As Is
Ani DiFranco Lyrics


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You can't hide
Behind social graces
So don't try
To be all touchy feely
'Cause you lie
In my face of all places
But I got no
Problem with that really
What bugs me
Is that you believe what you're saying
What bothers me
Is that you don't know how you feel
What scares me
Is that while you're telling me stories
You actually
Believe that they are real

And I got no illusions about you

Guess what
I never did
When I said
When I said I'll take it
I mean
I mean as is
As is, as is, as is, as is
As is, as is, as is

Just give up
And admit you're an asshole
You would be in some good company
And I think you'd find
That your friends would forgive you
Or maybe I
Am just speaking for me

'Cause when I look around
I think this, this is good enough
And I try to laugh
At whatever life brings
'Cause when I look down
I just miss all the good stuff
And when I look up
I just trip over things
And I got no illusions about you

Guess what
I never did
When I say
When I say I'll take it
I mean
I mean as is
As is, as is, as is
As is, as is, as is




As is, as is, as is
As is, as is

Overall Meaning

In the song As Is, Ani DiFranco calls out someone who is trying to hide their true feelings with social graces and false niceties. She confronts them for lying to her face and for believing their own stories. Ani seems to have no problem with the fact that this person is lying, but what bothers her is that they don't know how they truly feel. It scares her that this person is so convinced of their own lies that they believe them to be real.


Ani's perspective shifts in the second verse as she suggests that this person should give up trying to pretend and just admit that they're an asshole. She acknowledges that she too has flaws and limitations, but the difference is that she owns them and accepts herself "as is." She brings up the idea that perhaps others would forgive this person if they were just truthful and genuine.


Overall, the song seems to be about the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance. Ani is unapologetically herself and encourages others to do the same. While she acknowledges that life can be difficult and messy, she believes that it's important to face reality head-on and find a way to laugh at the absurdity of it all.


Line by Line Meaning

You can't hide
You cannot conceal your true self


Behind social graces
Despite your manners, your personality comes through


So don't try
Do not attempt to hide


To be all touchy feely
Being affectionate will not hide your true nature


'Cause you lie
You are dishonest


In my face of all places
You are lying blatantly to me


But I got no
I do not have any


Problem with that really
I am not bothered by it


What bugs me
What annoys me


Is that you believe what you're saying
You genuinely believe the lies you tell


What bothers me
What upsets me


Is that you don't know how you feel
You are confused about your own emotions


What scares me
What frightens me


Is that while you're telling me stories
While you are sharing your experiences with me


You actually
You truly


Believe that they are real
You consider them to be genuine


And I got no illusions about you
I am not deluded about your character


Guess what
Do you know what


I never did
I never had


When I said
When I expressed


When I said I'll take it
When I agreed to accept the situation


I mean
I am referring to


I mean as is
I am willing to accept the situation as it is


As is, as is, as is, as is
Exactly as you presented it


Just give up
Abandon your falsehoods


And admit you're an asshole
Confess that you are an unpleasant person


You would be in some good company
There are many like you


And I think you'd find
You may discover


That your friends would forgive you
Your acquaintances would still accept you


Or maybe I
Perhaps I


Am just speaking for me
I am only expressing my views


'Cause when I look around
Because when I observe my surroundings


I think this, this is good enough
I consider this satisfactory


And I try to laugh
I attempt to find humor


At whatever life brings
in all situations


'Cause when I look down
When I lower my gaze


I just miss all the good stuff
I overlook what is enjoyable


And when I look up
When I raise my eyes


I just trip over things
I stumble upon obstacles


As is, as is, as is
Exactly as it is presented


As is, as is, as is
Exactly as it is presented


As is, as is
Exactly as it is presented




Lyrics © A SIDE MUSIC LLC D/B/A MODERN WORKS MUSIC PUBLISHING
Written by: ANI DIFRANCO

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Comments from YouTube:

Eric

I'm a dude. I'm not gay. I love Ani. Her lyrics are poetic, thought provoking, and of course, beautiful. Thanks to my sis for introducing me when we were kids. I'm a better person for it.

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Yea, there's a few of us lol. She's a badass!

Mark M

I don't think that she would judge you for your orientation. And I don't think that the majority of her fans would either.
She is a righteous babe and her fans should appreciate that and her presented opinion on this: do what what works for you.

It Always Matters

So, she is not gay what the hell does orientation have to do with anything?

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F**k yeah! I ❤that you can appreciate her like all her fans do. There are stereotypes some people have made. We are all better people for listening to her music. It's beautiful

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Minuit Bast

I love the song, but it's only when I actually paid attention to the lyrics that I realized how sweet this song is.

JoMo Mo

Her songs always make me feel strong, raw and in that also beautifully fragile. Thankyou Ani!

yaryar1976

if youre having probs dealing with the diversities of people around you,Ani can certainly help put them into an acceptable perspective.she can teach a person that the world doesnt revovle around them,and also to accept people as they are,whether you like them or not.

Mitch Quintana

This is a beautiful song! I'm glad I discovered it.

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