Mama Don't Understand
Ambrosia Lyrics


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My mama don't understand
She's impossible to the core
Now she says that she's gettin' married
He's a friend of a friend of the boy next door

He's got all of the best intentions
Half of a school degree
When he does his song and dancin'
They know they can be happy as the shows on TV

She needs a change, she wants a life
Where she can grow and they can thrive
Some kind of space of her own

A different view, another slant
Another way, another chance
To get on with her life

(Mama she don't understand)
Mama she don't
She don't even know
She don't know
She don't understand

She's gotta know
If she can cut life on her own
But like the man says
"You can never go home again"

You gotta come see the new place
Mom, you're gonna feel right at home
Could you just front that deposit
Mama, we'll pay you back when the welfare check comes

Nothin's gone as expected
No one knows all the trouble we've seen
But we'll pull ourselves together
It's the two of us now, of course, baby makes three

A little luck, an even break
We'll find a way to have our cake
And even eat a piece or two

We'll show you how
We're winnin' now
We'll live it up
Can't keep 'em down

She don't understand me
Don't understand me

So mama, please understand
(Mama, please understand)
If it's possible, we implore
Could we just move in these few things
We won't get in the way and we'll sleep on the floor

'cause, times have been getting tougher
(Times have been getting tough)
It's an unfriendly world outside
They say things will pick up by summer
Can we borrow the car, will you watch little Clyde
Thanks a lot

Mama don't understand
Mama don't understand me

Mama don't understand
Mama don't understand me
(Mama don't understand me)
(Mama don't understand me, no)

Mama don't understand
She don't understand me




(Mama don't understand me)
(Mama, she don't understand me, yeah)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ambrosia's Mama Don't Understand appear to be about a young adult's frustration with their mother's lack of understanding and support for their choices. The singer wants to break free and create their own life, but their mother seems to hold them back.


The lines "She needs a change, she wants a life, Where she can grow and they can thrive, Some kind of space of her own" suggest that the singer feels suffocated by their current living situation and wants more autonomy. However, the mother seems resistant, as shown by her insistence that the singer and their partner pay a deposit to move in with her.


The scene painted is one of struggle, as the singer seeks their own path while dealing with financial difficulties and an uncertain future. They seem hopeful though, as evidenced by the line "We'll find a way to have our cake, And even eat a piece or two."


Overall, the song explores the tension between the desire for independence and the emotional pull of family ties. It highlights how difficult it can be to strike out on one's own, especially when faced with a lack of support from loved ones.


Line by Line Meaning

My mama don't understand
My mother doesn't comprehend my situation


She's impossible to the core
She is deeply set in her ways and beliefs


Now she says that she's gettin' married
She has announced that she is getting married


He's a friend of a friend of the boy next door
The man she is marrying is an acquaintance of someone she knows well


He's got all of the best intentions
He has good intentions


Half of a school degree
He doesn't have a completed college education


When he does his song and dancin'
When he puts on a show


They know they can be happy as the shows on TV
They believe they can be as happy as those on television


She needs a change, she wants a life
She desires a different lifestyle


Where she can grow and they can thrive
She wants to flourish in a new environment with her partner


Some kind of space of her own
She needs her own personal space


A different view, another slant
She desires a new perspective and approach to life


Another way, another chance
She wants to start a new life with a new opportunity


To get on with her life
She wants to move forward with her life


(Mama she don't understand)
(Mother, she doesn't understand)


Mama she don't
She really doesn't


She don't even know
She is unaware


She don't know
She truly has no idea


She don't understand
She cannot comprehend


She's gotta know
She needs to understand


If she can cut life on her own
If she can live independently


But like the man says
As the saying goes


"You can never go home again"
"You can never return to the past"


You gotta come see the new place
You need to come visit our new home


Mom, you're gonna feel right at home
Mother, you will feel comfortable here


Could you just front that deposit
Can you loan us the money for the initial payment?


Mama, we'll pay you back when the welfare check comes
We will pay you when we receive our government assistance money


Nothin's gone as expected
Everything has been unpredictable and different than planned


No one knows all the trouble we've seen
No one fully comprehends the struggles we have faced


But we'll pull ourselves together
We will regroup and move on


It's the two of us now, of course, baby makes three
It's just us two, plus our child on the way


A little luck, an even break
A small amount of good fortune and a chance for success


We'll find a way to have our cake
We will figure out how to attain our desires


And even eat a piece or two
We will still enjoy the small things in life


We'll show you how
We will demonstrate and prove our points


We're winnin' now
We are experiencing success at this moment


We'll live it up
We will enjoy life to its fullest


Can't keep 'em down
We won't be held back


Mama, please understand
Mother, we need you to comprehend our situation


(Mama, please understand)
(Mother, please understand)


If it's possible, we implore
If it is feasible, we beg


Could we just move in these few things
Can we bring in just a few of our belongings


We won't get in the way and we'll sleep on the floor
We won't interfere and we will make do with the limited space


'cause, times have been getting tougher
Times are becoming more difficult


(Times have been getting tough)
(Times have been challenging)


It's an unfriendly world outside
The world can be hostile and unpleasant


They say things will pick up by summer
People believe things will improve during the summer months


Can we borrow the car, will you watch little Clyde
Can we borrow your car, and will you take care of our child?


Thanks a lot
Thank you very much


Mama don't understand
Mother cannot comprehend


Mama, she don't understand me
Mother does not understand my situation


(Mama don't understand me)
(Mother cannot comprehend me)


(Mama, she don't understand me, yeah)
(Mother cannot comprehend me, yes)




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DAVID PACK, DAVID ROBERT PACK, JOSEPH PUERTA

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