Children of Divorce
Alive In Wild Paint Lyrics


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We are children of divorce
Spiritual mothers
Chemical fathers
Wish I learned to love you more
Lonesome brothers
Trustless daughters

We are children born of wars
Fought in places
For the faces
Where happiness is sold in stores
They'll keep you smiling
If you keep buying

But they can't take from you
Something inside you never knew
You always have too much to prove
And never have enough to lose

I seem to see everything you do

We are the unwritten scrolls
Background songs
For dialogues
Always wanting something more
To be the stars
The light shines on

But they can't take from you
Something inside you never knew
You have nothing to prove
And oh, you have so much to lose





I seem to see everything you do

Overall Meaning

These evocative lyrics of Children of Divorce by Alive in Wild Paint explore the devastating effects of broken homes on the lives of the children. The song begins by describing the harsh reality of living in a fragmented family, where children are forced to endure the impact of divorce, living with spiritual mothers and chemical fathers. The lines "Wish I learned to love you more, Lonesome brothers, Trustless daughters" highlight the sense of loss, longing, and abandonment felt by the children. The pain and isolation faced by them is evident through the imagery of "Lonesome Brothers" and "Trustless Daughters," who are bereft of the unconditional love and support that a family should provide.


The second verse deepens the profoundness of the first, referring to children born of wars that have faced turbulent times. The quest for happiness in today's world is portrayed as a commodity that can be purchased in stores. The idea of possessing a sense of contentment can be fleeting, elusive and often linked to the material wealth and acquisitions, a trap that many people fall into. However, the song reminds its listeners that some things are beyond the reach of material possessions. The line "They can't take from you something inside you never knew" emphasizes our innate ability to find inner peace and strength, even in the most challenging of circumstances.


The chorus conveys the theme of the song, highlighting the duality of our lives. On the one hand, we always "have too much to prove," struggling to find acceptance and validation in our lives. But on the other hand, we "never have enough to lose," which emphasizes our fragility in the face of life's challenges. The final line, "I seem to see everything you do," suggests the empathic quality of the artist, who sees the pain and hurt suffered by others.


Line by Line Meaning

We are children of divorce
We are offspring of spouses who ended their marriage


Spiritual mothers
Our mothers are not physically present, but we feel their guiding influence


Chemical fathers
Our fathers are emotionally distant or absent and cope by using drugs or alcohol


Wish I learned to love you more
Our relationships with our parents are strained and we wish we had greater affection for them


Lonesome brothers
Our brothers feel isolated and disconnected from us and others


Trustless daughters
Our daughters have difficulty trusting others due to the breakdown of trust they experienced with their parents' divorce


We are children born of wars
We are the offspring of parents who lived through traumatic events and conflicts


Fought in places
Our parents fought in battles or conflicts, both literally and figuratively, throughout their lives


For the faces
Our parents fought for the people and things that mattered to them most


Where happiness is sold in stores
Society encourages us to find happiness through consumerism and material possessions


They'll keep you smiling
Advertisers and marketers promise that their products will bring us happiness, and they will do anything to keep us smiling in order to sell us more


If you keep buying
We are told that we need to keep buying in order to maintain our happiness, but it's never enough and we can never truly be satisfied


But they can't take from you
Despite the influence of consumerism and societal pressure, there is still something inside of us that is uniquely ours


Something inside you never knew
We may not be aware of our own strength, resilience, and individuality until we are forced to face difficult circumstances


You always have too much to prove
Our success and self-worth are often judged by external factors, leaving us feeling like we have something to prove


And never have enough to lose
We may not have much to gain from societal expectations, but we have everything to lose by conforming to them


I seem to see everything you do
We are constantly observing and evaluating the actions of those around us, particularly our parents, and their examples shape who we become


We are the unwritten scrolls
We are blank slates, with our own stories yet to be written


Background songs
We may feel invisible or insignificant compared to the world around us, like background music to someone else's story


For dialogues
Our lives can be seen as supporting roles for the people we encounter and interact with


Always wanting something more
We are searching for a sense of purpose and fulfillment in our lives


To be the stars
We aspire to stand out and make our mark on the world in a positive way


The light shines on
We believe that we have the potential to shine, and that our talents and abilities are a valuable contribution to the world


You have nothing to prove
Our worth is not defined by external standards, and we do not need to justify our existence to anyone else


And oh, you have so much to lose
While we may not need to prove our worth, we have a great deal to lose if we do not live up to our own potential and take advantage of the opportunities we have




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mikel


on God Save Me A Gun

a sadly poignant message, so many years after its release

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