Cruise Control
AFI Lyrics


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I will never wanna date you
While I can learn to hate you
If you somehow learn to love me
Well, that's just my luck

I would never ever care
If you only wanted friendship
But somehow you're disappointed
That I'm not a slut

I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
So fuck you

In my mind there is no doubt
That you've been in and out of
Many different backseats
Many times before

I can always see your defeat
When I won't leave the front seat
Now it seems your disappointed
That I'm not a whore

I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
So fuck you

I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you

I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
So fuck you

I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you
I don't wanna fuck you




(I don't wanna fuck you)
So fuck you

Overall Meaning

In this song, AFI frontman Davey Havok addresses someone who is interested in him romantically or sexually, making it clear that he is not interested in either. The lyrics express his frustration with this person's persistent advances despite his lack of interest. The lines "I will never wanna date you, while I can learn to hate you" reveal that he would rather develop negative feelings towards this person than enter into a romantic relationship with them. In the chorus, he repeats "I don't wanna fuck you" multiple times to emphasize his point and assert his agency in the situation.


The second verse continues this theme of rejecting sexual advances. Havok suggests that the person has a history of sleeping around, and that he is not interested in participating in that kind of behavior. He also notes that the person is disappointed that he is not engaging in sexual activity with them, which speaks to societal pressures that often dictate that men should always be interested in sex. Havok's lyrics push back against this notion by emphasizing his right to say "no."


Overall, "Cruise Control" is a song about setting boundaries and saying no to unwanted advances. Havok's lyrics are straightforward and defiant, rejecting societal expectations and standing up for his own desires and beliefs.


Line by Line Meaning

I will never wanna date you
I have no interest in being in a romantic relationship with you


While I can learn to hate you
If you continue to pursue me despite my disinterest, I may begin to dislike you


If you somehow learn to love me
In the unlikely event that your feelings for me change to love, it wouldn't make a difference to me


Well, that's just my luck
I am sarcastically remarking on the unlikelihood of someone developing feelings for me


I would never ever care
I would be completely fine with simply being friends


If you only wanted friendship
If your intentions were platonic, that would be acceptable to me


But somehow you're disappointed
Your reaction to my lack of sexual interest is negative


That I'm not a slut
I refuse to engage in sexual relations outside of a committed relationship


I don't wanna fuck you
I have no interest in engaging in sexual activity with you


In my mind there is no doubt
I am certain that you have a promiscuous past


That you've been in and out of
You have had many sexual partners


Many different backseats
You have engaged in sexual activity in various locations


Many times before
This is not a new experience for you


I can always see your defeat
I can tell that you are upset by my lack of interest in a sexual relationship with you


When I won't leave the front seat
I am comfortably in control of the situation and will not give in to your advances


Now it seems your disappointed
You are still unhappy with how things have turned out


That I'm not a whore
I maintain my values and refuse to engage in casual sex


So fuck you
I am expressing my frustration with your inability to accept my boundaries


I don't wanna fuck you
I continue to assert my lack of sexual interest in you


I don't wanna fuck you
I am intentionally repeating myself to emphasize my point


I don't wanna fuck you
My lack of sexual interest will not change


So fuck you
I am asserting my autonomy and my right to make my own decisions


I don't wanna fuck you
My stance on a sexual relationship will not change


I don't wanna fuck you
I am continuing to reinforce my lack of interest


I don't wanna fuck you
I will not be swayed by your persistence


(I don't wanna fuck you)
I am repeating myself to further emphasize my point


So fuck you
I am expressing my annoyance and exasperation with the situation and with you




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing
Written by: ADAM A CARSON, DAVID PADEN MARCHAND, HUNTER LAWRENCE BURGAN, JADE ERROL PUGET

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