How Insensitive
Andy Williams Lyrics


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How insensitive, I must have seemed
When she told me that she loved me
How unmoved and cold, I must have seemed
When she told me so sincerely

Why she must have asked?
Did I just turn and stare in icy silence?
What was I to say? What can you say
When a love affair is over?

How insensitive, he must have seemed
When she told me that she loved him
How unmoved and cold, he must have seemed
When she told him so sincerely

Why she must have asked?
Did he just turn and stare in icy silence?
What was she to say? What can he say
When a love affair is over?

Now she's gone away
And I'm alone with a memory of her last look
Vague and drawn and sad, I see it still
All her heartbreak in that last look

How she must have asked
Could I just turn and stare in icy silence?




What was I to do? What can one do
When a love affair is over?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to How Insensitive by Andy Williams display the aftermath of a love affair that has ended. The song highlights the cold and unmoved nature of the singer when their partner claims to love them. The singer describes the scenario and the emotional disconnect that transpires during the event. The singer reflects on the seemingly nonchalant reaction they had towards their partner's confession, and how that reaction may have affected their partner. The singer is forced to deal with the heartbreak and loneliness that follows after a failed relationship.


The song is about the aftermath of a love affair and serves as a reminder of how hurtful and damaging our actions can be in a relationship. The lyrics provide a powerful message about how we should treat our loved ones and the importance of good communication, as well as how it will help build stronger relationships. The feeling of regret and remorse is evident in the singer's tone, emphasizing the negative impact of insensitive actions during the end of a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

How insensitive, I must have seemed
I realize now that I came across as very heartless and unsympathetic


When she told me that she loved me
I didn't respond in the way she wanted when she said she loved me


How unmoved and cold, I must have seemed
I must have appeared as emotionless and uncaring


When she told me so sincerely
Even though she spoke from the heart


Why she must have asked?
It's not surprising that she had to question my reaction


Did I just turn and stare in icy silence?
It appears that I simply froze up and didn't know how to respond


What was I to say? What can you say
I was completely lost for words and didn't know how to react


When a love affair is over?
It's tough to come up with the right response when a relationship comes to an end


Now she's gone away
Since she's left, I realized how much I had taken her for granted


And I'm alone with a memory of her last look
The only thing I have left of her is the memory of her final expression


Vague and drawn and sad, I see it still
It's still very clear in my mind how she looked - sad and distant


All her heartbreak in that last look
The expression she gave me showed me how much pain she was in


How she must have asked
I'm sure she was wondering why I couldn't show more emotion and care


Could I just turn and stare in icy silence?
Did I seriously come across as so cold and distant?


What was I to do? What can one do
I was totally lost and didn't know how to make things better


When a love affair is over?
The end of a relationship is never easy, and it can be hard to know how to proceed




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Antonio Carlos Jobim, Norman Gimbel, Vinicius De Moraes

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