Distance
3suns Lyrics


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Tell me why you putting up this distance
I just wanna know
Can I know
You're acting different
When lately I just needed you to listen
Leaving me alone
You're so cold
I can't dismiss this
You don't even know
That you're breaking me to pieces
Let me put you on
Did me wrong
You got me tweaking
You keep playing games
But you the lame
You got it twisted
You got it twisted

And I got to make up all these decisions
When you're on my mind I'm always reminiscing
Playing with my heart, fire, and you got the matches
I keep writing songs just so I could get past it
I want you in my life
Is it right
Got to make up my damn mind
I can't hold on to you and waste all my damn time
We was playing in the sand but we got a plan right
Fucked up my life but you're why I can write
You didn't feel my pain
You only felt my love
You're the reason I'm insane
Is that what you want
Threw everything away
Including memories




I no longer give you all my energy

Tell me why you putting up this distance
I just wanna know
Can I know
You're acting different
When lately I just needed you to listen
Leaving me alone
You're so cold
I can't dismiss this
You don't even know
That you're breaking me to pieces
Let me put you on
Did me wrong
You got me tweaking
You keep playing games
But you the lame
You got it twisted
You got it twisted

You left me so down and broken
You left me to deal with my emotions
I can't keep going no I can't control it
So at this point I just keep on hoping
But you don't even understand
The ways that you make me feel
You always told me you gon care
But you never kept it real
Going through it all alone
Always fucked up my head
You always did the most
And lately you been getting so distant
You're missing
But you know what I'd do for you
I'd do for you
And you know how I'm down for you
Make sound for you
And you know I make time for you
I'd die for you

Tell me why you putting up this distance
I just wanna know
Can I know
You're acting different
When lately I just needed you to listen
Leaving me alone
You're so cold
I can't dismiss this
You don't even know
That you're breaking me to pieces
Let me put you on
Did me wrong
You got me tweaking
You keep playing games
But you the lame
You got it twisted
You got it twisted

Overall Meaning

In "Distance," 3suns delves into the complexities of relationships and the emotional turmoil that can ensue when a partner suddenly becomes distant. The opening lines set the tone for the entire song, with the singer seeking clarity on the rift that has developed between them. This plea for understanding emphasizes the hurt and confusion that arises when someone you care for begins to withdraw affection and attention. The juxtaposition of the singer's desire for connection against their partner's coldness deepens the sense of isolation felt in the relationship, painting a vivid picture of emotional dissonance. The phrase "you’re breaking me to pieces" highlights the vulnerability and fragility of the singer's emotional state, suggesting that the seemingly small act of distancing can have profound repercussions on mental well-being.


Throughout the lyrics, there’s a sense of internal conflict as the singer grapples with their feelings for someone who has caused them pain yet is still valued in their life. This dynamic creates a tension between longing and self-preservation. The singer expresses frustration over the constant emotional games being played, indicating a feeling of betrayal. The metaphor of playing with the heart and having "the matches" evokes the imagery of a flame that is both enticing and destructive, thus illustrating the dual nature of love—how it can bring joy and yet lead to heartbreak. The line about reminiscence reveals a struggle to move past the hurt while being unable to forget the good times shared. This back-and-forth emotional battle forces the singer to make heavy decisions about the relationship’s viability, showcasing the duality of hope and despair in love.


The chorus reiterates the pain of being sidelined by a loved one, with the singer wishing only to have their partner listen and acknowledge their feelings. The sense of being ignored and devalued reverberates throughout the song, highlighting how the absence of communication breeds misunderstandings and distance. The repetition of the phrase “you got it twisted” emphasizes a feeling of frustration, as if the singer is trying to convey the reality of their emotional experience to someone who remains oblivious. This repetition also reinforces the singer’s desire for recognition and validation; they want their partner to see the detrimental effects of their actions. The emotional weight of being "so cold" suggests a stark, heart-wrenching atmosphere that underscores the painful reality of unreciprocated emotions and the heartbreak inherent in feeling abandoned.


The final verses introspectively explore the effects of this emotional distance, with the singer recognizing the toll it has taken on their mental health. The rawness of their pain is palpable as they reflect on the loneliness brought on by their partner's disengagement. Despite their partner's promises to care, the singer feels those words were unfulfilled, leading to a sense of betrayal. The cycle of hope and despair becomes evident, as the singer clings to the desire for their partner's reciprocation while struggling with their own emotions. The culminating feelings of helplessness and hopelessness highlight a turning point, where painful memories linger, yet the singer begins to recognize that self-worth should not hinge on someone who brings more pain than joy. In essence, the song serves as a poignant meditation on the nuances of love, the confusion that distance can breed, and the journey toward reclaiming one's narrative amidst emotional turmoil.


Line by Line Meaning

Tell me why you putting up this distance
I want to understand the reason behind the emotional gap you're creating between us.


I just wanna know
I'm seeking clarity about your feelings and actions.


Can I know
Is there any possibility for you to share what's on your mind?


You're acting different
Your behavior has changed, and it feels unfamiliar.


When lately I just needed you to listen
All I needed from you recently was your attention and understanding.


Leaving me alone
You are choosing to isolate me when I need support.


You're so cold
Your indifference or lack of warmth is painfully evident.


I can't dismiss this
I find it impossible to overlook how your actions are affecting me.


You don't even know
You seem unaware of the emotional pain you're causing.


That you're breaking me to pieces
Your actions are shattering my emotional state.


Let me put you on
Allow me to explain or reveal the truth about our situation.


Did me wrong
You've treated me unfairly, and it hurts deeply.


You got me tweaking
I'm feeling anxious or unsettled because of your actions.


You keep playing games
You're toying with my emotions instead of being straightforward.


But you the lame
You are the one acting foolishly in this situation.


You got it twisted
Your perspective on our relationship is completely distorted.


You got it twisted
Once again, your understanding of reality is misaligned.


And I got to make up all these decisions
I find myself in a position where I must make difficult choices alone.


When you're on my mind I'm always reminiscing
Thinking of you brings back memories, both sweet and painful.


Playing with my heart, fire, and you got the matches
You are recklessly igniting my feelings, causing emotional turmoil.


I keep writing songs just so I could get past it
Creating music is my way of coping and processing this pain.


I want you in my life
Despite everything, I still desire your presence.


Is it right
I question if my feelings and desires are justified.


Got to make up my damn mind
I need to come to a decision about our relationship soon.


I can't hold on to you and waste all my damn time
I cannot stay attached to you if it leads to unproductive suffering.


We was playing in the sand but we got a plan right
We once shared innocent, carefree moments, but now we need direction.


Fucked up my life but you're why I can write
Though our relationship has caused me pain, it's also the source of my creativity.


You didn't feel my pain
You seem oblivious to the hurt I'm experiencing.


You only felt my love
You have only recognized my feelings of affection, not my suffering.


You're the reason I'm insane
Your actions and behaviors are driving me to emotional instability.


Is that what you want
Are you intentionally causing me distress?


Threw everything away
You've discarded our relationship and all its significance.


Including memories
You've abandoned even the cherished moments we shared.


I no longer give you all my energy
I've decided to stop investing my emotional resources in you.


Tell me why you putting up this distance
Once again, I seek to understand the reason for your emotional detachment.


I just wanna know
My desire for understanding remains constant.


Can I know
I hope you will eventually share your feelings with me.


You're acting different
Your recent behavior has created a gap between us.


When lately I just needed you to listen
I needed you to be present and supportive when I felt vulnerable.


Leaving me alone
You're choosing to withdraw at a time when I'm feeling isolated.


You're so cold
Your lack of warmth and compassion is painfully clear.


I can't dismiss this
I cannot ignore how profoundly this distance affects me.


You don't even know
You seem unaware of the damage you’re causing.


That you're breaking me to pieces
Your actions are tearing me apart emotionally.


Let me put you on
Allow me to explain the reality of our situation to you.


Did me wrong
You've treated me badly, and it has left a mark.


You got me tweaking
I'm feeling unstable and anxious as a result of your behavior.


You keep playing games
You are continuing to manipulate the situation.


But you the lame
You are the one behaving foolishly in this drama.


You got it twisted
Your perceptions and understanding are misaligned with reality.


You got it twisted
Once more, it's evident that your viewpoint is not grounded.


You left me so down and broken
You've caused me significant emotional distress and pain.


You left me to deal with my emotions
You've abandoned me to face my feelings alone.


I can't keep going no I can't control it
I feel overwhelmed, unable to manage my emotional state.


So at this point I just keep on hoping
Despite everything, I cling to hope for a better resolution.


But you don't even understand
You seem completely unaware of the impact of your actions on me.


The ways that you make me feel
You don't realize the depth of my emotional response to you.


You always told me you gon care
You promised that you would be supportive and attentive.


But you never kept it real
Your actions have contradicted your promises, lacking authenticity.


Going through it all alone
I am navigating this painful experience by myself.


Always fucked up my head
Your behavior has consistently caused mental and emotional confusion.


You always did the most
You put in efforts that were often overwhelming and confusing.


And lately you been getting so distant
Recently, you've become emotionally unreachable.


You're missing
Your presence in my life is fading; you're not here anymore.


But you know what I'd do for you
I want you to realize the lengths I would go to for your sake.


I'd do for you
My willingness to sacrifice and support you is sincere.


And you know how I'm down for you
You are aware of my loyalty and commitment to you.


Make sound for you
I would be expressive and vocal about my feelings for you.


And you know I make time for you
I prioritize you and always find time amidst my challenges.


I'd die for you
My devotion and dedication to you run extremely deep.


Tell me why you putting up this distance
Once again, I seek to understand the reason for your emotional detachment.


I just wanna know
My desire for understanding remains constant.


Can I know
I hope you will eventually share your feelings with me.


You're acting different
Your recent behavior has created a gap between us.


When lately I just needed you to listen
I needed you to be present and supportive when I felt vulnerable.


Leaving me alone
You're choosing to withdraw at a time when I'm feeling isolated.


You're so cold
Your lack of warmth and compassion is painfully clear.


I can't dismiss this
I cannot ignore how profoundly this distance affects me.


You don't even know
You seem unaware of the damage you’re causing.


That you're breaking me to pieces
Your actions are tearing me apart emotionally.


Let me put you on
Allow me to explain the reality of our situation to you.


Did me wrong
You've treated me badly, and it has left a mark.


You got me tweaking
I'm feeling unstable and anxious as a result of your behavior.


You keep playing games
You are continuing to manipulate the situation.


But you the lame
You are the one behaving foolishly in this drama.


You got it twisted
Your perceptions and understanding are misaligned with reality.


You got it twisted
Once more, it's evident that your viewpoint is not grounded.




Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid, Songtrust Ave
Written by: LARRY D WILSON, MICHAEL ELWOOD

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