Love is Blind
A Pink Lyrics


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Is it love, or just a curse?
Do you feel good when I hurt?
I need your heart to open up
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck

Mommy help me, I need your help
This little boy, he took my love
He says these things that make my body pump up
But then he runs leavin' me undone
And I don't understand
For sex he said he'd be my man

Is it love, or just a curse?
Do you feel good when I hurt?
I need your heart to open up
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck (just my luck)

Daddy listen, I gave it up
I'm not your little girl
My cherry, and all the trust is missing
But please listen, what do I do?
I know you wanna hurt him
But I like what he do, he's only doin' what you used to

Is it love, or just a curse?
Do you feel good when I hurt?
I need your heart to open up
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck (just my luck)

You never told me 'bout the birds and the bees
Or 'bout hide n' go seek or what he gets when he finds me
The biggest mistakes in the choices I make
Won't you help me decide, what's goin' down in my mind? (Help me decide)

Is it love, or just a curse? (Is it love?)
Do you feel good when I hurt? (Do you, do you feel good?)
I need your heart to open up (I need it to open up)
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck (well it's just my luck)

Is it love, or just a curse?
Do you feel good when I hurt?
I need your heart to open up (I need your heart, I need your heart)
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck (if it's not real, ooh)

Is it love, or just a curse? (That thing you put on me has got me so confused)
Do you feel good when I hurt? (Won't somebody help me, tell me what should I do?)
I need your heart to open up (why's it feel so good, if it's just a curse?)
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck (will it get better, or will it get worse?)

Is it love, or just a curse? (Tell me, tell me, tell me)
Do you feel good when I hurt? (Does it feel good to you?)




I need your heart to open up
If this love's not real, then it's just my luck

Overall Meaning

The song “Love is Blind” by A Pink is a powerful and emotional ballad that explores the confusion and pain of being in an unhealthy and possibly abusive relationship. The lyrics are sung from the perspective of a young woman who is struggling to understand whether her intense feelings for her partner are true love or simply a harmful curse. She desperately needs guidance and support from the important figures in her life, her parents, to help her navigate this difficult situation.


The woman admits to experiencing a rollercoaster of emotions, including feeling both pleasure and pain from her partner's actions. She also reveals that she has already given up her innocence and trust to this person, which complicates matters further. Throughout the song, she begs for help and clarity, unsure of how to move forward in her life.


The song's chorus is particularly poignant, as it highlights the underlying question that the singer is grappling with - whether this love is real or just a curse. While she confesses that she wants to believe that her partner’s actions are motivated by love, she can't help but feel that something is amiss. The song ultimately ends with her questioning whether things will get better or worse, leaving the listener to consider the difficult and painful journey that lies ahead for her.


Overall, “Love is Blind” is a beautifully written and performed song that delves into the complexities of toxic relationships. It reminds us that love can be both a source of happiness and anguish, and that it’s important to rely on the support of those closest to us when navigating the darker emotions that come with it.


Line by Line Meaning

Is it love, or just a curse
The singer questions whether the intense feelings between her and her partner are genuine love or a negative influence.


Do you feel good when I hurt
The singer suspects that her partner may enjoy causing her emotional pain.


I need your heart to open up
The singer desires a deeper emotional connection with her partner and is asking them to be vulnerable with her.


If this love's not real, then it's just my luck
The singer expresses a fear that her relationship may be built on false promises, leaving her feeling unlucky and deceived.


Mommy help me, I need your help
The singer is seeking emotional support from her mother, likely due to the trauma within the relationship.


This little boy, he took my love
The singer characterizes her partner as a childish figure who has taken advantage of her love.


And he says these things that make my body pump up
The singer hints at the physical attraction she feels towards her partner, but also suggests that her response may be involuntary and perhaps not indicative of genuine love.


But then he runs leavin' me undone
The singer's partner makes false promises of commitment, then disappears or violates trust, causing her great emotional pain.


And I don't understand
The singer is confused by the way her partner is treating her, and unable to make sense of their behavior.


For sex he said he'd be my man
The singer reveals that her partner has made promises of commitment in exchange for sexual favors.


Daddy listen, I gave it up
The singer is revealing her sexual activity to her father, likely as an attempt to seek guidance or protection from further harm.


I'm not your little girl
The singer asserts her independence and maturity, perhaps indicating a desire to be treated as an adult despite being the subject of her father's protectiveness.


My cherry, and all the trust is missing
The singer is revealing to her father that she has lost her virginity and the trust she placed in her partner, likely due to hurtful actions.


But please listen, what do I do
The singer is seeking advice and guidance from her father.


I know you wanna hurt him
The singer acknowledges that her father may be angry and wish to seek revenge against her partner for her pain.


But I like what he do, he's only doin' what you used to
The singer places some blame on her father for her history of being attracted to hurtful men, and suggests that her partner is simply following in her father's negative footsteps.


You never told me bout the birds and the bees
The singer is expressing frustration towards her parents for not providing proper sex education or guidance in relationships.


Or bout hide n' go seek or what he gets when he finds me
The singer is suggesting that she was not warned about the potentially dangerous or manipulative behavior of men in romantic relationships.


The biggest mistakes in the choices I make
The singer acknowledges that she has made mistakes in her choices of romantic partners and is seeking guidance to avoid repeating these mistakes.


Won't you help me decide, what's goin' down in my mind
The singer is appealing to her parents for advice and guidance in navigating her confusing and painful romantic experiences.


That thing you're puttin' on me
The singer is accusing her partner of manipulating her or pressuring her into continuing the problematic relationship.


Has got me so confused
The singer reveals that she is emotionally and mentally conflicted about the relationship and unsure how to proceed.


Won't somebody help me, tell me what should I do
The singer is pleading for help and guidance to navigate the challenges of the relationship.


In my heart it feels so good, is it just a curse
The singer acknowledges that she is experiencing intense positive emotions towards her partner, but suspects that this may be a negative influence or curse.


Will it get better, or will it get worse
The singer is questioning the trajectory of the relationship, and whether it will ultimately improve or deteriorate.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Stephen Clarke, Harold Fraiser, Alecia B Moore, Aaron Phillips

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Comments from YouTube:

@hybefanboi

sad to know we won't get to see nangni performing this song live again with her beautiful smile

@fatmanurkandil1494

We wont have YOS's songs anymore 😔🥲
Thank you Naeun, i will support you bottom of my heart. 🐼🤍

@_yunjuverse_

We will have Apink YO 😔 It is so sad, but i will still support her :)

@04h19m

이 셋 유닛곡 컴백 플리즈 ㅠㅠ 럽이즈블라인드처럼 상콤한곡으로 또 노래내줘요ㅠㅠ!! 의상 곡 안무 모두 완벽했음

@Soooo-ht8ck

나은 언니 상큼하게 웃지 마요.... 심장 아픔ㅠㅜ

@Superion74

You can tell Bomi, Hayoung, and Naeun all have fun doing this video, and that's why their performance is so energetic and cheerful.

@user-mq6ri2km2t

솔직히 우리 핑수니들 팬으로써 계속 보러오는데
이 영상은 나으니가 진짜 색감이 젤 너무 찰떡으로 나옴ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 사랑행

@green598

Very underrated song

@yclairetm3668

It's so refreshing to hear Naeun's voice here. She gets to sing more here unlike in most of their songs, where she has the least lines.

@kjoydelrosario6591

One of my favorites because i can hear Na Eun voice longer than usual when they perform as a group.

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