That's The Way
A-Kay Lyrics


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Once she dressed in silks and lace, Owned a Rolls Royce car
Now she seems quite out of place, like a fallen star
Draped around my kitchen sink , Happy as can be
I just have to stop and think, Why she fell for me.

I'm not much to look at, nothing to see
Just glad I'm livin' and lucky to be
I got a woman crazy for me
She's funny that way.

I can't save a dollar, ain't worth a cent
She doesn't holler she'd live in a tent
I got a woman crazy for me
She's funny that way.

Tho' she loves to work and slave for me ev'ry day
She'd be so much better off if I went away.

But why should I leave her, why should I go
She'd be unhappy without me I know
I got a woman crazy for me
She's funny that way.

She should have the very best, Anyone can see
Still she's diff'rent from the rest, satisfied with me.
While I worry plan and scheme, Over what to do
Can't help feeling it's a dream, Too good to be true.

Never had nothin'; no one to care
That's why I seem to have more than my share,
I got a woman, crazy for me,
She's funny that way.

When I hurt her feelings, once in a while,
Her only answer is one little smile,
I got a woman crazy for me.
She's funny that way.

I can see no other way and no better plan,
End it all and let her go to some better man;
But I'm only human, coward at best
I'm more than certain she'd follow me west,




I got a woman crazy for me,
She's funny that way.

Overall Meaning

The song “That’s the Way” by A-Kay is a reflective tribute to a woman who has found love in an unlikely place. The first stanza takes the listener on a journey of the woman’s trajectory - from a time when she was once rich and famous to her current circumstance of being "like a fallen star", draped around the kitchen sink and happy as can be. The second stanza is an ode to the singer's own imperfections - he is not much to look at and is not rich but is lucky enough to have a woman who is crazy for him. The third stanza laments that the woman would be better off without the singer, but he can't imagine leaving her as he knows she would be unhappy without him. The fourth and final stanza praises the woman for being different from the rest, satisfied with the singer, and ends with a confession that he may not be the best for her, but he is only human and would never have the courage to leave her.


The lyrics of this song paint a vivid picture of the emotional complexity of relationships. The imagery of the 'fallen star' and the Rolls Royce car contrast starkly with the 'kitchen sink' but serves as a potent reminder that material possessions don't necessarily equate with happiness. Similarly, the lines about the woman being better off without him mirror the singer's own insecurities and self-doubt. Overall, the song seems to be a testament to the power of real love - one that is not given because of what one has or does but because of who one is.


Line by Line Meaning

Once she dressed in silks and lace, Owned a Rolls Royce car
She used to have a luxurious lifestyle with expensive clothes and a fancy car.


Now she seems quite out of place, like a fallen star
But now she feels displaced and forgotten, like a celebrity who has lost their fame.


Draped around my kitchen sink , Happy as can be
She is now content with her humble life and finds joy in the ordinary things, like doing dishes.


I just have to stop and think, Why she fell for me.
He can't help but wonder why someone who had everything would fall in love with someone like him.


I'm not much to look at, nothing to see
He doesn't consider himself particularly attractive or interesting.


Just glad I'm livin' and lucky to be
But he is grateful to be alive and have the love of his woman.


I can't save a dollar, ain't worth a cent
He admits he isn't good with money and doesn't have much to his name.


She doesn't holler she'd live in a tent
But his woman doesn't complain and would be happy to live with him anywhere.


Tho' she loves to work and slave for me ev'ry day
Even though she works hard to take care of him every day,


She'd be so much better off if I went away.
he believes she would be better off without him.


But why should I leave her, why should I go
But he doesn't want to leave her, as he loves her.


She'd be unhappy without me I know
He believes she would be unhappy without him.


She should have the very best, Anyone can see
He acknowledges that she deserves the best in life.


Still she's diff'rent from the rest, satisfied with me.
But even though she could have anyone, she is happy with him.


While I worry plan and scheme, Over what to do
He is always worried and trying to come up with a plan to provide for her.


Can't help feeling it's a dream, Too good to be true.
He almost can't believe how lucky he is to have her love.


Never had nothin'; no one to care
He admits to never having much in life and not having anyone to care about him before her.


That's why I seem to have more than my share,
So he feels like he has been blessed with more than he deserves.


When I hurt her feelings, once in a while,
He sometimes unintentionally hurts her feelings.


Her only answer is one little smile,
But she forgives him easily and responds with a smile.


I can see no other way and no better plan,
He can't imagine a better plan or way of life.


End it all and let her go to some better man;
Although he doesn't want to, he sometimes thinks it would be best for her to be with someone else.


But I'm only human, coward at best
But he admits he is only human and a bit of a coward.


I'm more than certain she'd follow me west,
He knows that no matter where he goes, she will follow him and stay by his side.


I got a woman crazy for me,
Despite all of his faults and shortcomings, he has a woman who is in love with him.


She's funny that way.
It might seem strange to others, but to him her love is just funny that way.




Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: Neil Moret, Richard Whiting

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