You Don't Know
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You don't know what love is
'Til you've learned the meaning of the blues
Until you've loved a love you've had to lose,
You don't know what love is.

You don't know how lips hurt
Until you've kissed and had to pay the cost,
Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost,
You don't know what love is.

Do you know how a lost heart fears
At the thought of reminiscing,
And how lips that taste of tears
Lose their taste for kissing?
You don't know how hearts burn
For love that can, not live yet never dies.




Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes,
You don't know what love is.

Overall Meaning

These lyrics convey the message that true love is not fully understood until it is experienced in its entirety, including the painful side of love. The first two lines explain that the blues are a melancholic music genre that can be used to express pain and sadness. The lyricist suggests that until one has loved and faced the pain associated with it, they have not truly known love. The following lines, "Until you've loved a love you've had to lose," suggest that one has to experience the pain of losing someone they love before they can fully appreciate the meaning of love.


The second stanza describes the physical and emotional pain that come with loving and losing. The line "You don't know how lips hurt" shows that kissing can be painful when one is heartbroken. This pain is magnified by the feeling of having to "pay a cost" for the love that was lost. The lyric "Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost" emphasizes the idea that there is a price to pay for love.


The third stanza paints a picture of the emotional turmoil that comes with having loved and lost. The lyric "Do you know how a lost heart fears at the thought of reminiscing" emphasizes how the memory of past love is enough to strike fear in one's heart. The following line, "And how lips that taste of tears lose their taste for kissing" suggests that after experiencing heartbreak, one loses the desire to engage in future romantic endeavors. The last two lines of the stanza, "You don't know how hearts burn for love that can not live yet never dies, until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes," summarize the jarring experience of loving someone, losing them, but still wanting them.



Line by Line Meaning

You don't know what love is
Love cannot be understood until it is experienced.


'Til you've learned the meaning of the blues
Experiencing heartbreak and sadness helps one understand love.


Until you've loved a love you've had to lose,
Loving someone so deeply and losing them teaches one about the depth of love.


You don't know how lips hurt
Kissing someone can be painful when one has to pay the cost of their actions.


Until you've kissed and had to pay the cost,
One cannot understand the pain of kissing someone until they have regretted it.


Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost,
Losing someone whom you loved deeply can be agonizing.


You don't know how hearts burn
The pain of unrequited love can feel like a fire within one's heart.


For love that can, not live yet never dies.
A love that cannot be sustained but remains in one's memories can still be intense.


Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes,
The pain of heartbreak can make it difficult to sleep, and facing each day can be agonizing.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DON RAYE, GENE DE PAUL

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