Here nor There
Andy Stochansky Lyrics


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Did you ever want to go
Leave love to those who know
Did you ever say
I'm stuck in the middle

Or the fear of being hurt
The one you loved could be so curt
And then you say I'm stuck in the middle

So remember this
It's from now it was the kiss
From the day you were
Stuck in the middle

Did you ever close your eyes
Did you let him walk by
Think to yourself
This is going nowhere

Did you ever need to know
If he could love you so
But then you said
This is going nowhere

So remember this
It's from now it was the kiss
On the day you were
Stuck in the middle

Please don't pretend
Not tonight, not ever
Please don't pretend
Not tonight, not ever
Please don't pretend
This will not end..

Did you ever need to know
If he could love you so
But then he says I'm stuck in the middle
But then he says I'm stuck in the middle





But then he says

Overall Meaning

I'm stuck in the middle


The lyrics of Andy Stochansky's song Here nor There portray a person who is uncertain about their relationship and is contemplating leaving it behind. The first two lines express the desire to move on from love and leave it to those who are more capable of handling it. The following lines describe the fear of being hurt and the realization that the person is stuck in the middle of a relationship that is going nowhere. The chorus serves as a reminder that it all started with a kiss and the person is now stuck in the middle of an unfulfilling relationship.


The second verse delves even deeper into the uncertainty of the relationship, with the person questioning if their partner truly loves them. The lyrics convey the feeling of being in a relationship that is stagnant and not progressing. The bridge of the song serves as a plea for the partner to be honest and not pretend that the relationship will not end.


Overall, the lyrics of Here nor There express the frustration and confusion that come with being in a stagnant and unfulfilling relationship. The person in the song is contemplating leaving the relationship behind, but is also struggling with the fear of being hurt and the uncertainty of whether their partner truly loves them.


Line by Line Meaning

Did you ever want to go
Have you ever felt the strong desire to leave your current situation?


Leave love to those who know
Leave the complexities of love to those who have experienced and understand it.


Did you ever say
Have you ever stated or expressed your feelings aloud?


I'm stuck in the middle
Feeling trapped or indecisive between two options or situations.


Or the fear of being hurt
Feeling apprehensive about the possibility of emotional pain.


The one you loved could be so curt
Worrying that the person you love may be harsh or brief in their communication with you.


And then you say I'm stuck in the middle
Continuing to feel indecisive or trapped in a difficult situation.


So remember this
Take note of what is being said next.


It's from now it was the kiss
The pivotal moment that defined your current situation was the kiss that occurred in the past.


From the day you were
Since the day you experienced that kiss.


Did you ever close your eyes
Have you ever denied or avoided the reality of a situation?


Did you let him walk by
Did you allow the opportunity or person you desired to pass by and leave your life?


Think to yourself
Reflecting or considering your own thoughts and feelings privately.


This is going nowhere
Realizing that the situation you are in has no potential for positive progress or growth.


Did you ever need to know
Have you ever required confirmation or proof of someone's love for you?


If he could love you so
Wondering if the person you desire is capable of loving you fully.


But then you said
However, you ultimately decided to say or do something.


This is going nowhere
Again acknowledging that the situation has no potential for positive growth or progress.


Please don't pretend
Urging someone to refrain from denying reality or pretending that everything is okay when it is not.


Not tonight, not ever
This behavior is not acceptable now or in the future.


This will not end..
Implying that the difficult situation will not reach a satisfying conclusion or resolution.


But then he says I'm stuck in the middle
But then the person you desire also expresses feeling trapped or indecisive in the situation.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: ANDY STOCHANSKY, IAN LEFEUVRE

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