Chokin' Kind
Allen Toussaint Lyrics


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I only meant to love you
Didn't you know it babe
Didn't you know it
Why couldn't you be content
With the love I gave oh yeah
I gave you my heart
But you wanted my mind, oh yeah
Your love scared me to death, boy
Oh it's the choking kind
That's all it is

You can kill a girl
With a bottle of poison or a knife
I know you can
And hurt her more to take her pride
And run his life
Oh it's a shame boy
Whatever it is boy
I surely hope you find, oh yeah
I tell you that hat don't fit my head
Oh, it's the choking kind

It makes me want to mmm'
Oh yeah, oh listen to me
When you fall in love again boy
Take a tip from me oh yeah
If you don't like the peach
Then walk on by the tree
That's what you better do, honey
Find what you want boy
Keep it, treat it, sweet and kind, oh yeah
Oh let it breathe, don't make it the choking kind
Oh no, don't break my heart baby
Oh no, I know you love me truly I do, honey
But your love scares me to death boy
It's the choking kind
That's all it is

Overall Meaning

"Chokin' Kind" is a soul song by Allen Toussaint that was originally released in 1967. It’s a lament from a partner who feels suffocated in the relationship, the love is too much, he/she is getting drowned. The lyrics suggest that the partner has overwhelming love that is too much to handle, "Your love scared me to death, boy, Oh, it's the choking kind, that's all it is." The singer acknowledges the affection of the partner but cannot handle it. The song speaks of the difficulties of love and finding someone who loves you the way you want to be loved.


The singer warns his partner that Love can turn deadly, "You can kill a girl with a bottle of poison or a knife, I know you can, and hurt her more, to take her pride and run his life." The partner is advised to find what he/she wants, treat it nicely or let it go. The singer also tells his/her partner to be mindful of the next love interest if there is one, "When you fall in love again, boy, take a tip from me, oh yeah, if you don't like the peach, then walk on by the tree." The song is a lament of the difficulties of love and finding the balance between too much love and too little.


Line by Line Meaning

I only meant to love you
I had no ulterior motives or deceptions in loving you; it was from a place of sincerity.


Didn't you know it babe
Were you not able to perceive the sincerity of my love for you?


Didn't you know it
Were you not aware of the genuineness of my intentions?


Why couldn't you be content
Why were you not able to be satisfied with the love that I gave you?


With the love I gave oh yeah
The love that I had given you was all that I could offer and everything that I had.


I gave you my heart
I had given you my heart, which is the truest and purest expression of love.


But you wanted my mind, oh yeah
You were not interested in the love I had to offer, but rather in manipulating me and controlling my thoughts and emotions.


Your love scared me to death, boy
Your love was not nurturing or caring, but rather suffocating and terrifying.


Oh it's the choking kind
Your love was not a love that could nourish or uplift me, but rather was one that was smothering and damaging to my soul.


You can kill a girl
You possess the potential to destroy a woman, both physically and emotionally.


With a bottle of poison or a knife
There are various ways that you could harm a woman, both through physical and emotional means.


I know you can
I am aware of the danger that you pose, and the ways in which you could hurt me.


And hurt her more to take her pride
You could inflict even greater damage by attacking a woman's self-esteem and sense of worth.


And run his life
You could also control a woman's existence by dominating her and manipulating her actions and decisions.


Oh it's a shame boy
It is terrible and deeply regrettable that you would threaten a woman in this way.


Whatever it is boy
Regardless of what it is that drives you to act in this manner.


I surely hope you find, oh yeah
I hope that you are able to overcome these tendencies and adopt a more positive and constructive outlook.


I tell you that hat don't fit my head
I cannot accept or tolerate this type of mistreatment or abuse from you.


Oh, it's the choking kind
The nature of your love is such that it is smothering and oppressive, rather than nurturing and uplifting.


It makes me want to mmm'
The overwhelming nature of this love causes me to feel suffocated and trapped.


Oh yeah, oh listen to me
Please take my words to heart and listen to my concerns and fears.


When you fall in love again boy
If you become involved with another woman in the future.


Take a tip from me oh yeah
Learn from the mistakes you made in our past relationship and strive to be a better partner in the future.


If you don't like the peach
If you do not like or appreciate the love that someone has to offer.


Then walk on by the tree
It is best to simply move on and seek love elsewhere.


That's what you better do, honey
It is in your best interest to seek out a love that nurtures rather than chokes.


Find what you want boy
Strive to find a form of love that is fulfilling and enriching to both yourself and your partner.


Keep it, treat it, sweet and kind, oh yeah
In order to have a fulfilling relationship, it is crucial to treat one's partner with kindness and respect.


Oh let it breathe, don't make it the choking kind
One cannot expect to have a healthy or prosperous relationship by suffocating or controlling one's partner.


Oh no, don't break my heart baby
Please do not inflict any further pain or heartbreak upon me.


Oh no, I know you love me truly I do, honey
Although your love may be genuine, it is not a form of love that I can accept or sustain.


But your love scares me to death boy
I am deeply frightened and disturbed by the nature of your affection and behavior towards me.


It's the choking kind
Your love is smothering and oppressive in nature, and is not conducive to a positive and healthy relationship.




Writer(s): HARLAN HOWARD

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