Formed in 2006, the band derived its name from the Wilco song, “I Am Trying to Break Your Heart,” and is led by band founder and lead vocalist/ guitarist BJ Barham. A new lineup was announced in April 2017 with new faces joining the ranks: Crooks drummer Joey Bybee, Damn Quails bass player Ben Hussey and guitarist Shane Boeker – all from Texas – along with Nashville pedal-steel player Adam Kurtz, who also fronts Music City's experimental Buck Owens tribute Buck N' Stuff. Bybee left in August 2018 and was replaced by Nashville-based drummer Matty Alger, who in turn left in February 2019. Kurtz left the band after the Mile Zero fest in January 2019, and Hussey left in July 2019.
Their first album, Antique Hearts, was released in 2006, followed by The Bible and the Bottle in 2008.
In 2012, American Aquarium released two albums: Live in Raleigh and Burn. Flicker. Die.
The band released their sixth original album, Wolves, in February 2015.[7] The band's fans helped raise $24,000 through a Kickstarter project to help fund the album's production, and the album was recorded in Asheville, North Carolina at Echo Mountain.
On November 25, 2016 "Live at Terminal West" was released by the band from a live show recording in November 2015 at Terminal West in Atlanta, Georgia.
Things Change was released on New West Records in 2018, followed by
Lamentations (on New West Records) in 2020.
Me + Mine
American Aquarium Lyrics
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As long as my grandfather can remember
Plow in soil, diggin' holes
Pilin' coal, to strippin' down the timber
Then they showed up, they shut us down
Same old story, the same old town
"It's like we don't matter", mamma said
And that's the day I woke up
From the American dream
What are you supposed to do
When the God you're prayin' to
Up and goes missin'?
Leaves a trail on unpaid bills
Broken homes and opioid addiction
And then a politician shows up
Promisin' that
He'll return the jobs
That God himself could not bring back
Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me
Yeah, that's the day I gave up
On the American dream
These lamentations
Are gettin' too damn hard to sing
These lamentations
Are gonna be the death of me
You see, me and mine, we ain't the kind
To sit around idle and complain
We're tough as nails, mean as hell
Without an ounce of quit in our veins
But the harder we work, the more they take
'Till all the good is gone, for goodness sake
Neither the left or the right
Are gonna fight for folks stuck in between
The way things really are
The American dream
These lamentations
Are gonna be the death of me
These lamentations
Are gettin' too damn hard to sing
These lamentations
Are gonna be the death of me
These lamentations
Are gettin' too damn hard to sing
American Aquarium's song Me + Mine is a lamentation about the decline of small-town America, the loss of its resources, and its people. The song's lyrics are the story of a family that worked their land for generations, only to be shut down by an unknown force. They were left without jobs, unable to pay their bills, and with broken homes and opioid addictions. The family's desperation is captured in the line, "What are you supposed to do when the God you're praying to up and goes missing?"
The song's political commentary is evident when a politician shows up, promising to bring back the jobs that have disappeared. The song suggests that neither the left nor the right will fight for folks stuck in between. It speaks to the disillusionment and frustration of rural communities who feel forgotten by the American dream.
The chorus of "These lamentations are gonna be the death of me" speaks to the weight of the family's struggles and the sense of hopelessness that accompanies them. The lyrics' repeated phrases of "it's like we don't matter" and "the same old story" convey a sense of powerlessness.
In conclusion, Me + Mine is a poignant commentary on the decline of small-town America and the loss of its people's resources, with a powerful message about the disillusionment and weight of struggling rural communities.
Line by Line Meaning
Me and mine have worked this land
My family and I have been tending to this farm for generations
As long as my grandfather can remember
This has been a part of my family's livelihood for as long as anyone can recall
Plow in soil, diggin' holes
We do tough manual labor day in and day out to keep our farm running
Pilin' coal, to strippin' down the timber
We work in a variety of industries just to make ends meet
Then they showed up, they shut us down
Big corporations and the government came in and closed down our industries, taking away our livelihoods
Same old story, the same old town
This has happened to many other towns like ours, and it feels like it's just going to keep happening
"It's like we don't matter", mamma said
My mother vocalizes the feeling of worthlessness and disregard that we feel as a community
"At least that's how it seems"
She acknowledges that it may not be a fact, but that's how it appears to us
And that's the day I woke up
The day the government closed down industry in our town was the day I realized the American Dream is not what it seems
From the American dream
The idea that anyone can succeed and achieve their goals in America is not a reality for everyone
What are you supposed to do
When even the higher power you believe in can't help you, what options do you have?
When the God you're prayin' to
Referring to a higher power or government officials that we're relying on to help us
Up and goes missin'?
When the help we need is nowhere to be found
Leaves a trail on unpaid bills
The helplessness we experience is leading to debt and financial strain
Broken homes and opioid addiction
The hopelessness of our situation is leading to destructive behaviors and unhealthy coping mechanisms
And then a politician shows up
Politicians start offering promises of change and hope
Promisin' that
Offering hope that the jobs will return and the community will recover
He'll return the jobs
The politicians promise of bringing jobs back to the community
That God himself could not bring back
The politicians are making promises they can't keep
Fool me once, shame on you
When the politicians don't follow through on their promises, it's their fault
Fool me twice, shame on me
If we continue to believe their empty promises after experiencing disappointment, then it's our fault
Yeah, that's the day I gave up
After experiencing disappointment from politicians and the government for too long, I stopped believing in the American Dream
On the American dream
The idea of the American Dream that is promised to all is not achievable for many Americans, and is not a reality for everyone
We're tough as nails, mean as hell
We are hard workers and fighters and won't give up easily
Without an ounce of quit in our veins
We will continue to fight and work hard regardless of the challenges we face
But the harder we work, the more they take
The more we try to recover from the hardship we've been dealt, the more we lose
'Till all the good is gone, for goodness sake
We continue to lose everything we have and it feels like it's never going to stop
Neither the left or the right
Both political parties have failed to help us
Are gonna fight for folks stuck in between
The middle class, working Americans are not a priority for either political party
The way things really are
The harsh reality of the situation
The American dream
The idea of the American Dream is a myth and not a reality for many Americans
These lamentations
Songs of sorrow and grief
Are gonna be the death of me
The sadness and hopelessness of the situation is becoming unbearable
Are gettin' too damn hard to sing
We are struggling to find any positivity or hope in the situation
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Written by: Bj Barham
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Cynthia Conaway
My husband works at a vinyl record pressing plant. He put this song on the turntable after work—first I'd ever heard it, or of American Aquarium...
Halfway through the song, I couldn't finish the dishes. Dried my hands and snuck to the bedroom, trying to hide I was in tears. Found the video online, put the earbuds in and sat frozen; mesmerized, taking in this...thing...that this band captured in this song and video...
Zeigeist? Nostalgia? Requiem? Lament?
These words don't completely capture whatever bowled me over. If ever there was a song that is more than the sum of its parts "Me & Mine" is exactly it. The song, BJ's voice, the lyrics and the visuals in the video blew me away like no other song I can remember.
Anyway, I played the song several times, just letting the tears roll silently until the husband found me like that 30 minutes later. Not much makes me cry. And, in my life, I don't recall a song moving me to tears.
Since then, been a rabid fan of American Aquarium's body of work. I hope the band can revive their North Carolina roots with the type of agriculture this country sure could use, and sure as hell would appreciate... 😘
Epilogue: Husband shocked me a week or so ago, coming home with our copy of this album autographed by BJ himself, who dropped in at the record plant where my husband works!! He got photos with BJ, too.
I don't think I have to tell you...
Cried my eyes out.
Best surprise gift ever...
Cynthia Conaway
My husband works at a vinyl record pressing plant. He put this song on the turntable after work—first I'd ever heard it, or of American Aquarium...
Halfway through the song, I couldn't finish the dishes. Dried my hands and snuck to the bedroom, trying to hide I was in tears. Found the video online, put the earbuds in and sat frozen; mesmerized, taking in this...thing...that this band captured in this song and video...
Zeigeist? Nostalgia? Requiem? Lament?
These words don't completely capture whatever bowled me over. If ever there was a song that is more than the sum of its parts "Me & Mine" is exactly it. The song, BJ's voice, the lyrics and the visuals in the video blew me away like no other song I can remember.
Anyway, I played the song several times, just letting the tears roll silently until the husband found me like that 30 minutes later. Not much makes me cry. And, in my life, I don't recall a song moving me to tears.
Since then, been a rabid fan of American Aquarium's body of work. I hope the band can revive their North Carolina roots with the type of agriculture this country sure could use, and sure as hell would appreciate... 😘
Epilogue: Husband shocked me a week or so ago, coming home with our copy of this album autographed by BJ himself, who dropped in at the record plant where my husband works!! He got photos with BJ, too.
I don't think I have to tell you...
Cried my eyes out.
Best surprise gift ever...
Joshua Montgomery
This hit hard. Theirs plenty of hokey country songs about the small town we all grew up in but far too few songs about how those places have basically turned into a 3rd world country.
Rich Sady
BJ Barham is amazing. I started following along with AA about a year ago, and slowly learned who BJ actually was. To say he's been an inspiration to me would be an understatement. This guy gets it.
bwmack
This song just gave me goosebumps and made my eyes water. That's all you need to know about how good this band is.
WardGuitarCabinets
One of the greatest songwriters Ive ever heard. The amount of emotion in this song gives me the goosebumps. Plus that CLASSIC AA breakdown at the end. Fuck, guys. Great job.
Paul The Nerd
I can relate to the content in this song as I sit in my home in rural Northern Ireland. Thank God there are still song writers writing for the working classes
Paul McCallion
Same
Daniel Megibben
Fun fact man, the region where this state comes from is originally composed of immigrants from N. Ireland. A ton of Ulster-Scots came to the Americas and brought their culture to our neck of the woods.
petauchin
Right on brother
vjm50
excellent songwriting - I don't usually comment on what I hear but this drew me in - felt every word you sang and wrote - it feels so relevant to all of America and all Americans - you are gifted as a writer and performer