They Don't Know
Alexandra Burke Lyrics


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I went to the doctor to open up my heart
Got my symptoms all mixed up
He didn't know where to start
Ain't no doctor in this world
That can keep a broken heart from falling apart

'Cause they don't know
Oh, they don't know

I went to my mother to show me how to cry
She said "Baby let me shed your tears, I'll make the sacrifice"
But ain't no crying in this world's gonna take the place of mine

'Cause they don't know
They don't know

Some questions have answers
And others just lead you on
Some answers don't answer enough
But I know
The answer is love

But they don't know
Oh, they don't know

I went to my brother to help me understand
Asked him why they're walking by
Don't seem to give a damn
Don't they see the love they pair's walking by empty-handed

'Cause they don't know
They don't know

I went to my father to get some prayer for me
He said I hold my head up high 'cause there's something there for me
Crying but I'm smiling through
'cause suddenly I see

What they don't know
They don't know that

Sometimes,

Some questions have answers
And others just lead you on
Some answers don't answer enough
But I know
The answer is love





But they don't know
Oh, they don't know...

Overall Meaning

The song "They Don't Know" by Alexandra Burke highlights the struggle of dealing with a broken heart and the inability of others to truly understand one's pain. The lyrics in the first verse illustrate the main character's inability to get the proper help to fix her broken heart, as even medical professionals are incapable of healing an emotionally wounded person. The chorus "they don't know" is a recurring line throughout the song that stresses the lack of understanding and empathy from others. The second verse features the character's mother, who tries to comfort her daughter by crying on her behalf, but this still doesn't fix the heartache. The song stresses that everyone has their own pain and suffering to deal with and it can be challenging for others to comprehend.


In the bridge, the songwriter suggests that love is the answer, but that doesn't mean it is always easy to find. The final verse incorporates the character's brother and father, who provide some advice on how to handle the pain, but ultimately it is the individual who must find the strength to carry on despite the heartbreak. The song expresses the emotions of heartache in a unique way and encourages listeners to understand their own pain and take the necessary steps towards healing.


Line by Line Meaning

I went to the doctor to open up my heart
I sought medical attention to mend my broken heart


Got my symptoms all mixed up
I couldn't adequately express my emotional distress


He didn't know where to start
The physician was unable to help me effectively


Ain't no doctor in this world That can keep a broken heart from falling apart
Medical intervention is insufficient to heal an emotionally wounded heart


'Cause they don't know Oh, they don't know
Medical professionals may not fully understand the depths of emotional pain


I went to my mother to show me how to cry She said "Baby let me shed your tears, I'll make the sacrifice" But ain't no crying in this world's gonna take the place of mine
I sought emotional guidance from my mother, but ultimately, no one else's tears can substitute for my own healing process


Some questions have answers And others just lead you on Some answers don't answer enough But I know The answer is love
Not all questions have clear answers, but love is the solution to emotional wounds


I went to my brother to help me understand Asked him why they're walking by Don't seem to give a damn Don't they see the love they pair's walking by empty-handed
I sought perspective from my brother regarding why some people seem indifferent to love


I went to my father to get some prayer for me He said I hold my head up high 'cause there's something there for me Crying but I'm smiling through 'cause suddenly I see
I sought spiritual guidance from my father, who encouraged me to maintain hope, find strength in myself, and discover clarity


What they don't know They don't know that Sometimes,
Others may not fully understand what it's like to endure emotional pain


But they don't know Oh, they don't know...
Despite others' inability to fully comprehend, it's important to find personal healing through love




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Comments from YouTube:

Susan Knight

This is a beautiful, soulful song, and Alexandra's voice is gorgeous 💖❤💖

Kieran.42

This is amazing

Asterion

👑 Queen 👑

DJ RAYWILL Raymond Williams

Truthfully,they don’t know ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Mary Batistic

Beautifully Noted But Spiritual & Mentally & Physical Process 🙏🏼🙏🏼🍃🤍🕊🦋🦋🙌

Doru Radulecu

Cool

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