The Waiting
Angel Olsen Lyrics


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Here you come along
I take a breath and remind myself that I too can be strong
Thought I was cool
Turns out I'm a fool
Clearly you've proved me wrong
I didn't know what I was missing when I was alone

And now I'm fruitlessly waiting for
Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
Someone to run not walk
Oh, someone to sing not talk
Oh, no hesitation at all
Sometimes I need you to be the one to call

Well I'm lost in my thoughts
They tumble ahead
Over and over again
Yeah it's true

Just take a look at what's been done to me
I've wasted time to ponder
Here I am now all Alice in Wonder
Partly I do this to myself, but why can't you see?
The gesture is small, but know that it means the world to me

Oh, forgive me for wanting, I'm only learning
I've forgiven myself and now there's no returning
I want to be the one who knows the best way
I want to be the one who knows the best way
I want to be the one who knows the best way to love you

But now I'm foolishly waiting for
Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
Someone to run not walk
Oh, someone to sing not talk
Oh, no hesitation at all
Sometimes I need you to be the one to call
I need you to be the one
I need you to be the one
I need you to be the one




Oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh oh

Overall Meaning

The song "The Waiting" by Angel Olsen is about the struggle of waiting for someone to reciprocate your love and affection in the same way that you love them. The lyrics express the feelings of vulnerability and insecurity that come along with being in a one-sided relationship, where you are constantly giving more than you receive. The first verse talks about how the singer thought they were cool and strong until they met someone who proved them wrong, and now they realize that they were missing something while they were alone. The second verse is about the singer's inner thoughts, wondering why they can't seem to make the other person see how much they care. The chorus repeats the idea of wanting someone to show their love and affection without hesitation, to be the one who calls and runs to show how important the relationship is.


The bridge of the song acknowledges that the singer is still learning and growing, but they have forgiven themselves for their mistakes and want to be the one who knows the best way to love the other person. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, emphasizing the strong desire to have the other person reciprocate their feelings.


Overall, the song's message of waiting for someone to love you back is universal and relatable, and Olsen's powerful vocals convey the emotions behind the lyrics in a hauntingly beautiful way.


Line by Line Meaning

Here you come along
The singer acknowledges the arrival of an individual in their life.


I take a breath and remind myself that I too can be strong
The singer prepares themselves to handle the challenges that come with this person's presence and encourages themselves to be resilient.


Thought I was cool
The singer assumed that they were composed, unbothered and unaffected by love.


Turns out I'm a fool
The person has shattered the artist's perceived self-confidence through affection.


Clearly you've proved me wrong
The artist admits that they were misguided in their original judgement.


I didn't know what I was missing when I was alone
The singer was unaware of the void that exists in their life before this new person came along.


And now I'm fruitlessly waiting for
The singer is wasting time without necessary action from their partner.


Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
The artist craves someone who considers them a priority and takes the initiative to show their affection.


Someone to run not walk
The artist desires the person to be expressive and responsive to their attraction.


Oh, someone to sing not talk
The person is requested to express their love and affection through actions and not words.


Oh, no hesitation at all
The singer wants the person to be confident in their attraction and feelings.


Sometimes I need you to be the one to call
The artist desires the person to initiate communication at times and not wait for them to reach out.


Well I'm lost in my thoughts
The singer is introspective and struggling to comprehend their feelings.


They tumble ahead
The singer's thoughts and emotions are continually racing.


Over and over again
The singer is experiencing the same thoughts and obsessions repeatedly.


Yeah it's true
The artist's thoughts are a complete reflection of their current reality.


Just take a look at what's been done to me
The artist has been influenced and affected by the person's presence in their life.


I've wasted time to ponder
The singer has dedicated a significant amount of time to contemplate their own emotions and feelings.


Here I am now all Alice in Wonder
The singer feels like they are lost in a fantastical, unfamiliar world and unable to navigate through their own emotions.


Partly I do this to myself, but why can't you see?
The artist feels responsible for their own emotional state, but also wishes that their partner could recognize and understand their plight.


The gesture is small, but know that it means the world to me
The artist acknowledges the significance of small , meaningful gestures in their relationship.


Oh, forgive me for wanting, I'm only learning
The artist acknowledges their own desire for affection and attraction and understands that they are still learning about it.


I've forgiven myself and now there's no returning
The singer has let go of their past doubts and apprehensions and is willing to move forward in the relationship without any reservations.


I want to be the one who knows the best way
The artist yearns to be the one who can fully comprehend the intricacies and nuances of the relationship.


I need you to be the one
The singer requires the person to take action and initiative to help the relationship flourish.


Oh oh oh oh oh oh
The singer expresses vocal cadence to signify their emotions about the relationship.




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing
Written by: ANGEL L. OLSEN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@slater4305

Here you come along
I take a breath and remind myself that I too can be strong
Thought I was cool
Turns out I'm a fool
Clearly you've proved me wrong
I didn't know what I was missing when I was alone

And now I'm fruitlessly waiting for
Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
Someone to run not walk
Oh, someone to sing not talk
Oh, no hesitation at all
Sometimes I need you to be the one to call

Well I'm lost in my thoughts
They tumble ahead
Over and over again
Yeah it's true

Just take a look at what's been done to me
I've wasted time to ponder
Here I am now all Alice in Wonder
Partly I do this to myself, but why can't you see?
The gesture is small, but know that it means the world to me

Oh, forgive me for wanting, I'm only learning
I've forgiven myself and now there's no returning
I want to be the one who knows the best way
I want to be the one who knows the best way
I want to be the one who knows the best way to love you

But now I'm foolishly waiting for
Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
Someone to run not walk
Oh, someone to sing not talk
Oh, no hesitation at all
Sometimes I need you to be the one to call
I need you to be the one
I need you to be the one
I need you to be the one
Oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh oh



All comments from YouTube:

@getintherobotshinji

"I want to be
the one who knows the best way
to love you."

wow.

@pontifex4749

Damn.

@LATNG2

"best song of the decade" - a melon

@00sra

I have no clue how I found this song but it’s so beautiful and addicting!

@AwsmUsername

Started listening to her songs again and got reminded why I had such fascination for her and her music before. Nothing is changed, it has the same magical appeal. What a divine artist Angel is!

@slater4305

Here you come along
I take a breath and remind myself that I too can be strong
Thought I was cool
Turns out I'm a fool
Clearly you've proved me wrong
I didn't know what I was missing when I was alone

And now I'm fruitlessly waiting for
Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
Someone to run not walk
Oh, someone to sing not talk
Oh, no hesitation at all
Sometimes I need you to be the one to call

Well I'm lost in my thoughts
They tumble ahead
Over and over again
Yeah it's true

Just take a look at what's been done to me
I've wasted time to ponder
Here I am now all Alice in Wonder
Partly I do this to myself, but why can't you see?
The gesture is small, but know that it means the world to me

Oh, forgive me for wanting, I'm only learning
I've forgiven myself and now there's no returning
I want to be the one who knows the best way
I want to be the one who knows the best way
I want to be the one who knows the best way to love you

But now I'm foolishly waiting for
Someone not thinking before they start rushing to my door
Someone to run not walk
Oh, someone to sing not talk
Oh, no hesitation at all
Sometimes I need you to be the one to call
I need you to be the one
I need you to be the one
I need you to be the one
Oh oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh oh

@finchsticks4962

“The gesture is small, but know that it means the world to me” gets me every time

@willmclean6428

she says it so powerfully, i love it

@finchsticks4962

@@willmclean6428 mhm!!!

@XxAmigo

Well, i'm lost in this song, the words tumble in my head, over and over again <3

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