycastro6386

42 years old and this song hits differently now.

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