Their 1982 self-titled debut album, coming after their 1981 EP 'Telecommunication'. involved themes of alien abduction and disorientation in modern society, comparable to space rock. The band split in 1985 after later songs, taking in inspiration from commercial pop rock of the era instead, failed to reach an audience. Score reformed the band with new members in 1995. The original lineup reunited for a handful of small club dates in 2003. Since then, Score has sporadically performed his version of the band with a fluctuating lineup.
Wishing
A Flock of Seagulls Lyrics
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It's not the way that you smile
Although there's something to them
It's not the way you have your hair
It's not that certain smile
It could be that with you
If I had a photograph of you
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
It's not the make up and
It's not the way that you dance
It's not the evening sky
It's more the way your eyes are laughing as they glance
Across the great divide
If I had a photograph of you
It's something to remind me
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
It's not the things you say
It's not the things you do
It must be something more
And if I feel this way for so long
Tell me is it all for nothing
Just don't walk out the door
If I had a photograph of you
It's something to remind me
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
In "Wishing," A Flock of Seagulls speaks about the unexplainable desire and longing for someone, which leads an individual to wish for something tangible that can remind them of that person. The song suggests that it's not necessarily the physical appearance or actions of the person that create those feelings of desire, but more the intangible aspects of their personality and character that draw a person to them. The lyrics present a rhetorical question, wondering if these feelings are all for nothing or if they hold more significant meaning.
The repeated lyric, "If I had a photograph of you, it's something to remind me," emphasizes the desire for something tangible to symbolize the feelings associated with the person they long for. The use of "photograph" in the song could be seen as a metaphor, symbolizing the desire for a clear and tangible representation of how that person makes the singer feel.
This song has been interpreted by some as a reflection of the desire to hold onto moments and memories forever, as the photograph becomes a symbol for the singer's desire to hold onto and remember the person they long for. It's a song that speaks to the universal feeling of desire and the longing for something that seems just out of reach.
Line by Line Meaning
It's not the way you look
Your appearance isn't what makes me love you.
It's not the way that you smile
Even though your smile is charming, that's not why I love you.
Although there's something to them
Although your looks and smile do contribute, that's not everything.
It's not the way you have your hair
Your hairstyle doesn't make me love you more or less.
It's not that certain smile
That specific smile you have isn't the reason for my affection.
It could be that with you
Maybe it's just because I'm with you.
If I had a photograph of you
Having a picture of you would be a source of comfort for me.
It's something to remind me
Seeing a picture of you would make me happy and bring me good memories.
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
I wouldn't spend all of my days regretting not having a photo of you.
It's not the make up and
Your makeup isn't what I find attractive.
It's not the way that you dance
Even though you're a good dancer, that's not what makes me love you.
It's not the evening sky
The beauty of the sunset doesn't make up for your absence.
It's more the way your eyes are laughing as they glance
The way your eyes light up when you laugh is what I find endearing.
Across the great divide
Even if we're physically apart or have differences, my love for you remains.
It's not the things you say
Your words don't define my feelings for you.
It's not the things you do
Your actions don't solely determine my love for you.
It must be something more
My love for you goes beyond just your words and actions.
And if I feel this way for so long
After feeling this way for a long time, my love for you remains strong.
Tell me is it all for nothing
Does my love for you mean nothing to you?
Just don't walk out the door
Please don't leave me, even if you don't feel the same way.
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Written by: Frank Maudsley, Paul Reynolds, Ali Score, Mike Score
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LYRICS
It's not the way you look
It's not the way that you smile
Although there's something to them
It's not the way you have your hair
It's not that certain smile
It could be that with you
If I had a photograph of you
It's something to remind me
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
It's not the make up and
It's not the way that you dance
It's not the evening sky
It's more the way your eyes are laughing as they glance
Across the great divide
If I had a photograph of you
It's something to remind me
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
It's not the things you say
It's not the things you do
It must be something more
And if I feel this way for so long
Tell me is it all for nothing
Just don't walk out the door
If I had a photograph of you
It's something to remind me
I wouldn't spend my life just wishing
Songwriters: Mike Score, Ali Score, Frank Maudsley and Paul Reynolds
Robert DePatty
Before my wife passed away, I played her this song. Just to see her smile again. To tell her it’s not the make-up or her hair, but it was the way her eyes laughed as she glanced across the room when I’d walk in from work, or met her at restaurant for our date nights. I’m now crying as I write this. Lotsa Lotsa Honey! Your pain is gone now, and your boys are growing up and doing well. God damn this hurts!
💔 💔
David Kosach
Robert, I know exactly how you feel ! You wrote exactly how my girlfriend and I were. She used to say I was the only guy who was interested in her outside the bedroom. I was not a control freak, I didn’t go through her phone or email, I treated her as my lover not her father.
Lia lived a wild crazy lifestyle, very independent, beautiful and smart. Sadly she died in my arms 2 months before her 38th birthday 😢. I cry almost everyday still, I struggle everyday wishing I could be with her there instead of here alone. You are 100% correct, God damn this hurts ! ❤ to 💔 🥺
Monika Salvador
Os acompaño en el sentimiento ♥️
Prawn Star
😢
Ian Rogers
❤❤❤❤
Sandra Blackburn
Sorry, bless you n kids too
TalsVids
I feel really privileged to have grown up in a decade with music like this around.
Pink Panther
💋
Gods Vibes
So true, I miss those days when bands were individualistic and not afraid of been different 🙂
Apostolos Makrychoritis
It was the best decade by far