grief
3rd Alley Lyrics


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(Words and Music by: Zack Walters)

Why you got to be bringing me grief
stealing all my time I should be calling you thief
so you fell in when I left the seat up
you should've turned around and looked
before planting your skinny ass butt
what am I looking at what am I feeling right now

why you got to be bringing me down
increasing my lack of money
cha-ching ain't a pleasant sound
I turn the A/C up, you turn the A/C down
It's like a circus on our not so merry go round
I'm tired, I'm sick, I can be a dick,

If your shrink don't save you, ooh ooh
Then I'd have no clue what to do
If valium don't calm you, ooh ooh
Then maybe a shovel will do

Pick me up don't be late, pay for my food but no touchin' my plate
Open my door, pull out my chair, you better notice when I style my hair
You didn't call, you didn't wait, I could just slap you right here on your face
well Oh my girl the tables have turned, I'm gonna stay til my tan lines have burned
Take out the trash, fill up my tank, say bye to your friends cause your locked on my chain
Say by to all of that your ass is mine, for all of your years or maybe just nine
blah, blah, blah, @#$%@^^ @#$&^%*$^##$ #$%^#$%^#$%

Why you got to be acting all insane
Neither jenny jones or jenny craig
could ease my endless pain
I know I should give up
I know I should give in




But round here that there we call Sinny sin, sin
I'm tired, I'm worn, my side aches from your thorn

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of 3rd Alley's song "Grief" express frustration towards a significant other who is causing stress and troubles in the relationship. The singer questions why his partner has to bring him grief and steal his time, money, and peace of mind. The song involves various areas of conflict and bickering, such as the temperature in the house, lack of communication, and the feeling of being controlled. Despite all these negative aspects, the singer admits to being a difficult person himself, implying that the relationship has two sides to the story. The line "What am I looking at, what am I feeling right now" suggests that the singer is unsure whether to stay in the relationship or walk away.


The song's lyrics also contain some sarcastic lines expressing the singer's frustration. The lines "If your shrink don't save you, ooh ooh, then I'd have no clue what to do" and "If valium don't calm you, ooh ooh, then maybe a shovel will do" paint a dark humor tone and hint that the singer is starting to feel like he is losing his sanity.


Some other significant aspects of the song "Grief" include its catchy melody and punk rock sound. The lyrics' clever use of rhymes and the quick tempo's upbeat nature contribute to the song's overall energy. Moreover, the song's chorus is memorable and easy to sing along, making it a crowd favorite in live performances.


Line by Line Meaning

Why you got to be bringing me grief
Why do you have to keep causing me trouble and pain


stealing all my time I should be calling you thief
You take up so much of my time that I could accuse you of stealing it


so you fell in when I left the seat up
You fell into the toilet bowl because I forgot to put the seat down


you should've turned around and looked before planting your skinny ass butt
You should have checked before sitting down and falling into the toilet


what am I looking at what am I feeling right now
I don't know what to make of this situation or how it's making me feel


why you got to be bringing me down
Why do you have to make me feel worse or bring negative energy into my life


increasing my lack of money
You're making me spend more money or causing me to have financial problems


cha-ching ain't a pleasant sound
The sound of money being spent is not a good or happy one for me right now


I turn the A/C up, you turn the A/C down
We can't seem to agree on the temperature in the room or the house


It's like a circus on our not so merry go round
Our relationship is like a crazy, chaotic ride that's not enjoyable


I'm tired, I'm sick, I can be a dick,
I'm exhausted, I'm unwell, and I can be rude or unpleasant because of it


If your shrink don't save you, ooh ooh
If your therapist can't help you, then I don't know what will


Then I'd have no clue what to do
I wouldn't know how to help you or improve the situation if that doesn't work


If valium don't calm you, ooh ooh
If medication can't calm you down, then maybe something more drastic is needed


Then maybe a shovel will do
Maybe I'll have to resort to violence or aggression to get through to you


Pick me up don't be late, pay for my food but no touchin' my plate
Come get me on time, buy me food, but don't try to eat off my plate


Open my door, pull out my chair, you better notice when I style my hair
Be polite and attentive to me, including opening doors and noticing when I change my appearance


You didn't call, you didn't wait, I could just slap you right here on your face
You didn't contact me or show consideration, making me angry or frustrated enough to want to hit you


well Oh my girl the tables have turned, I'm gonna stay til my tan lines have burned
The dynamic of our relationship has shifted, and now I'm the one in control and planning to stay for a while


Take out the trash, fill up my tank, say bye to your friends cause your locked on my chain
Do what I ask and take care of my needs, cut ties with your friends because you're now under my control


Say by to all of that your ass is mine, for all of your years or maybe just nine
You belong to me now, for the rest of your life or maybe just a short period


blah, blah, blah, @#$%@^^ @#$&^%*$^##$ #$%^#$%^#$%
I'm frustrated and mad, and I don't really know what else to say about it


Why you got to be acting all insane
Why are you behaving in such a crazy or irrational manner


Neither jenny jones or jenny craig
Neither a talk show host nor a weight loss program can solve the problems in our relationship


could ease my endless pain
Nothing seems to help me feel less hurt or upset by what's going on


I know I should give up
I understand logically that I should walk away from this situation


I know I should give in
I recognize that I should compromise or let things go to move forward


But round here that there we call Sinny sin, sin
In our world or relationship, we see things in a distorted or destructive way


I'm tired, I'm worn, my side aches from your thorn
I'm exhausted and hurt by the constant pain or irritation you cause me




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I. Can

Knowing this song and band makes you kind of a relic of early 2000's semi-underground stoner-surf-reggae culture. People just don't get it anymore...

JohnHazelwood58

still good :-) even in 2019!!! *cheers_from_germany

Artesanato E natureza

Foda esse som

JohnHazelwood58

even still good in 2020 as well :-) from time to time i need this song ... cheers, boys!

Free Wrigley

The best <3

Killian the fierce

good grief this song is sweet.

lāk ಠ_ಠ.

Bravo! เยี่ยม

Um et qualquer

Tô aqui vindo de outros tempos mas sempre no horário

Daniel Gonzalez

Greatest song ever I'm not playing . . A.s.s

Tylre Robedeau

When you forgot the fucking name until 2022

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