This Is How You Are
Adam Merrin Lyrics


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Soon he's on his way

Soon he's on his way

And the doctor told me I should know

There's something that has caused this to happen
All the days and all our nights

Waiting for his eyes to open



Soon he's on his way

Soon he's on his way

And it cuts into you like a knife

It tears you up and leaves you on the table

And all this time we felt the life

You take it from us all the while



Here's to you and to all who's forgiven

You take another life

We're too far and he will not listen

This is how you are



Soon we'll run away

Soon we'll run away

When you feel like this and no one knows

You try to walk but you just can't go

I hear him cry, I can't sleep at night

You help me but I can't let go



God help me so

God help me so

Well I thought that I was good enough





I guess I wasn't rightfully so

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Adam Merrin's song "This Is How You Are" depict feelings of loss and helplessness. The repeated line of "Soon he's on his way" seems to refer to the impending death of someone close to the singer. The doctor's warning suggests that this loss is the result of a medical condition or accident. The lines "And it cuts into you like a knife / It tears you up and leaves you on the table" further emphasize the overwhelming pain and sorrow that comes with the loss of a loved one.


The chorus is a damning condemnation of whoever or whatever caused this tragedy: "Here's to you and to all who's forgiven / You take another life / We're too far and he will not listen / This is how you are." The anger and bitterness conveyed in these lines suggests that the person responsible for the loss is someone who has done wrong in the past and has now caused more harm, but refuses to acknowledge or change their behavior.


The verse that begins with "Soon we'll run away" serves as a reminder that even in the midst of grief, there is still a need to keep moving forward. However, the lines "When you feel like this and no one knows / You try to walk but you just can't go" speak to the isolating and overwhelming nature of grief. Despite the support of others, the singer still feels alone in their pain.


Overall, "This Is How You Are" is a poignant and moving meditation on loss and the complex emotions that accompany it.


Line by Line Meaning

Soon he's on his way
Someone is leaving soon


And the doctor told me I should know
A doctor gave some important information


All the days and all our nights
We have been waiting for a long time


Waiting for his eyes to open
We are waiting for someone to wake up


And it cuts into you like a knife
It hurts you deeply


And all this time we felt the life
We were hopeful and felt alive


You take it from us all the while
But our hope was taken away


Here's to you and to all who's forgiven
Cheers to those who have been forgiven


You take another life
Taking a life is a serious offense


We're too far and he will not listen
We can't get through to him


This is how you are
This is how you behave


Soon we'll run away
We will be leaving soon


When you feel like this and no one knows
When you are struggling and feel alone


You try to walk but you just can't go
You are trying to move forward but are stuck


I hear him cry, I can't sleep at night
I am worried and can't sleep


You help me but I can't let go
I appreciate your help but am having trouble moving on


God help me so
I need divine intervention


Well I thought that I was good enough
I believed I was capable


I guess I wasn't rightfully so
But I was wrong




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powuhh

HIMYM has the best songs.

MissParamoreGirl

This song makes me think about all shit that happens to my life.I LOVE IT!! ♥♥

Allison Summer

This is such a good song; fits the movie perfectly. :) This is one of my favorites, apart from Scary Godmother- and I'm 14! XD

Bria Ellison

I LOVE THIS SONG🎶🎶🎶

Andi Dakota

i cant remember this song on the haunting hour..but its nice :)

sana mirza

Heart touching song

Nicole Romeu

i love this song!!!!

Sara Roshani - music

Nice song - which I found on Bones like always!<3 - but weird picture? :D

DiFer Fer

cool song, I like it

Pilar Pantoja

HIMYM ♥

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