The Things the Lonely Do
Amazulu Lyrics


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Close my eyes and count to ten
I go to work and back again
There ain't nothing in between
The things the lonely do

I go thumbing through the invites
Always settle for the low lights
I don't like to fill my life
With things the lonely do

I don't try to understand the talk at parties
'Cause I'm never free
I don't try to make believe the invitations
Are meant for me

Oh, independence always looked fine
So one day I thought I'd make it mine
But I never talk about
The things the lonely do
Are you lonely too

I don't try to understand the talk at parties
'Cause I'm never free
I don't try to make believe the invitations
Are meant for me

Oh, independence always looked fine
So one day I thought I'd make it mine
But I never talk about
The things the lonely do

Close my eyes and count to ten
I go to work and back again
There ain't nothing in between
The things the lonely do
There ain't nothing in between
The things the lonely do
There ain't nothing in between

No, nothing
(Are you lonely too)
Nothing
No, nothing
(Are you lonely too)
Nothing
No, nothing
(Are you lonely too)
Nothing
No, nothing
(Are you lonely too)




No, nothing
Nothing.

Overall Meaning

The song “The Things the Lonely Do” by Amazulu is an introspective reflection of the things that people do when they feel lonely. The lyrics are a representation of the mundane and unremarkable life that people living in solitude experience. The song starts with the phrase “Close my eyes and count to ten” which symbolizes the need to escape from the reality of being alone by shutting down emotionally. The singer then describes how they just go to work and back without any enjoyable moments in between. This is the kind of life that is devoid of any excitement or adventure.


The next verse talks about how the singer goes through invitations but always settles for the low lights, meaning they never attend high profile events and opt to stay in their comfort zone. The singer doesn't make an effort to try and understand what people are talking about in parties because they feel like they don't fit in. The chorus of the song emphasizes how independence has always looked good to the singer, but they never talk about the things that they do while living alone. The repetition of the phrase “Are you lonely too?” suggests that these activities are common among solitary individuals and that others may also feel the same way.


In conclusion, “The Things the Lonely Do” is a poignant and existential song that speaks to the reality that so many people experience, which is feeling isolated and alone in a world that is always socializing. The song paints a picture of a life that is devoid of meaningful connections and experiences, and the singer is resigned to living this life of loneliness. The song acknowledges the difficulties that come with being alone and how it can be challenging to find a way to connect with others, even in the most seemingly mundane activities.


Line by Line Meaning

Close my eyes and count to ten
I distract myself from my loneliness by temporarily shutting off my senses.


I go to work and back again
My daily routine is monotonous, leaving no room for social interaction.


There ain't nothing in between
My life lacks the middle ground of social connection, leaving only extremes.


The things the lonely do
These actions serve as coping mechanisms for loneliness.


I go thumbing through the invites
I half-heartedly search for social opportunities.


Always settle for the low lights
I choose environments that match my subdued mood.


I don't like to fill my life
I can't bear the idea of trying to manufacture happiness.


With things the lonely do
I recognize that my actions stem from loneliness and not genuine enjoyment.


I don't try to understand the talk at parties
Socializing is not a priority for me, so I don't bother trying to engage in conversation.


'Cause I'm never free
My mind is always preoccupied with feelings of isolation and sadness.


I don't try to make believe the invitations
I don't allow myself to believe that invitations are sincere attempts at befriending me.


Are meant for me
I doubt that I'm truly welcome in social situations.


Oh, independence always looked fine
At first, being alone seemed appealing and empowering.


So one day I thought I'd make it mine
I consciously chose the path of independent living.


But I never talk about
I keep my inner struggles related to loneliness to myself.


The things the lonely do
These actions remain my private coping mechanisms.


Are you lonely too
I wonder if others can relate to the intense feelings of loneliness I experience.


No, nothing
The emptiness and lack of connection remains.


(Are you lonely too)
I'm still searching for others who can understand my loneliness.


Nothing
The repetition of my lonely routine is unfulfilling.




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@1oceanice

the eighties so rocked with Amazulu a hit in all the clubs back home in New Zealand love there album always have always will.

@janepilling4294

Wow gorgeous tune 35 years still love it

@catgirlKL

Lovely song, shame it wasn't a bigger hit, it deserved to be!

@albionvillas

a truely beautiful song... I used to listen to it on repeat whilst studying for exams... the loneliness!

@radio4play

I've also been searching for this for years - one of my favourite ever songs, thanks so much.

@claysonsdad

Lovely warm song.

@MrRichieq

I love this song. It reminds me of growing up in the 80s :-)

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Yooh this group i.ve searching and asking myself where are they.... reminds me when I was growing up in the eighties....🥰🥰♥️♥️

@rammas2

OMG!!!! I've been looking for this song online for years!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing!

@adrianmadden

Love this song, have the 12" somewhere in the loft........gorgeous little gem xxxxx

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