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Familiar
Agnes Obel Lyrics


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Can you walk on the water if I, you and I?
'Cause your blood's running cold outside the familiar true to life
Can you walk on the water if I, you and I?
Or keep your eyes on the road and live in the familiar without you and I
It glows with gates of gold true to life

And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are (oh, what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's a danger
'Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see (oh)

We took a walk to the summit at night, you and I
To burn a hole in the old grip of the familiar, you and I
And the dark was opening wide, do or die
Under a mask of a million ruling eyes

(Oh, I)

And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are (oh, what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's a danger
'Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see (oh)

Overall Meaning

The song "Familiar" by Agnes Obel speaks of a love that is kept hidden from the rest of the world. The opening lines of the song ask a question of whether the two lovers can break free from the constraints of their surroundings and the familiar reality they exist in. The lyrics speak of the possibility of walking on water, a biblical reference perhaps, where the idea of defying the laws of physics implies the desire to transcend the limitations of one's current situation. The love between the two is a ghost that the others cannot see, meaning it is hidden from the outside world, and the two are maintaining a facade of normality in their daily lives.


As the song progresses, the lyrics speak of a walk taken by the two lovers to a summit at night time. The purpose of this journey is to break free from the old grip of the familiar and to find a way to escape from the ruling eyes of the world. The chorus again speaks of the love shared by the two as a ghost, something that is invisible and unrealized by others. It is a danger because it threatens to disrupt the familiar world. The final lines of the song refer to the possibility that this love could be the death of the singer.


Overall, the song speaks of the intensity of a hidden love that is outside of the accepted norms of society. The desire to break free from the familiar, to transcend the limitations of the world, and to find a new and true reality with the one you love.


Line by Line Meaning

Can you walk on the water if I, you and I?
Are we powerful enough to defy the laws of nature and perform miracles together?


'Cause your blood's running cold outside the familiar true to life
You're feeling uncomfortable and scared due to being outside of your usual environment.


Or keep your eyes on the road and live in the familiar without you and I
Should we just take the easy and mundane path in life without taking risks and exploring our love?


It glows with gates of gold true to life
Despite its beauty, there is something mysterious and potentially dangerous about the love the two share.


And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
Their love is invisible and unknown to others, which can be isolating and dangerous.


It's a danger
Their love is unpredictable and potentially harmful to themselves and others around them.


Every shade of us you fade down to keep
In order to protect their love from outside judgment, they must conceal parts of themselves from others.


Them in the dark on who we are (oh, what you do to me)
Keeping their love hidden from public view has profound effects on their sense of self.


Gonna be the death of me
Their love has serious consequences that may lead to their downfall.


We took a walk to the summit at night, you and I
Together, they ventured into the unknown in search of something greater and more profound.


To burn a hole in the old grip of the familiar, you and I
Their aim was to challenge the limitations and expectations placed on them by society and tradition.


And the dark was opening wide, do or die
As they venture further into the unknown, they face the possibility of great peril.


Under a mask of a million ruling eyes
Despite their efforts to conceal their love, they feel exposed and judged by society as a whole.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Agnes Caroline Thaarup Obel

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@mamaziha79

"Familiar"

Can you walk on the water with I, you and I?
"Because your blood's running cold" said the familiar, true to life
Can you walk on the water with I, you and I?
Or keep your eyes on the road and live there familiar, without you and I
It glows with gates of gold, true to life

And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are
(Oh what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's a danger
Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see

We took a walk to the summit at night, you and I
To burn a hole in the old grip of the familiar, you and I
And the dark was opening wide, do or die
Under a mask of vermillion (a million) ruling eyes

And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are
(Oh what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's danger
Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see...



@joedatura1023

I have been listening to this song for almost ten years now and I just got the story this song is about. She is such a powerful musician when it comes to evoking emotions just by voice, melody and words alone, that the meaning was completely lost to me until now.

The song is about a love affair - two people who meet and fall in love and can't be together because of the lifes they lead.

"Can you walk on the water if I, you and I?
Or keep your eyes on the road and live in the familiar, without you and I"

In the beginning of the song, she asks her lover if their love is possible. She compares it to walking on water, but she also references the lifes they both lead, wondering what's more impossible - to be together, or to carry on like it never happened.

"For our love is a ghost that the others can't see,
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are"

This is a reference to their love threatening their usual lifes. Which is why I think it's about an affair. If people knew, it would destroy everything, so they got to stay quiet.

"We took a walk to the summit at night, you and I
To burn a hole in the old grip of the familiar, you and I
And the dark was opening wide, do or die"

This could mean a litteral walk at night, or it could be a reference to sleeping with each other. "To the summit at night", "to burn a hole" - the first one could be a more direct reference, while the second one references passion, that is yet again forbidden and thus not just burning but burning a hole into the every day life.

Edit: "do or die" in this context references the impossibility of not taking these actions and the deep longing after each other.

If we view the whole of the song though, it makes me think about the choice of title and the focus on the topic of the familiar. It feels like it's unclear to her herself if the feelings they have for each other arise from a longing for adventure and new, intense experiences to break out of the familiar or if it is something true and honest. It's hard to say if she thinks the familiar is something bad or good. If it is something that you get comfortable in, even though you shouldn't. Or if it's a good and baluable thing.
And maybe it's neither. Maybe it's just a view on how time goes, always, turning something new into something familiar, making you wish for new things in a cyclical motion that we're doomed to repeat forever?

Idk if my analysis makes sense to anyone but myself. However, to me, this seems very logical. :)



@vijaychavan2267

1:33 to 2:00 lyrics:
"And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are (oh, what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's a danger
'Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see (oh)
"
This describes Martha's and Jonas' love very well!!!!



@Anoteros69

[Verse 1]
Can you walk on the water with I, you and I?
"Because your blood's running cold" said the familiar, true to life
Can you walk on the water with I, you and I?
Or keep your eyes on the road and live there familiar, without you and I
It glows with gates of gold, true to life

[Chorus]
And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are
(Oh what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's a danger
Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see

[Verse 2]
We took a walk to the summit at night, you and I
To burn a hole in the old grip of the familiar, you and I
And the dark was opening wide, do or die
Under a mask of vermillion (a million) ruling eyes

[Chorus]
And our love is a ghost that the others can't see
It's a danger
Every shade of us you fade down to keep
Them in the dark on who we are
(Oh what you do to me)
Gonna be the death of me
It's danger
Cause our love is a ghost that the others can't see



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I made a cover of this. beautiful song on my channel. I would like you see it<3

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