Most children grow up in ‘phases’ – I was given no time for that. I took on the mental weight of an adult the moment I stepped out of that tiny TACA airplane… and into the rest of my life. In fact, the only evidence that I even had a childhood exists in a black 32×17 Rubbermaid trunk. I bought the trunk to protect my books, CDs, and photo albums from the Honduran heat and humidity. Today, I keep the trunk in my closet. It contains stacks of letters from my 8th grade Sunday school class… wishing me well, wishing me luck. It contains letters I wrote to myself… promising myself I would get out alive. It contains the jewelry I wore the day I was kidnapped… the photographs that were taken minutes before it happened, photographs of a dear friend who gave his life so that I could live. It contains fragments of a life that I shut away until now…
When I began writing for this album, I opened the trunk for the first time in years. The overwhelming smell of dark mahogany, coffee, and burning sugarcane (the smell of Honduras) hit me like a wall, and I knew that all the memories I’d stifled were begging to be brought to life. I also knew that I was being presented with a choice: I could let these memories, and the experiences that they represent, cuff me, paralyze me, and make me bitter… or I could turn them into something beautiful… something that other people could relate to and, hopefully, find comfort in. This is my gift.
Chocolate
Amy Kuney Lyrics
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Goodbye kisses
And all the misters
Kiss the misses
Before leaving
For the office
But we're not grieving
We've got chocolate
Any day...
I say Diamonds
You can't afford 'em
So I say mansions
You say mortgage
We start to argue
I say "You win"
You have your victory
I have my chocolate
And I'd choose it over you
Any day...
I'm leaving traces
Dirty Spoons
I'm getting careless
And pretty soon
You're gonna catch me in the act
And we'll try couples therapy
I know that won't help
Cuz if she's a woman
She'll agree with me
It's been a hard day
At the office
So I'll surprise you
In my lace pajamas
But before things
Get hot and heavy
I hear you snoring
You're fast asleep
So in the darkness
I sneak to the kitchen
Where my chocolate
Has been hiding
And I'd choose it over you
Any day....
The first verse of Amy Kuney's song "Chocolate" talks about the mundane goodbye kisses between "misters" and "misses" leaving for the office. However, the singer in the song is indulging in the sweet luxury of chocolate, which brings them more joy than the physical presence of their partner. The chorus repeats the sentiment, with the singer saying they'd choose chocolate over their partner any day.
The second verse introduces some conflict between the singer and their partner over material possessions, with the singer listing items they desire that their partner can't afford. However, the argument is resolved when the singer concedes, claiming their true desire is for chocolate. The bridge of the song takes a darker turn, with the singer realizing they've been neglectful of their relationship and will likely be caught in the act of some wrongdoing. Despite the inevitable failure of couples therapy, the singer remains committed to chocolate over their partner, even as they attempt to spice up their love life with lace pajamas.
Overall, the song "Chocolate" is a playful commentary on the fleeting nature of desire and the transience of pleasure. It's a testament to the power of simple pleasures and an acknowledgment that sometimes, it's the little things that bring us joy.
Line by Line Meaning
In the morning
Starting the day with kisses and goodbyes, knowing that chocolate is waiting at home.
Goodbye kisses
A sweet parting gesture before each person leaves for their respective workday.
And all the misters
All the married men.
Kiss the misses
The wives they're leaving behind, who will spend their day with chocolate instead.
Before leaving
Heading off to work with the promise of chocolate waiting upon returning home.
For the office
Spending a day at work, where they won't have chocolate but will have the promise of it at home.
But we're not grieving
Not upset about the separation, because chocolate awaits at home.
We've got chocolate
The comfort and joy that comes with having chocolate at home.
And I'd choose it over you
Preferring the comfort of chocolate to the emotional investment of a relationship.
Any day...
Consistently and reliably choosing chocolate over a relationship.
I say Diamonds
Desiring material goods, like diamonds.
You can't afford 'em
Being unable to attain the desired material goods.
So I say mansions
Desiring bigger and better things.
You say mortgage
Recognizing the responsibilities that come with such a desire.
We start to argue
Disagreeing over what is desired versus what is reasonable.
I say "You win"
Giving up the argument because it's not worth it.
You have your victory
The other person gets their way, even if it's not what's wanted.
I have my chocolate
The comfort of knowing that chocolate is waiting at home, regardless of the outcome of the argument.
And I'd choose it over you
Preferring the comfort of chocolate to fighting and argument in a relationship.
Any day...
Consistently and reliably choosing chocolate over fighting and disagreement.
I'm leaving traces
Being careless with the evidence of chocolate consumption.
Dirty Spoons
Leaving behind unwashed utensils, indicating that chocolate was consumed without regard for cleanliness or secrecy.
I'm getting careless
Being less concerned about hiding the chocolate consumption, indicating a lack of concern for what the partner may think.
And pretty soon
Indicating an awareness that the partner may catch on soon enough.
You're gonna catch me in the act
Knowing that the partner will eventually see the evidence first-hand.
And we'll try couples therapy
Attempting to correct the problem with professional help.
I know that won't help
Already understanding that therapy will likely not work for this issue.
Cuz if she's a woman
Expecting that the therapist will be female.
She'll agree with me
Believing that the therapist will empathize with the chocolate preferences over the relationship issues.
It's been a hard day
Acknowledging that things have been difficult throughout the day.
At the office
Referring to the challenges and stresses faced at work throughout the day.
So I'll surprise you
Trying to bring joy and excitement to the relationship regardless of the issues around chocolate consumption.
In my lace pajamas
Presenting oneself in a desirable and intimate way.
But before things
Just before jumping into bed.
Get hot and heavy
Before beginning physical intimacy.
I hear you snoring
Realizing that the partner has already fallen asleep.
You're fast asleep
The physical and emotional connection have not been achieved.
So in the darkness
After realizing the partner is asleep and intimacy is not going to happen.
I sneak to the kitchen
Heading to the secret stash of chocolate to soothe the disappointment and sadness.
Where my chocolate
The coveted stash of chocolate.
Has been hiding
Keeping the chocolate from discovery by the partner.
And I'd choose it over you
Preferring the comfort of chocolate to physical intimacy.
Any day....
Consistently and reliably choosing chocolate over physical intimacy.
Contributed by Gianna V. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
georgeta carare
Nice music,nice lyrics,great voice!
Jarbas e Jorge Oficial
canta muito
Todd Johnson
You are still my hero.👊😊
Naomi Motac
came from michelle phan her music in her videos are so unique
ari Marinez
Yo vine por el vídeo de Make love to My self
LiliBeeth G
X2🙊