Cold Shoulder
Adele Lyrics


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You say it's all in my head
And the things I think just don't make sense
So where you been then? Don't go all coy
Don't turn it 'round on me like it's my fault
See I can see that look in your eyes
The one that shoots me each and every time (each and every time)

You grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her

These days when I see you
You make it look like I'm see-through
Do tell me why you waste our time
When your heart ain't in it, and you're not satisfied
You know I know just how you feel
I'm starting to find myself feeling that way too

When you grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her

Time and time again, I play the role of fool
(Just for you)
Even in the daylight when you think that
(I don't see you)
Try to look for things I hear but our eyes never find
Though I do know how you play

You grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her

You grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her




You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Adele's "Cold Shoulder" are indicative of a toxic relationship that Adele is trying to address. The song speaks of the frustration and disappointment that one feels when in a relationship with someone who is not fully present or invested. Adele acknowledges that her partner is distancing himself from her, leading to misunderstandings and confusion. Her partner dismisses her concerns and makes her feel insignificant.


The lyrics "You say it's all in my head, And the things I think just don't make sense" point towards her partner's dismissive and gaslighting behavior, where he undermines her feelings and emotions. The lines "You grace me with your cold shoulder, Whenever you look at me I wish I was her, You shower me with words made of knives" suggests that her partner's behavior is hurting her deeply and making her feel rejected, insignificant, and unworthy of love.


Despite everything, Adele seems to cling on to the hope that her partner will find it in his heart to be honest and committed to her. However, she knows deep down that this relationship is not healthy and might continue to hurt her.


Overall, Cold Shoulder is a song with lyrics that convey a deep sense of hurt and betrayal in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You say it's all in my head
You're dismissing my feelings and emotions as imaginary


And the things I think just don't make sense
You're not understanding my thoughts and ideas


So where you been then? Don't go all coy
Don't act evasive and mysterious when I ask you where you've been


Don't turn it 'round on me like it's my fault
Don't make me feel guilty for something that's not my fault


See I can see that look in your eyes
I can tell by your facial expressions that something's wrong


The one that shoots me each and every time (each and every time)
That look hurts me every time I see it


You grace me with your cold shoulder
You're treating me with indifference and neglect


Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
Your behavior makes me feel inadequate and inferior


You shower me with words made of knives
The way you speak to me hurts me deeply


These days when I see you
Recently, when I've seen you


You make it look like I'm see-through
You're treating me as if I'm invisible or insignificant


Do tell me why you waste our time
Explain to me why you're investing time in something that's not working


When your heart ain't in it, and you're not satisfied
When you're not emotionally invested and content


You know I know just how you feel
I understand how you're feeling


I'm starting to find myself feeling that way too
I'm beginning to feel the same emotions


Time and time again, I play the role of fool
Repeatedly, I'm acting foolish in our relationship


(Just for you)
(Only to please you)


Even in the daylight when you think that
Even during the daytime when you assume


(I don't see you)
(That I don't notice you)


Try to look for things I hear but our eyes never find
I'm searching for the truth, but we can't seem to see it


Though I do know how you play
But I understand your game and tactics




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Adele Laurie Blue Adkins, Sacha Skarbek

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@gracesuanjin9968

You say it's all in my head
And the things I think just don't make sense
So where you been then? Don't go all coy
Don't turn it round on me like it's my fault
See I can see that look in your eyes
The one that shoots me each and every time


You grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I with I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her


These days when I see you
You make it look like I'm see-through
Do tell me why you waste our time
When you I know just how you feel
I'm starting to find myself feeling that way too


When you grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her


Time and time again, I play the role of fool
(Just for you )
Even in the daylight when you think that
( I don't see you )
Try to look for things I hear but our eyes never find
Through I do know how you play


You grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her


You grace me with your cold shoulder
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her
You shower me with words made of knives
Whenever you look at me I wish I was her



All comments from YouTube:

@future.mortician

Somehow, after all the other hits and amazing songs she’s done, this is probably still my favorite song of hers. The sound is just so cool.

@enriquesanchez9016

True! Her discography is amazing but i wish she made more songs like this. There's something special about it that i can't put into words.

@michelelong5283

It's still one of if not my favorite of her songs. I cannot sit still when I listen to it!

@ogechukwuokpala9607

Same!

@Mrslovett007

I honestly feel the same way. And Melt My Heart to Stone is epic as well.

@destinsansbury4992

@@enriquesanchez9016 agreed! I love Right as Rain as well.

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@misskaufman6214

Masterpiece. Brutally underrated.

@barywilliams3653

Adele's voice is simply amazing. The lyrics at this time in her life are heartbreaking. "Whenever you look at me I wish I was her." This song is brilliant yet sad.

@misskaufman6214

@@barywilliams3653 it's not "I wish I was her" it's "and wish I was her"

@barywilliams3653

@@misskaufman6214 Opps. Thanks! I will listen again.

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