Lover
And You Lyrics


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Love, love, love, love
Love, love, love, love
Love, love, love, love
Love, love, love

My lover has no heart
Magic moving blood around that body
He's cool to the touch
I don't see him much
But when I do, he does nothing for me
Persona-driven pleasure
And that's how he gets around
He placed me right before the fire
But I didn't want to
I knew how quickly my skin would burn

Fire on stone versus fire on flesh
My lover wins the contest
Can you imagine trying to get
Some satisfaction out of a stone?
One would have to wait their whole life and
I resent you for that
A swing and a miss
I weighed all the risks
When I agreed to this charade in the night

My lover, the time has come
I hate to break it to you in this way
Don't ask me
Stop snooping around
Spare me any talk of your future life
I don't know what I'll do without you
Take up worship at some mile's end?
But you said betrayal and pride
And then you took your time
And now I gotta spell it out for you

O, I'll only say this once
V, I'm very sensitive
E, everything's a mess
R, I'm repenting that L 'cause, 'cause it's over
My lover, it's over because

Early is early, late is late
My lover, I got no faith
Can you imagine trying to get
Some satisfaction out of a stone?
One would have to wait their whole life and
I don't got time for that
A swing and a miss
I tried for the hit




I got my thrill
Now get me off of this ride

Overall Meaning

The song "Lover" by And You is a melancholic and reflective piece that explores the complexities and emotional turmoil in a romantic relationship. The lyrics "Love, love, love, love" sung repeatedly at the beginning and end of the song underscore the central theme of the song which is love. The singer in the song reveals that their lover has no heart, and despite having a body with magic moving blood, their partner is cold to the touch. Even though they don't see their lover often, when they do, they feel nothing for them. The singer acknowledges that their relationship is superficial and persona-driven, and their partner appears to manipulate and control them. The lines "Persona-driven pleasure, And that's how he gets around. He placed me right before the fire, But I didn't want to" suggest a power dynamic imbalance in the relationship.


In the chorus, the singer hints at a difficult decision they have to make, telling their lover "My lover, the time has come. I hate to break it to you in this way. Don't ask me. Stop snooping around. Spare me any talk of your future life." They are unhappy in the relationship and cannot continue with their charade any longer. The lines "But you said betrayal and pride, And then you took your time, And now I gotta spell it out for you" suggest that there may have been infidelity and betrayal in the relationship that led to its breakdown. The singer spells out the word "lover" to express their emotions, which signals the end of the relationship.


Overall, "Lover" is a poignant song that evokes feelings of pain, disillusionment, and heartbreak. The singer's decision to end their superficial and manipulative relationship is an act of self-preservation and liberation.


Line by Line Meaning

Love, love, love, love
Repeated usage of the word love to emphasize the strong feeling of affection.


My lover has no heart
The persona's lover lacks empathy and compassion.


Magic moving blood around that body
The persona's lover is alive and functioning because of the circulation of blood in his body.


He's cool to the touch
The persona's lover is distant and unresponsive in their physical interaction.


I don't see him much
The persona's lover is not often around or accessible to them.


But when I do, he does nothing for me
The persona's lover's presence does not bring any positive feeling or joy to them.


Persona-driven pleasure
The persona's lover is motivated solely by their own desires and satisfaction.


And that's how he gets around
The persona's lover relies on their own selfishness to navigate their relationship.


He placed me right before the fire
The persona's lover put them in a dangerous or risky situation.


But I didn't want to
The persona was not willing to accept the lover's risk.


I knew how quickly my skin would burn
The persona had prior knowledge of the potential harm that could result from the lover's action.


Fire on stone versus fire on flesh
An analogy to compare the hardness of stone to the vulnerability of flesh.


My lover wins the contest
The persona's lover defeats the persona in a competition between safety and danger.


Can you imagine trying to get
A rhetorical question to express the difficulty in gaining satisfaction from something unfeeling.


Some satisfaction out of a stone?
An analogy to represent the inability to connect emotionally with a person lacking feelings.


One would have to wait their whole life and
An expression of how long it would take to gain fulfillment from a non-feeling object.


I resent you for that
The persona feels bitterness towards the lover for not having genuine emotions.


A swing and a miss
A baseball reference used to illustrate the persona's failure in their relationship with the lover.


I weighed all the risks
The persona has contemplated the potential dangers of the lover's actions.


When I agreed to this charade in the night
The persona went along with the lover's scheme under the guise of darkness or secrecy.


My lover, the time has come
The persona is addressing the lover in preparation for a significant announcement.


I hate to break it to you in this way
The persona acknowledges the discomfort that will come from their confession.


Don't ask me
The persona does not want to answer any questions from the lover at this moment.


Stop snooping around
The persona is asking the lover to end their nosy behavior.


Spare me any talk of your future life
The persona does not want to hear or discuss the lover's future plans.


I don't know what I'll do without you
The persona is uncertain how they will manage their life without the lover's presence.


Take up worship at some mile's end?
The persona proposes a hyperbolic idea of reverting to worship to find solace.


But you said betrayal and pride
The persona refers to the lover's prior communication about betrayal and pride.


And then you took your time
The lover has a history of delaying their actions or responses.


And now I gotta spell it out for you
The persona is now tasked with making their point clear to the lover.


O, I'll only say this once
The persona is expressing the gravity of their message by emphasizing its one-time delivery.


V, I'm very sensitive
The persona is making it known that they are highly emotional.


E, everything's a mess
The persona's life and emotions are in complete disarray.


R, I'm repenting that L 'cause, 'cause it's over
The persona regrets their decision to love the lover and indicates that their relationship is now over.


My lover, it's over because
The singular reason for the end of their relationship is about to be revealed.


Early is early, late is late
The persona is attempting to state an objective fact that time cannot be rewound.


My lover, I got no faith
The persona no longer trusts the lover and is expressing their lack of belief or confidence.


I don't got time for that
The persona is expressing their unwillingness to wait for the lover to change.


A swing and a miss
The persona reiterates, using the same phrase as before, their failure in their relationship with the lover.


I tried for the hit
The persona attempted to achieve a successful relationship with the lover.


I got my thrill
The persona gained excitement or joy from their relationship, despite its eventual failure.


Now get me off of this ride
The persona is ready to end the relationship and move on, quite possibly feeling trapped in this relationship so far.




Lyrics © WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC, Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: Maximilian Ross Turnbull, Meg Remy

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@TheGroovyGuitarDude

For anyone who wants to play this on guitar, here's how :)


- Standard Tuning - No Capo -


- Structure Of The Song -
Verse, Chorus, Verse, Chorus, Bridge, Chorus


- Verse Chords, Strum Pattern, & Picking -
G, D/F#, Cadd9, Cadd9*


For the chords WITHOUT *, strum - ↓↓↓↓↓↓
For the chord WITH a *, strum - ↓↓↓


At the end of the chord progression, play this short walk-down on the A string on the way back to the G chord:
E|
A| 3 2 0


- Chorus Chords & Strum Patterns -
Play the Verse chords, strum patterns, and picking THREE TIMES, then...


G, D/F#, Em, G/B, Cadd9, Cadd9 (ONCE)


For each chord, strum - ↓↓↓


- Bridge Chords & Strum Patterns -
G, D/F#, Em, F
Cadd9, G/B, Am7, D/F#


Repeat the above TWICE, then...
G, Dm, Cadd9, Cadd9
Am7, Am7, D/F#, D/F#


Play this ONCE!


For every chord, strum - ↓↓↓↓↓↓


Hope this helps out! If you get stuck or need a little extra help, I just posted a video tutorial for this on my channel :)



@hodiau016

We could leave the Christmas lights up 'til January
And this is our place - we make the rules
And there's a dazzling haze, a mysterious way about you, dear
Have I known you twenty seconds or twenty years?

Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close?
Forever and ever and, ah
Take me out, and take me home
You're my, my, my, my lover

We could let our friends crash in the living room
This is our place - we make the call
And I'm highly suspicious that everyone who sees you wants you
I've loved you three summers now, honey, but I want 'em all

Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close?
Forever and ever and, ah
Take me out, and take me home
You're my, my, my, my lover

Ladies and gentlemen, will you please stand?
With every guitar string scar on my hand
I take this magnetic force of a man to be my lover
My heart's been borrowed and yours has been blue
All's well that ends well, to end up with you
Swear to be overdramatic and true to my lover
And you'll say all your dirtiest jokes for me
And at every table I'll save you a seat, lover

Can I go where you go?
Can we always be this close?
Forever and ever and, ah
Take me out, and take me home
You're my, my, my, my
Oh, you're my, my, my, my
Darling, you're my, my, my, my lover



All comments from YouTube:

@TheGroovyGuitarDude

For anyone who wants to play this on guitar, here's how :)


- Standard Tuning - No Capo -


- Structure Of The Song -
Verse, Chorus, Verse, Chorus, Bridge, Chorus


- Verse Chords, Strum Pattern, & Picking -
G, D/F#, Cadd9, Cadd9*


For the chords WITHOUT *, strum - ↓↓↓↓↓↓
For the chord WITH a *, strum - ↓↓↓


At the end of the chord progression, play this short walk-down on the A string on the way back to the G chord:
E|
A| 3 2 0


- Chorus Chords & Strum Patterns -
Play the Verse chords, strum patterns, and picking THREE TIMES, then...


G, D/F#, Em, G/B, Cadd9, Cadd9 (ONCE)


For each chord, strum - ↓↓↓


- Bridge Chords & Strum Patterns -
G, D/F#, Em, F
Cadd9, G/B, Am7, D/F#


Repeat the above TWICE, then...
G, Dm, Cadd9, Cadd9
Am7, Am7, D/F#, D/F#


Play this ONCE!


For every chord, strum - ↓↓↓↓↓↓


Hope this helps out! If you get stuck or need a little extra help, I just posted a video tutorial for this on my channel :)

@omgitsmadihereilovepizza5523

Uhh can you play clarinet I play clarinet not what this is...

@qulas23195

thank you

@konman4345

That's very sweet of you for sharing the cords here.Thank You!

@fallenhylian5964

Idk what you wrote, i only hear the song and i can play it

@sp1d3rw3bzz

@@omgitsmadihereilovepizza5523 same here

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@giaskye2850

“Can I go where you go? Can we always be this close forever and ever?” That hits different man 😭😭😭😭

@anelayala8187

It does :(

@SeaStrokes_FNQ

Did you just called me “Bro”? That hurts

@phaise8226

Ai dedicated this to me

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