Desperate But Not Serious
Adam Ant Lyrics


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If I ask you difficult questions
If I make improper suggestions
Would you find that a risk to your health
Would you put me up on the bookshelf

With the books and the plants?
Desperate but not serious
Your kisses drive me delirious
If I were kind and adoring

How would that be?
Very boring
Mister Pressman with your penknife
Always asking about my sex life

And who with and how many times?
Desperate but not serious
Your kisses drive me delirious
All the advice seemed so unkind

"If you don't stop, you will go blind!"
Tell you it's none of their business
Then console you with a big kiss
On the lips and on the back of your neck





Desperate but not serious...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Adam Ant's "Desperate But Not Serious" portray a sense of playful flirtation mixed with a hint of danger. The singer is posing difficult questions and improper suggestions to his partner, testing the boundaries of what is acceptable. The line "Would you find that a risk to your health?" suggests that the singer is aware of the potential consequences of pushing too far.


The bookshelf metaphor adds to the playful tone, with the singer envisioning himself as just another book or plant in his partner's life. The chorus, "Desperate but not serious, your kisses drive me delirious," is a celebration of the passion between the two, even if it's not supposed to be taken too seriously. The verse about the pressman with his penknife, always asking about the singer's sex life, adds a darker edge to the lyrics, highlighting the potential risks of indulging in such behavior.


Overall, the lyrics to "Desperate But Not Serious" capture the excitement and risk-taking of a relationship that's not afraid to push boundaries, while also recognizing the potential dangers and consequences.


Line by Line Meaning

If I ask you difficult questions
If I challenge you with intellectual questions


If I make improper suggestions
If I flirt with you and make suggestive comments


Would you find that a risk to your health
Would you consider my advances dangerous to your well-being


Would you put me up on the bookshelf
Would you categorize me with other objects, like books and plants


Desperate but not serious
I am feeling anxious, but not to the degree of being genuine or committed


Your kisses drive me delirious
I am overwhelmed with passion and affection when you kiss me


If I were kind and adoring
If I acted nicer and more lovingly towards you


How would that be?
Would that improve our relationship?


Very boring
I don't think acting kind and loving is exciting or interesting


Mister Pressman with your penknife
Addressing a hypothetical person criticizing his lifestyle choices


Always asking about my sex life
Always wanting to know about his sexual activity


And who with and how many times?
Demanding information about his sexual partners and frequency of sexual activity


All the advice seemed so unkind
The advice given to me seems harsh and negative


"If you don't stop, you will go blind!"
A common moral warning about masturbation


Tell you it's none of their business
It's not their place to ask about my personal life


Then console you with a big kiss
I will comfort you with a huge kiss


On the lips and on the back of your neck
A description of where he will kiss you


Desperate but not serious...
I am still nervous and concerned, but not completely committed to anything serious




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Written by: MARCO PIRRONI, ADAM ANT

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@negascoot23

He's Prince without the creepiness, he's Bowie without pretension, he's a less "German" Falco...

He's a sex god in a genre filled with guys who look like Elvis Costello or Thomas Dolby.

He wears glitter-punk warpaint and outfits from Napoleon's yard sale...yet somehow projects palpable masculinity (only a truly hardcore sonofabitch could dress like that in public unironically)

He is the patron saint of the New Romantic aesthetic...

We desperately need more like him, especially now.



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Saw him play the entire Friend or Foe album in late 2019, and he was still so charismatic and sexy. Had a blast.

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I'm not even remotely gay. But yeah. This guy is smokin..

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The reverbed spaghetti western guitars, the big band horns, the crooning vocals of Adam, the haunting synth,the steady mocking of the bass line, Pure mad genius.

@michavandam

Synth?

@saiyajinali

There is so much random shit going on in this tune until it cant help but be epic

@michavandam

@@saiyajinali There's nothing random about it. It's all been purposefully designed.

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