If I Can't Have You
Adam Lambert Lyrics


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Don't know why I'm surviving every lonely day
When there's got to be no chance for me
My life would end and it doesn't matter how I cry
My tears of love are a waste of time

If I turn away am I strong enough to see it through?
Go crazy is what I do
If I can't have you, I don't want nobody baby
If I can't have you
If I can't have you, I don't want nobody baby

Can't let go and it doesn't matter how I try
I gave it all so easily to you my love
To dreams that never will come true
My tears of love are a waste of time

If I turn away am I strong enough to see it through?
Go crazy is what I'll do

If I can't have you, I don't want nobody baby
If I can't have you, if I can't have you

If I can't have you I don't want nobody
If I can't have you, if I can't have you




Am I strong enough to see it through?
If I can't have you

Overall Meaning

The song "If I Can't Have You" by Adam Lambert deals with the pain of unrequited love. The lyrics convey a sense of desperation and hopelessness in trying to move on from a love that is not returned. The singer is struggling to understand why they are still surviving every lonely day even though they feel there is no chance for their love to be reciprocated. The pain of not being able to have their love is so intense that they don't want anyone else if they can't have the one they desire.


The lyrics also express a fear of turning away from this love and being unable to move on with life. The singer questions their own strength in being able to see it through and imagines going crazy if they can't have the person they love. The chorus repeats the same sentiment - if they can't have the person they desire, they don't want anyone else.


Overall, the song captures the raw emotions of rejection and unrequited love. It conveys the depth of pain and despair that can come from loving someone who doesn't feel the same way.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't know why I'm surviving every lonely day
I can't understand how I am able to carry on living every single day alone and without the one I love.


When there's got to be no chance for me
I feel like there is no hope of being with the one I want.


My life would end and it doesn't matter how I cry
Even if I cry my heart out, my life would still seem pointless without the one I desire.


My tears of love are a waste of time
Crying over someone who I can't have is just a waste of my emotions.


If I turn away am I strong enough to see it through?
If I try to move on from this person, will I be able to handle it?


Go crazy is what I do
It's possible that I might lose my sanity as a result.


If I can't have you, I don't want nobody baby
I only want the person I love, and if I can't have them, I don't want anyone else.


Can't let go and it doesn't matter how I try
I find it impossible to let go of my feelings for this person, even if I try.


I gave it all so easily to you my love
I willingly gave everything to the one I love.


To dreams that never will come true
All of my hopes and aspirations for a life with this person will never come true.


If I can't have you I don't want nobody
I would rather be alone than be with someone who isn't the person I love.


Am I strong enough to see it through?
I question whether I am strong enough to move on from these feelings.


If I can't have you
I only want the one I love, and if I can't be with them, then nothing else matters.




Lyrics © Kanjian Music, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Barry Alan Gibb, Maurice Ernest Gibb, Robin Hugh Gibb

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Comments from YouTube:

@Ardenwolfe

Still one of the best performances, if not the best one, in Idol history.

@lisavivola5988

This young man can turn an already good song into an absolute masterpiece. He is beyond talented....

@mirianscott7669

So true! Unique, blessed!

@mirianscott7669

I even like his version better now

@superfreak3050

And Kris Allen won. murica lol

@sharonm.6413

One of the best performances EVER on American Idol. FLAWLESS

@robertmartin1325

Sharon M. Exactly!

@ericlind6581

Sharon M. This and Brian Crum's Creep

@myrtlebeaching

Sharon M. , agree 💯 %. Here I am 5 years after your post. I searched for this performance because it’s so amazing!

@mediakel

Absolutely positively love Adam Lambert... even in 2013.... he is the only IDOL ever! :)

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